In order to improve relationship with others, you need to be aware of several sensible ways to complain. 1 , you need to be specific. Don’t say, “Boy, did you 2 like a fool at the party?” Instead, say, “You embarrassed me by getting 3 and loud and telling offensive jokes to my parents.” Secondly, stick to the present. Don’t mention old offences from last month or last year. By doing this, you 4 attention from the problem at hand. Moreover, 5 you complain, don’t add insults. If you start calling the other person names, that will 6 create anger and hurt any chance of getting the person to really 7 you. A last point to remember is to complain privately. Never criticize the other person in front of friends, parents, children, or anyone else, for that 8 . Criticizing in front of a third party has the same effect as 9 . This shames the person being criticized and makes it very likely that the person will want to attack you orally rather than listen to you.
Sensible ways to Complain:
Be specific
Stick to the present
10
Complain privately
1.
A.To start with B.Frankly speaking C.Anyway D.Needless to say
A.conduct B.play C.do D.act
A.upset B.bored C.delighted D.drunk
A.take away B.set off C.draw up D.catch up
A.before B.after C.when D.unless
A.even B.never C.only D.still
A.listen to B.work for C.look after D.wait on
A.time B.matter C.person D.party
A.jokes B.insults C.criticism D.embarrassment
A.Don’t add insults B.Don’t mention old offenses C.Don’t lose temper D.Don’t tell embarrassing jokes
完形填空(共20小题;每小题1.5分,满分30分)
阅读下面短文,从短文后各题所给的四个选项(A、B、C和D)中,选出可以填入空白处的最佳选项,并在答题卡上将该项涂黑。
It had been a tiring day and I was looking forward to a quiet evening. My __36__ would not be back until late and I had __37__ to sit comfortably in a chair in the _38___ room and read a good book. I put the children to bed _39__ and prepared a cup of coffee for myself. Soon I was seated comfortably with my__40___ in front of me and the sandwich and the cup of coffee on a small table beside me.
I was just beginning to __41__ the food when the telephone rang. I put down my book and hurried to __42___ it. By the time I got back to the living room, my coffee was__43__. I ate the sandwich and begin__44___ cold coffee with the book _45___ open to the front page. _46___ there was a loud knock at the front_47___. It surprised me so much that I spilled (洒)some coffee on my skirt. The man at the door was looking __48___ a certain address and __49___ me to give him some information. It _50___ me a long time to explain something to him. After that , I sat down again and __51__ to read a whole page without further interruption(打扰) --- until the baby woke up. He started __52__ at the top of his voice, __53__ I run upstairs quickly. He was still awake at 11 o’clock when my husband came back. I really wanted to throw something __54____ him when he asked me if I had spent a ___55____ evening.
A.mother B.husband C.children D.sister
A.said B.told C.decided D.considered
A.living B.bed C.reading D.waiting
A.late B.early C.quickly D.slowly
A.baby B.dog C.TV D.book
A.watch B.see C.eat D.listen
A.receive B.take C.hold D.answer
A.cold B.hot C.gone D.missing
A.finding B.drinking C.changing D.throwing
A.yet B.already C.still D.was
A.Heavily B.Angrily C.Certainly D.Suddenly
A.door B.window C.street D.room
A.at B.for C.up D.after
A.wanted B.liked C.suggested D.hoped
A.spent B.cost C.took D.used
A.finished B.allowed C.began D.managed
A.crying B.shouting C.singing D.talking
A.and B.so C.as D.till
A.to B.on C.at D.for
A.troubling B.busy C.sad D.happy
阅读下面的短文,掌握其大意,然后从下列各题所给的四个选项(A、B、C和D)中,选出最佳选项,并在答题纸上将该项涂黑。
Animals perform many useful and amusing jobs. Dogs are particularly valuable in guiding the blind, 31 property(财产), finding 32 people, and hunting criminals(犯人). Horses are used in guarding herds(牧群),carrying men in lands where there are no roads, and helping farmers work their land. Pigeons(鸽子) 33 to carry messages. Wild animals from the jungles, forests and seas are very popular performers in 34 and motion pictures(电影). People realize that, 35 animals may not have the same intelligence(智慧) as 36 , they are clever enough to learn certain things.
The first thing a dog is taught is to 37 . It should not 38 too 1ong for him to learn commands. Simple orders, such as “sit, lie down,stay there, come here, ” can 39 be taught by a child.
Training a dog to be a watchdog often produces unexpected results. Some dogs quickly learn the difference 40 unwanted people and friends. This is 41 their masters welcome friends and invite them into their houses. However, some dogs will always 42 the postman who comes to 43 letters. One explanation for this behavior is that, although the postman comes to the house often, he never 44 the house. Therefore, the dog thinks the postman is someone 45 is not wanted, but keeps 46 back anyway.
Dogs are extremely useful as 47 for blind people. When a dog has been properly trained, he will lead his blind master in the right direction and keep him 48 danger. For example, seeing eye dogs 49a busy road when cars are coming, 50 their masters command(命令) them to do so.
A.saving B.helping C.making D.protecting
A.lost B.losing C.loss D.missed
A.have long used B.have long been used C.have long been using D.are long being used
A.cinemas B.theatres C.museums D.circuses(马戏团)
A.although B.as C.since D.because
A.children B.human being C.human beings D.students
B.order C.do D.study
A.spend B.take C.use D.want
A.still B.though C.enough D.even
A.from B.between C.among D.with
A.because of B.due to C.why D.because
A.beat B.protest C.attack D.eat
A.deliver B.give C.post D.fetch
A.enters B.enters into C.gets D.arrives to
A.he B.who C.whom D.which
A.come B.to come C.from coming D.coming
A.companies B.companions(同伴) C.men D.colleagues(同事)
A.out from B.out C.out of D.out by
A.learn never to across B.learn to never cross C.never learn to cross D.learn never to cross
A.even B.if C.even if D.because
Born in America, I spoke English, not Chinese, the language of my ancestors. When I was three, my parents flashed cards with Chinese 21 at my face, but I pushed them 22 . My mom believed I would learn 23 I was ready. But the 24 never came.
On a Chinese New Year’s Eve, my uncle spoke to me in Chinese, but all I could do was 25 at him, confused, scratching my head. “Still can’t speak Chinese?” He 26 me , “You can’t even buy a fish in Chinatown .”
“Hey, this is America, not China. I’ll get some 27 with or without Chinese.” I replied and turned to my mom for 28 .
“Remember to ask for fresh fish, Xin Xian Yu,” she said, handing over a $20 bill. I 29 the words, running downstairs into the streets of Chinatown.
I found the fish 30 surrounded in a sea of customers. “I’d like to buy some fresh fish,” I shouted to the fisherman. But he 31 my English words and turned to serve the next customer. The laugh of the people behind increased 32 their impatience. With every 33 ,the breath of the dragons on my back grew stronger—my blood boiling— 34 me to cry out. “ Xian Sheng Yu, please.” “Very Xian Shen ,” I repeated. The crowd erupted into laughter. My face turned 35 and I ran back home 36 , except for the $20 bill I held tightly in my pocket.
Should I laugh or cry? They’re Chinese. I should feel right at 37 . Instead, I was the joke , a disgrace (丢脸)to the language.
Sometimes, I laugh at my fish 38 , but, in the end, the joke is on 39 . Every laugh is a culture 40 ; every laugh is my heritage (传统) fading away.
A.custom B.games C.characters D.language
A.ahead B.around C.along D.aside
A.when B.before C.unless D.until
A.success B.study C.time D.attempt
A.aim B.joke C.nod D.stare
A.cared about B.laughed at C.argued with D.asked after
A.right now B.from now C.at times D.in time
A.decision B.permission C.information D.preparation
A.repeated B.reviewed C.spelled D.kept
A.farm B.stand C.pond D.market
A.guessed B.forget C.doubted D.ignored[来
A.by B.as C.with D.from
A.second B.effort C.desire D.movement
A.forcing B.allowing C.persuading D.leading
A.bright B.blank C.pale D.red
A.open-mouthed B.tongue-tied C.empty-handed D.broken-hearted
A.service B.home C.risk D.root
A.trade B.deed C.challenge D.incident
A.it B.us C.me D.them
A.thrown B.lost C.divided D.reflected
完型填空 (共20小题,每小题1分,满分20分)
I was tired and hungry after a long day of work. When I walked into the living room, my 12-year-old son looked __26__ at me and said, “I love you.” I didn’t know what to say. __27__ several seconds all I could do was to stand there and __28__ down at him. My first thought was that he must need __29__ with his homework or he was trying to __30__ me for some news. Finally I asked, “What was that all about?”
“Nothing.” He said, “My teacher said we should __31__ our parents that we love them and see what they say. It’s a(n) __32__.”
The next day I called his teacher to __33__ more about this “experiment” and how the other parents had __34__.
“Basically, most of the fathers had the __35__ reaction as you did.” The teacher said, “When I first __36__ we try this, I asked the children what they thought their parents would say. Some of them thought their parents would have heart trouble.” “The __37__ is,” the teacher explained, “feeling loved is an important part of __38__. It’s something all human beings __39__. What I’m trying to tell the children is that it’s too __40__ that we don’t all express those feelings. A boy should be __41__ to tell his dad that he loves him.”
The teacher, a middle-aged man, understands how __42__ it is for some of us to say the things that would be good for us to say.
When my son came to me that evening, I held on to him for __43__ second. And just __44__ he pulled away, I said in my deepest, most manly voice, “Hey, I love you, too.”
I don’t know if saying that made either of us healthier, but it did feel pretty good. Maybe next time if my child says “I love you”, it would not take me a whole day to think of the right __45__.
A.down B.away C.out D.up
A.After B.For C.At D.On
A.glance B.glare C.stare D.watch
A.patience B.time C.help D.paper
A.report B.prepare C.answer D.apologize
A.help B.ask C.tell D.make
A.thing B.experiment C.word D.sentence
A.search for B.search C.find out D.find
A.said B.reacted C.done D.explained
A.same B.different C.usual D.ordinary
A.allowed B.agreed C.suggested D.planned
A.point B.idea C.way D.cause
A.body B.health C.life D.study
A.have B.know C.take D.require
A.bad B.good C.late D.early
A.fit B.ready C.nice D.able
A.easy B.much C.often D.difficult
A.a much B.a full C.an exact D.an extra
A.before B.after C.because D.if
完形填空 (共15小题,每小题2分,满分30分)
阅读下面短文,从短文后所给各题的A、B、C、D四个选项中,选出最佳选项。
Every year on my birthday, a white gardenia (栀子花) was 1to my house. But no card or note came with it. Calls to the flower shop were always 2-- it was a cash purchase. After a while I stopped trying to discover the sender’s identity and just 3in the beauty and heady perfume of that one magical, perfect white flower lying in soft pink paper.
But I never stopped 4who the giver might be. My mother 5to these imaginations. She asked me if there was someone for whom I had done a special kindness who might be showing 6. I had more fun imagining that it might be a boy I fell in love with or one who had 7me even though I didn’t know him.
One month before my high-school graduation, my father died. My feelings8from sorrow to fear and 9: my dad was missing some of the most important events in my life. I became completely 10in my coming graduation, the senior-class play and the ball. But my mother would not hear of my losing any of those things. Mother and I had gone shopping and found an impressive dress, but it was the 11size. When my father died, I forgot about the dress.
The day before my ball, I found that dress-- in the right size—hanging over the living room sofa. It was 12to me so lovingly. I didn’t 13if I had a new dress or not. But my mother did. She wanted her children to feel 14, filled with a sense that there was a beauty even in the face of 15.
My mother died ten days after I was married. The following year the gardenia stopped coming.
1. A. given B. delivered C. taken D. brought
2. A. useful B. helpful C. in vain D. hopeful
3. A. delighted B. pleasant C. pleasing D. satisfied
4. A. considering B. remembering C. imagining D. recalling
5. A. referred B. led C. preferred D. contributed
6. A. appreciation B. honor C. grateful D. respect
7. A. observed B. watched C. noticed D. hated
8. A. ranged B. differed C. suffered D. judged
9. A. shock B. happiness C. depressing D. anger
10. A. uninterested B. interested C. unhappy D. disappointing
11. A. wrong B. false C. proper D. right
12. A. provided B. presented C. introduced D. awarded
13. A. doubt B. wonder C. desire D. care
14. A. loving B. loved C. respected D. honored
15. A. trouble B. despair C. problem D. sorrow