Pushing children too hard is a really big social problem that seems to be getting worse.Now we have 6-month-olds in music classes and swimming classes.Parents fear that if other children are attending these classes,they will be holding their own children back if they do not enroll,too.
The other extreme,simply taking a_laissez-faire_approach and letting children do—or refuse to do—whatever they want,is not the answer either,of course.
Dr Taylor emphasizes that parents need to push their children based on what is best for the children,not what is best for themselves.If children understand that an activity is in their best interests,then they will accept it, he finds.
Dr Taylor and other family experts remain pessimistic about the possibilities for widespread social change.“The force of our popular culture,driven by money and superficial(表面上的) values,cannot be resisted,” he says.But change can take place at a“micro-level,” in families and schools.
When changes do occur,the rewards can benefit everyone in the family.One mother supporting this new approach toward parenting mentions the advantages her family experienced afte
r her children cut back on activities.“The biggest thing is that since we have done this,we are rested,” she says.“Not only are our kids rested,because they're not in a ton of stuff, but my husband and I are rested,because we're not driving them everywhere.We weren’t living in the moment when we were always busy.We were living by the schedule.The return on our investment of spending time together has been enormous.”
49.One of the reasons why parents push children so hard is that they________.
A.believe in early development in children B.are too busy to take care of their children
C.don't want their children to lag behind D.want to repeat what their parents did to them
50.The phrase“a laissez-faire approach”(in Line 1,Paragraph 2)most probably refers to______.
A.denying them what they need B.controlling children in a flexible way
C.developing a keen interest in children D.letting children do whatever they want
51.The best way to encourage children to work hard is___________.
A.to make them believe it’s in their best interests
B.to consider the matter from parents' standpoint
C.to emphasize the importance of hard work from time to time
D.to make it interesting and enjoyable to them
52.The new approach toward parenting mentioned in the passage most likely refers to _______.
A.relieving children’s hard work and unnecessary activity
B.resisting the superficial values of pop culture
C.reducing more activity off their school schedule
D.spending more time with their children
A winter wonderland on the outskirts of Quebec City has become one of Canada's hottest attractions and most sought out accommodations. Guests stay close for warmth in sleeping bags on beds of ice, hats pulled over their ears to prevent frostbite, while sipping cocktails (鸡尾酒) in glasses also made of ice.
A cool place to host a memorable wedding or for a romantic getaway, the Quebec Ice Hotel has attracted 600,000 curious tourists, including 30,000 who stayed overnight, since opening seasonally 11 years ago. Like Victoria and Jeremy Martin, dozens of couples will exchange vows (誓约) this winter in a temporary church next to the hotel, made entirely from blocks of ice with seats covered in furs.
Average temperatures fall below minus 20 degrees C (minus four F) in winter, but inside the hotel's 36 rooms it is relatively comfortable. Thick walls of packed snow and ice act as an insulator, trapping body heat inside. Each room is uniquely decorated, using designs created by Quebec architecture students. Two hotel bars also sell special cocktails in ice glasses.
First-time guests of the hotel, however, are recommended to stay only one night as sleeping in sub-zero temperatures is not very refreshing. This year for the first time the ice hotel has teamed up with a brick and concrete Quebec City hotel to offer packages(全套服务) for one-night accommodations at each. Prices for one night only at the ice hotel start at 200 US dollars per person.
The 3,000-square-metre (32,300-square-feet) buildings take six weeks starting in December to build, using 15,000 tons of snow and 500 tons of ice, at a cost of some 750,000 US dollars. Eleven weeks after its seasonal grand opening, the hotel will close on March 27 and then melt away with the arrival of spring.What is true with the ice hotel?
A.630,000 people have visited it. |
B.Its rooms all look alike. |
C.It stays open for two months each year. |
D.Wedding ceremonies are often held there. |
The underlined word “insulator” in Paragraph 3 possibly refers to something that ______.
A.stops heat passing through it |
B.collects and reflects light and heat |
C.makes things become very cold |
D.works like an air-conditioner |
First-time guests are advised to stay there only one night because _______.
A.they may not be able to stand the cold |
B.their other night is with an ordinary hotel |
C.new guests have no advantages over old ones |
D.they may find the beds made of ice too hard to sleep on. |
Grandfather was an elder Cherokee Native American who had a wrinkled, nut brown face and kind dark eyes.His grandson often came in the evening to sit on his knee and asked the many questions that children asked.
One day the grandson came to his grandfather with a look of anger on his face and the following story."Father and I went to the store today and because I helped him, he bought me a present, a jack-knife.I went outside to wait for father and to admire my new knife in the sunlight.Some town boys came by and saw me.They surrounded me and started saying bad things.They called me dirty and stupid and said that I should not have such a fine knife.The largest of these boys pushed me back and I fell over one of the other boys.I dropped my knife and one of them picked it up and they all ran away laughing.I hate them.I hate them all.”
The elder Cherokee, with eyes that had seen too much, lifted his grandson's face so his eyes looked into the boy's face.Grandfather said, " Let me tell you a story.I, too, at times, have felt a great hate for those who have taken so much with no sorrow for what they do.But hate wears you down and does not hurt your enemy.It is like drinking poison and wishing your enemy would die.I have struggled with these feelings many times.It is as if two wolves are inside me...It is a terrible fight.
One wolf is good and does no harm.He lives in harmony with all around him and does not take offense (冒犯) when no offense is intended.It will only fight when it is right to do so and in the right way.This wolf stands for joy, peace, love, hope, sharing, modesty, kindness, friendship, sympathy, generosity, truth and faith.
The other wolf is full of anger.The smallest thing will set off his fiercest temper.He fights everyone, all the time, for no reason.He cannot think because his anger and hate are so much.
It is helpless anger, for his anger will change nothing.This wolf represents fear, envy, greed, self-pity, guilt, lies, false pride and superiority.
Sometimes, it is hard to live with these two wolves inside me for both of them try to control my mind.This same fight is going on inside you and inside every other person too."
The boy looked into his grandfather's eyes and asked, "Which wolf will win?" The old Cherokee simply replied ...
"The one you feed."The boy was angry because ______.
A.he was not satisfied with his present |
B.his back was badly injured in a fight |
C.he had waited for his father for too long |
D.his jack-knife had been taken away by some boys |
The angry wolf would probably be described as ______.
A.aggressive(好斗) | B.sympathetic | C.modest | D.unsuccessful |
We can learn from the third paragraph that ______.
A."hate" is healthy | B."hate" hurts oneself |
C."hate" is complicated | D."hate" harms one's enemies |
What did Grandfather mean by saying "The one you feed" in the last paragraph?
A.We should feed the two wolves equally. |
B.Living in harmony with others is important. |
C.Our feelings should be expressed at the right time. |
D.The choices we make determine who we will become. |
Guangzhou (Xinhua news agency)——12 people were killed and 20 injured early yesterday morning when they jumped from a burning train car into the path of an oncoming (即将到来的) goods train in Southern China. When No.247 Wuchang —— Guangzhou passenger train was passing the Dayaoshan Tunnel in Guangdong Province, South China at 00 :17 hours yesterday, a fire caused by passengers' smoking broke out on No.17 car. They wanted to extinguish fire. However, while the train was stopping, some frightened passengers jumped from windows. As a result, 12 passengers were crushed to death and 20 others were injured by an opposite northward passing goods train-No.1766.What was the cause of the fire?
A.A heavy rain. | B.High temperature. | C.Carelessness. | D.Fear. |
When did the accident happen?
A.At 00:17 am. | B.At 00:17 pm. |
C.At seventeen past one | D.At seventeen to one |
Where did the accident happen?
A.In Wuchang. | B.In Guangzhou. | C.In Hubei. | D.In Guangdong. |
The underlined word “extinguish” in the passage most probably means .
A.put out | B.put up | C.come up | D.come out |
In which direction did the passenger train travel?
A.Northward. | B.Southward. | C.Eastward. | D.Westward. |
Habits, whether good or bad, are gradually formed. When a person does a certain thing again, he is driven by some unseen force to do the same thing repeatedly, then a habit is formed. Once a habit is formed, it is difficult, and sometimes impossible, to get rid of. It is therefore very important that we should pay great attention to the formation of habits. Children often form bad habits, some of which remain with them as long as they live. Older persons also form bad habits lasting as long as they live, and sometimes become ruined by them.
There are other habits which, when formed in early life, are of great help. Many successful men say that much of their success has something to do with certain habits in early life, such as early rising, honesty and so on.
Among the habits which children should not form are laziness, lying, stealing and so on. These are all easily formed habits. Unfortunately older persons often form habits which could have been avoided(避免).
We should keep away from(远离) all these bad habits, and try to form such habits as will be good for ourselves and others.________ are formed little by little.
A.Good habits | B.Bad habits |
C.Both good habits and bad habits | D.Either good habits or bad habits |
The underlined word "them" in the first paragraph refers to ________.
A.bad habits | B.good habits | C.children | D.other persons |
Generally speaking, it's difficult for one _____ and easy for them _____which should be avoided.
A.to form bad habits; to form good habits |
B.to form good habits; to form bad habits |
C.to form such habits as will be good; to get rid of bad habits |
D.to get rid of bad habits; to form good habits |
Why should we pay much attention to the formation of habits?
A.Because habits are of great help to every one of us. |
B.Because a man can never get rid of a habit. |
C.Because it's hard and sometimes even impossible to throw away bad habits. |
D.Because we are forced to do them again and again. |
According to the passage, early rising ________.
A.has something to do with success |
B.is an easily formed habit |
C.is such a habit as should have been avoided |
D.is such a habit as will be kept |
You can improve your child’s hearing memory considerably(在很大程度上). Once his hearing memory has been greatly improved, he'll be able to use and remember what he listens to in class. The success of these suggestions depends upon your ability to use your child’s natural desire to get involved in games he finds simple and fun.
A good way to begin is to read aloud a sentence from a book suitable for your child's reading age. Then ask your youngster to repeat the sentence back to you correctly. Next, reread the sentence, leaving out a particular word. See if your child can identify the word you left out. At the beginning use only simple sentences. Gradually, increase the length of the sentences. Make sure you don’t rush things along too quickly, or your child may become discouraged and tired of the game.
Take your child shopping with you often. He’s to remember a list of items you want to buy in the supermarket. First, ask him to remember only a few things. Then, as he shows increased ability to remember, make the list longer and longer. Praise him often and warmly when he shows increased ability to remember things. He'll become proud of his ‘good’ memory and will happily play the game.
Encourage your child to learn easy and short poems. As his ability to do this becomes stronger, encourage him to remember longer poems. Do the same with songs.The suggestions will be successful if____.
A.you find simple and funny games for your child |
B.you can stimulate(激发)your child’s interest in the activity |
C.you force your child to get involved in more practice |
D.you improve your own hearing memory first |
The purpose of asking your child to repeat what you say is __.
A.to practice his pronunciation |
B.to develop his reading skills |
C.to help him remember what he hears |
D.to play a simple game he may find fun |
The third paragraph mainly talks about ___.
A.another way to improve your child’s hearing memory |
B.how you should take you child shopping with you |
C.how to remember the items you want to buy |
D.the way you help your child do shopping |
The last sentence ‘Do the same with songs’ means you should encourage your child to learn and remember ___.
A.songs in the same way as he does with poems. |
B.poems in the same way as he does with songs |
C.the poems and songs which are similar in meaning |
D.those songs that have the same meaning as poems |
Who are the supposed readers of this passage?
A.Children. | B.Parents. | C.Teachers. | D.Psychologists. |