B
Parents often believe that they have a good relationship with their teenagers(青少年). But last summer, Joanna and Henry noticed a change in their older son: suddenly he seemed to be talking far more to his friends than to his parents. “The door to his room is always shut.” Joanna noted.
Tina and Mark noticed similar changes in their 14-year-old daughter. “She used to cuddle up(蜷伏)with me on the sofa and talk ,” said Mark . “Now we joke that she does this only when she wants something. Sometimes she wants to be treated like a little girl and sometimes like a young lady. The problem is figuring out which time is which. ”
Before age 11, children like to tell their parents what’s on their minds. “In fact, parents are first on the list.” said Michael Rita, author of Uncommon Sense for Parents with Teenagers. “This completely changes during the teen years.” Rita explained. “They talk to their friends first, then maybe their teachers, and their parents last.”
Parents who know what’s going on in their teenagers’ lives are in the best position to help them. To break down the wall of silence, parents should create chances to understand what their children want to say , and try to find ways to talk and write to them . And they must give their children a mental break, for children also need freedom, though young. Another thing, parents should remember is that to be a friend, not a manager, with their children is a better way to know them.
40. “The door to his room is always shut” suggests that the son .
A. is always busy with his studies B. doesn’t want to be disturbed
C. keeps himself away from his parents D. begins to dislike his parents
41. What troubles Tina and Mark most is that .
A. their daughter isn’t as lovely as before
B. they can’t read their daughter’s mind exactly
C. they don’t know what to say to their daughter
D. their daughter talks with them only when she needs help
42. Which of the following best explains “the wall of silence” in the last paragraph ?
A. Teenagers talk a lot with their friends.
B. Teenagers do not want to understand their parents.
C. Teenagers do not talk much with their parents.
D. Teenagers talk little about their own lives.
43. What can be learned from the passage?
A. Parents are unhappy with their growing children.
B. Parents have suitable ways to talk with their teenagers.
C. Parents should be patient with their silent teenagers.
D. Parents should try to understand their teenagers.
TS said that everyone has a changing circle of friends. However, no matter how frequently we renew our phone books, some names always remain. These names remind us of the good times we spent together with our friends. Though we may not see them every day, they will always stay in our hearts.
Tom was often called "Big Head" at school because of his extraordinarily large head. He was one of my close friends at primary school. But since graduation, we have been studying in different cities and haven't seen each other for a long time.
Several days ago, I received an e-mail saying that my former classmates from primary school were holding a party to get together and chat about past memories. I was so excited because [ would get to see Tom again. What would he look like now? Would we still feel as close to each other as we had done back then? I was a little frightened about what I would find.
When I arrived at the party, I did manage to recognize Tom. However, he was much taller than he had been before. What's more, his head was no longer big.
"Hi, Buddy. Do you recognize me?" Tom walked towards me.
"Of course. How could I ever forget our ' Big Head' ," I said jokingly, "But where has your big head gone?"
"Haha, maybe it didn't keep up with the steps of time and stayed in the past," Tom patted his own head and answered with a laugh.
All my misgivings suddenly disappeared. I realized that time had changed us outwardly, but our friendship hadn't changed at all. I chatted happily with Tom about our shared experiences in primary school.
Then I looked around the small room and saw different faces, both familiar and unfamiliar, but none of them the faces of strangers. The whole party was filled with a warm atmosphere. Everyone was lost in the sweet memories of childhood. They forgot all their present-day stresses and pressures.
"Hey, what are you thinking about? Come and get some pizza!" A call from a friend woke me up from my thoughts. I hurried towards the table. "Wait! That biggest piece is mine!"Why are some names always in our phone books?
A.Because everyone has a changing circle of friends. |
B.Because we sometimes forget to renew phone books. |
C.Because we'll never forget some of our friends. |
D.Because our circle of friends will not change. |
According to the passage, which of the following statements is TRUE?
A.Tom has changed a lot since primary school. |
B.Tom invited the author to the get-together party by email. |
C.The author recognized Tom immediately because of his big head. |
D.Tom couldn't recognize the author at the first sight. |
What does the underlined word "misgiving" mean (in para. 8 )?
A.expectation and excitement | B.worries and doubts |
C.stresses and pressures | D.shyness and nervousness |
The author writes the last paragraph to show
A.others can't understand what the author is thinking about |
B.The pizzas are not adequate for everyone in the party |
C.the author wants to have a big pizza very much |
D.the author enjoys the warm atmosphere of the party greatly |
Which of the following proverbs can be used to conclude this passage.'?
A.A friend in need is a friend indeed. | B.Time reveals a person's heart. |
C.Friends are like wine; the older, the better. | D.A faithful friend is hard to find. |
Nothing succeeds like confidence. When you are truly confident, it radiates from you like sunlight, and attracts success to you like a magnet. Besides, those who are self-confident can in turn inspire confidence in others: their audience, their peers, their bosses, their customers, and their friends. And gaining the confidence of others is one of the key ways in which a self-confident person finds success.
So how can we build a sense of self-confidence and prepare ourselves on the way to success?
First, do what you believe to be right, even if others mock or criticize you for it. Believe in yourself and believe that you can do it under any circumstances, because if you believe you can, then you really will. The belief keeps you searching for answers, which means that pretty soon you will get them.
Second, govern your behavior based on what other people think. What's more important, be willing to take risks and go the extra miles to achieve better results, in which case mistakes can not be avoided. Don't hesitate to admit your mistakes, and learn from them. Next, work hard to settle the problems in order to cover up your mistakes before anyone notices. Building self-confidence is readily achievable, as long as you have the focus and determination to carry things through. And what's even better is that the things you'll do to build self-confidence will also build success -- after all, your confidence will come from real, solid achievement. No one can take this away from you!
As you sow, so shall you reap. With your perseverance and improvement, you are getting closer to success. At this stage, wait for others to congratulate you on your accomplishments and compliments graciously. "Thanks, I really worked hard on that prospectus. I'm pleased you recognize my efforts. " The congratulations and compliments from others will promote you to gain further success.
Self-confidence is extremely important in almost every, aspect of our lives, and it is no wonder that so many people struggle to find it. Self-confidence really can be learned and built on. Besides, whether you're working on your own self-confidence or building the confidence of people around you, it's well-worth the effort!Those who are truly confident
A.succeed without effort and hard work |
B.encourage people around to become confident |
C.appear more attractive and thus become successful |
D.gain the confidence of others and feel successful |
The underlined word "mock" (Para. 2) is closest in meaning to
A.praise | B.imitate | C.talk to | D.laugh at |
When others congratulate us on our achievements, we are supposed to
A.praise them in return | B.gain further improvement |
C.politely accept the compliments | D.expect them to congratulate you again |
Which of the following proverbs best goes with Paragraph 4.9
A.Look before your leap. |
B.It is no use crying over spilt milk. |
C.Genius is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration. |
D.Learn from past mistakes and avoid future ones. |
The purpose of the text is to
A.tell people how to become successful |
B.convince people to do what they believe to be right |
C.encourage people to build confidence and achieve success |
D.criticize people who lack confidence and thus fail in their career |
Over the years I've been teaching children about a simple but powerful concept -- the ant philosophy (哲学).I think everybody should study ants.
They have an amazing four-part philosophy, and here is the first part: ants never quit. That's a good philosophy. If they're headed somewhere and you try to stop them; they'll look for another way.
They'll climb over, they'll climb under, and they'll climb around. They keep looking for another way. What a neat philosophy, to never quit looking for a way to get where you're supposed to go.
Second, ants think winter all summer. That's an important viewpoint. You can't be so naive ( 天真的) as to think summer will last forever. So ants are gathering in their winter food in the middle of summer.
An ancient story says, "Don't build your house on the sand in the summer. " Why do we need that advice.'? Because it is important to be realistic. In the summer, you've got to think storm. You've got to think rocks as you enjoy the sand and sun. Think ahead.
The third part of the ant philosophy is that ants think summer all winter. That is so important. During the winter, ants remind themselves, "This won't last long ; we'll soon be out of here. " And on the first warm day, the ants are out. If it turns cold again, they'll dive back down, but then they come out on the first warm day. They can't wait to get out.
And here's the last part of the ant-philosophy. How much will an ant gather during the summer to prepare for the winter? All he possibly can. What an incredible philosophy, the "all-you-possibly-can" philosophy.
Wow, what a great seminar to attend -- the ant seminar. Never give up, look ahead, stay positive and do all you can.If you try to stop ants going forward, they will
A.climb over your head | B.quit looking for a way |
C.search for another way | D.keep climbing around |
What is the second philosophy of ants?
A.Think winter all summer. | B.Always be realistic. |
C.Never become lazy in summer. | D.Always look ahead. |
Which of the following can best describe the third part of the ant philosophy?
A.Always stay positive. | B.Always remind yourself. |
C.Always think summer. | D.Always be hardworking. |
We can learn from the last part of the ant philosophy that we should
A.never stop gathering food in the summer | B.always get prepared for the winter |
C.gather as much as possible for the future | D.do whatever we can for the future |
Which of the following is the best title for the passage?
A.The Concept of Ants | B.The Ant Philosophy |
C.Never Give up | D.Do All You Can |
I was painfully shy as a child. In high school I would avoid participating in class discussions. I was too afraid to talk to anyone but my closest friends~ I would think about being less shy, wanting the courage not only to ask a girl out, but to speak up in class and say what I was thinking. Yet, it never happened. Fears showed themselves in such self-conscious questions as, " What will other people think? What if she says no?" I felt a dark presence in my mind holding me back.
This shyness continued into college. One day, the question occurred to me: Is life shy?
The thought surprised me ! Think of the leaves bursting out in the spring time, the bird singing at dawn, the sheer number of different forms of life, all expressing the wideness and scope of divine life. There's nothing shy about it. Life is everywhere and attention-grabbing (引人注意的). So, if my creator isn't shy about all the life that needs expressing, I don't need to be either.
I realized that if I wanted to overcome fear and shyness, I would have to put this law of life into practice~ Shyness, fear, and loneliness were hindering me from living my life as life: God wanted me to live it. Therefore, I decided to live how life saw me.
One example: I wrote a note to a girl, asking her out on a date. Even as I was writing it, the fears of disaffirmation and unworthiness came to me. This time however, instead of shrinking back and hiding from the fear, I put the note in the campus mail in spite of myself. I thought: whether she says yes or no, it's still right for me not to be shy. I can live with the confidence sent from the source of my life. The girl saw me in class the next day and told me that she would love to go out with me. I should not have been so surprised!
Bit by bit, I was proving that the limited view of myself no longer had control over me. After college, I worked as a newspaper reporter, earned an advanced degree in theater, became a productive writer (a lifelong dream), met a special woman whom I married, and even got a job teaching at a university.The writer was shy as a child because of______.
A.awareness that life is shy |
B.lack of courage to speak out in public |
C.fear of others' attitude and reaction |
D.failure in his participation in class discussion |
"The law" in Paragraph 4 refers to the fact that______.
A.life is attention-grabbing and divine |
B.God treats everything and everyone fairly |
C.everything in nature is in the favour of God |
D.the creator of life which needs expressing isn't shy |
It can be learnt from Paragraph 5 that the writer______.
A.didn't hesitate before sending the note |
B.wouldn't regret sending the note despite the result |
C.was not surprised when the girl agreed to go out |
D.believed in God and felt encouraged by the wideness of life |
The underlined word "disaffirmation" in Paragraph 5 probably means______.
A.rejection | B.laughter | C.regret | D.horror |
The purpose of writing the text is to______.
A.blame those who are shy and unconfident |
B.persuade people to have confidence in their career |
C.share the personal experience with the readers |
D.prove that the overcome of shyness helps achieve success |
There are labels(标签) inside all new clothes.The labels tell you how to take care of your clothes.The label for a shirt may tell you to wash it in warm water. A sweater label may tell you to wash in cold water. The label on a coat may say “dry clean only”, for washing may ruin this coat. If you do as the directions (说明)on the label, you can keep your clothes looking their best for a long time.
Many clothes today must be dry cleaned.Dry cleaning is expensive.When buying new clothes, check to see if they will need to be dry cleaned.You will save money if you buy clothes that can be washed.
You can save money if you buy clothes that are well made.Well-made clothes last longer.They look good even after they have been washed many times.Clothes that cost more money are not necessarily(一定) better made.They do not always fit better.Sometimes less expensive clothes look and fit better than more expensive clothes. If you want to save money, you had better buy clothes that __.
A.don’t fit you | B.don’t last long |
C.need to be dry cleaned | D.can be washed |
The labels inside the clothes tell you______.
A.how to keep them looking their best |
B.how to save money |
C.whether they fit you or not |
D.where to get them dry cleaned |
We learn from the passage that cheaper clothes __ .
A.are always worse made |
B.must be dry cleaned |
C.can not be washed |
D.can sometimes fit you better |
“Well-made clothes last longer” means ___.
A.Clothes that are well made will be the last for you to choose. |
B.Clothes that are well made are mostly longer than cheap ones. |
C.You can wear well-made clothes for a longer time. |
D.You can wear well-made clothes for a long time if you wear them at last. |