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What happens to mother-daughter relationships when girls become teenagers. It seems that girls go from playing “dress up”, to arguing with their mothers about how they should dress.
When a girl is 3-4 years old they love to “dress up” in their mothers’ clothes, put on their mothers’ makeup, cook, and do whatever else their mother does. This is the time when she can be classified as being a mama’s girl.
How come girls change so much from childhood to the teenage years? Many parents seek the answer when their daughter becomes a teen. Often when a girl enters high school her behavior changes as well as her physical appearance.
When I was young I always liked playing “dress up”. It made me feel older and more like my mother. Even when I entered middle school, I still depended a lot on my mother to choose and buy my clothes. Once I entered high school there was a big change. To me, my mother’s clothes were no longer “in fashion”, and neither was her opinion. I started becoming interested in boys and tried to improve the way I looked. It was not that I wanted to look cool, I just wanted to look my age.
This is the time that the mother-daughter relationship can take a turn. It’s difficult for a mother to know that her daughter is no longer totally dependent on her.
When the daughter starts wearing revealing clothing, dating, and just wanting to be more independent, a mother starts to feel left out, or not needed. The number of arguments increases, and the number of times when the mother and daughter get along happily decreases.
When these things start to happen, it is a sign that the daughter wants her independence and the freedom to grow up.
When you notice how much your relationship had changed, try to believe positive things come out of the change. Put all the negatives aside and concentrate on what your mother is feeling instead of just on what you’re feeling.
When it seems too hard to handle, take some quiet time and write out your feelings. Maybe at another time, you can share them with your mother and try to find a way to better your relationship as mother and daughter. If you don’t feel comfortable sharing your feelings, at least write them down so you can get them out. It’s better than keeping them bottled up inside.
The girls would argue with their mothers because ________.

A.they need more independence
B.mothers want daughters to be mama’s girls again
C.they think their mothers’ clothes are no longer in fashion
D.all of the above

From the passage, we know that ________.

A.the teenage period is a sensitive part in human life
B.the parents can’t get the answer why their daughters change a lot
C.they can get on well only in talking, no matter what mothers or daughters do
D.mothers should concentrate on their own feelings

A “mama’s girl” will Not________.

A.dress up in her mother’s clothes
B.depend a lot on her mother to choose and buy her clothes
C.like wearing revealing clothing
D.think her mother’s clothes are in fashion

When the daughter starts wanting to be more independent, ________.

A.a mother starts to feel left out
B.it is the time when mother and daughter get on joyfully increases
C.she wants to look cool
D.All of the above
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This couple had been quarreling all their 40 years of marriage nothing ever seems to go right.
They hang on because of their children, afraid that it might affect their up-bringing. Now, all their children have already grown up, have their own family, there's nothing else the old couple have to worry about, all they wanted is to lead their own life free from all these years of unhappiness from their marriage, so both agree on a divorce.
While they were signing the papers, the wife told the husband. “I really love you, but I really can't carry on anymore, I'm sorry.”
"It's OK, I understand." said the husband.
Little did she know that, over the years, the husband has been trying all ways to please her, little did she know that drumsticks were the husband's favorite.
Little did he know that she never thought he understands her at all, little did he know that she hates drumsticks even though all he wants is the best for her.
That night, both of them couldn't sleep, toss and turn, toss and turn. After hours, the old man couldn't take it anymore, he knows that he still loves her, and he can't carry on life without her, he wants her back, he wants to tell her, he is sorry, he wants to tell her, "I love you."
He picked up the phone, started dialing her number. Ringing never stops. He never stops dialing.
On the other side, she was sad, she couldn't understand how come after all these years, he still doesn't understand her at all, she loves him a lot, but she just can't take it any more. Phone's ringing, she refuses to answer knowing that it's him. "I want to keep it this way, if not I will lose face. "She thought. Phone is still ringing. She has decided to pull out the cord.
Little did she remember, he had heart problems.
The next day, she received news that he had passed away. She rushed down to his apartment, saw his body, lying on the couch still holding on to the phone. He had a heart attack when he was still trying to get through (接通) her phone line.
The old couple wanted to file a divorce because __________.

A.they had no child. B.their children didn’t like them.
C.they didn’t understand each other actually. D.the old man didn’t love the old woman.

Why didn’t they file a divorce before they were at the age of 70?

A.Because they were loving each other then.
B.Because they had no time to lawyer’s office.
C.Because they wanted to make their divorce open.
D.Because they didn’t wish to affect their children’s up-bringing.

According to the passage we can know that ______.

A.the old man still loved his wife really. B.the wife didn’t love her husband at all.
C.their children still lived with old couple. D.they were in harmony over 40 years.

After the last paragraph the old woman would be _______.

A.wild with joy B.wild with grief(悲伤) C.unconcern about it D.angry at that

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The amount of stress a person can withstand depends very much on the individual. Some people are not afraid of stress, and such characters are obviously prime material for managerial responsibilities. Others lose heart at the first signs of unusual difficulties. When exposed to stress, in whatever form, we react both chemically and physically. In fact we make choice between "fight" or "flight" and in more primitive days the choice made the difference between life or death. The crises we meet today are unlikely to be so extreme, but however little the stress is, it involves the same response. It is when such a reaction lasts long, through continued exposure to stress, that health becomes endangered. Such serious conditions as high blood pressure and heart disease have established links with stress. Since we cannot remove stress from our lives (it would be unwise to do so even if we could), we need to find ways to deal with it.
People are finding less and less time for relaxing themselves because_____.

A.they do not know how to enjoy themselves
B.they do not believe that relaxation is important for health C.they are travelling fast all the time
D.they are becoming busier with their work

According to the writer, the most important character for a good manager is his ________.

A.not fearing stress B.knowing the art of relaxation
C.high sense of responsibility D.having control over performance

Which of the following statements is true?

A.We can find some ways to avoid stress.
B.Stress is always harmful to people.
C.It is easy to change the habit of keeping oneself busy with work.
D.Different people can withstand different amounts of stress.

In Paragraph 3, "such a reaction" refers back to_______.

A."making a choice between 'flight' or 'fight'"
B."reaction to stress both chemically and physically"
C."responding to crises quickly"
D."losing heart at the signs difficulties"

In the last sentence of the passage, "do so " refers to ______.

A."expose ourselves to stress"
B."find ways to deal with stress"
C."remove stress from our lives"
D."established links between diseases and stress"

One hot night last July, when our new baby wouldn’t or couldn’t sleep, I tried everything I could think of : a warm bottle, songs gentle rocking. Nothing would settle him down. Guessing that I would have a long night ahead of me, I brought a portable (便携式)TV into his room, figuring that watching the late movie was as good a way as any to kill off the hours till dawn. To my surprise, as soon as the TV lit up, the baby quieted right now, his little eyes focused brightly on the tube. Not to waste an opportunity for sleep, I then walked out of the room, leaving him to watch the actors celebrate John Bellushi's forty-fifth birthday.
My wife and I heard no more of the baby that night, and the next morning when I went into his room, I found him still watching TV himself. I found in my baby's a metaphor(启示)for the new generation. My wife and I had given him some books to examine, but he merely spit upon them. When we read to him, he did not feel comfortable. And so it is in the schools. We find that our students don't read , that they look down upon reading and scold those of us who teach it. All they want to do is watching TV.
After this experience with the baby, however, I have reached a conclusion: “Let them watch it!” If television is that much more attractive to children than books, why should we fight it? Let them watch it all they want!
Father brought a TV set into his son's room____.

A.to stop his son crying B.to let him learn something
C.to make him frightened D.to let his son spend a good night

To the couple’s surprise the boy ___after they brought a TV set into his room.

A.soon fell asleep B.cried all that night
C.became quiet and silent D.slept quite well that night

Form the last paragraph we know that the writer thinks it____.

A.terrible for children to watch so many TV programmes
B.useless for parents to blame their children
C.necessary for TV stations to improve their TV programmes
D.favorable for children to watch the programmes they like

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One cause of eyestrain mentioned in the passage is ____. .

A.wearing eyeglasses too long B.going to the cinemas
C.reading a lot D.not visiting your eye doctor

From this passage one can conclude that ____. .

A.doctors are still learning things about eyesight B.headcaches are usually caused by eyestain
C.people should wear glasses as soon as possible D.people only believe things that are proved facts

"Commonly held beliefs" are ____. .

A.ideas that only low class people believe B.ideas that moet people believe
C.beliefs that have something in common D.foolish beliefs

This passage mainly tells us that ____.

A.people have many wrong beliefs about eyes and sight.
B.there are many things about the body that are not completely understood
C.there are several cuases of eyestrain
D.eyes are very important to people

Parents often believe that they have a good relationship with their teenagers (青少年). But last summer, Joanna and Henry noticed a change in their older son. Suddenly he seemed to be talking far more to his friends than to his parents. "The door to his room is always shut," Joanna noted.
Tina and Mark noticed similar changes in their 14-year-old daughter. "She used to cuddle up (蜷伏)with me on the sofa and talk," said Mark. "Now we joke that she does this only when she wants something. Sometimes she wants to be treated like a little girl and sometimes like a young lady. The problem is figuring out which time is which."
Before age 11, children like to tell their parents what's on their minds. "In fact, parents are first on the list," said Michael Riera, author of Uncommon Sense for Parents with Teenagers. "This completely changes during the teen years," Riera explained. "They talk to their friends first, then maybe their teachers, and their parents last."
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"The door to his room is always shut" suggests that the son ____.

A.is always busy with his studies B.doesn't want to be disturbed
C.keeps himself away from his parents D.begins to dislike his parents

What troubles Tina and Mark most is that .

A.their daughter isn't as lovely as before
B.they can't read their daughter's mind exactly
C.they don't know what to say to their daughter
D.their daughter talks with them only when she needs help

Which of the following best explains "the wall of silence" in the last paragraph?

A.Teenagers talk a lot with their friends.
B.Teenagers do not want to understand their parents.
C.Teenagers do not talk much with their parents.
D.Teenagers talk little about their own lives.

What can be learned from the passage?

A.Parents are unhappy with their growing children.
B.Parents have suitable ways to talk with their teenagers.
C.Parents should be patient with their silent teenagers.
D.Parents should try to understand their teenagers.

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