When you are talking to somebody at a party, do you focus entirely on the person you are speaking with or does your attention keep jumping around the room to all the other people there? General1y, if the person is someone you really want to talk to, you will focus on him. Most other people will only get about half of your attention.
You may think that this is OK, because if you don’t really want to talk to him, then what does it matter if you don’t give him your full attention? Consider two things. First, you may just not realize the importance of that conversation. If you are at a networking meeting and you hope to meet the CEO of Company X, but you end up talking to someone who has a low-level job at a different company, then you may let your attention wander(走神)as you speak to him. But maybe you don’t realize that this person has already met the CEO and could introduce you. Do you think he will do that if he feels you don’t really care about speaking to him? This doesn’t mean you need to spend the whole time talking to him. Five or ten minutes of real attentive(专心的)conversation can be worth 30 minutes to an hour of partial attention.
Second, whether you want to speak to someone is based on the situation. You can love your wife, but if she tries to talk to you while you are watching something you like on TV, where is your attention going? Make your own decision, but if you want her to feel valued, give her your 100% attention. The nice thing is that in many cases you can give her your attention for a few minutes and then return to what you were doing. You miss very little, she feels valued, and all is good. The author’s opinion is made believable mainly by ________.
A using figures B. giving examples C. asking questions D. descriptionThe second paragraph mainly tells you that ________.
A.you should be interested in everyone at a party |
B.you can refuse to talk to someone you don’t like at a party |
C.you should focus on whoever you are talking to |
D.you should be patient with everyone at a party |
A person who has a low-level job probably ________.
A.would like to talk to you |
B.is well worth focusing on |
C.wants to make friends with you |
D.is the one you’re looking for |
If your wife wants to talk to you when you are busy, you should ________.
A.decide what to do according to the situation |
B.go on with what you are doing |
C.stop doing anything immediately |
D.finish what you are doing with her |
What is the main idea of this passage?
A.Always be friendly to others at a party. |
B.It is important for you to be active at a party. |
C.You should respect your wife at any time. |
D.Improve your communication skills by focusing on others |
Ever walked to the shops only to find, once there, you’ve completely forgotten what you went for? Or struggled to remember the name of an old friend? For years we’ve accepted that a forgetful brain is as much a part of ageing as wrinkles and grey hair.But now a new book suggests that we’ve got it all wrong.
According to The Secret Life of the Grown-up Brain, by science writer Barbara Strauch, when it comes to the important things, our brains actually get better with age.In fact, she argues that some studies have found that our brain hits its peak between our 40s and 60s—much later than previously thought.
Furthermore, rather than losing many brain cells as we age, we retain them, and even produce new ones well into middle age.For years it’s been assumed that brain, much like the body, declines with age.But the longest, largest study into what happens to people as they age suggests otherwise.
This continuing research has followed 6,000 people since 1956, testing them every seven years.It has found that on average, participants performed better on cognitive(认知的) tests in their 40s and 50s than they had done in their 20s.Specifically, older people did better on tests of vocabulary, verbal memory (how many words you can remember) and problem solving.
Where they performed less well was number ability and perceptual speed—how fast you can push a button when ordered.However, with more complex tasks such as problem-solving and language, we are at our best at middle age and beyond.In short, researchers are now coming up with scientific proof that we do get wiser with age.
Neuroscientists are also finding that we are happier with ageing.A recent US study found older people were much better at controlling and balancing their emotions.It is thought that when we’re younger we need to focus more on the negative aspects of life in order to learn about the possible dangers in the world, but as we get older we’ve learned our lessons and are sub-consciously aware that we have less time left in life: therefore, it becomes more important for us to be happy.Barbara Strauch probably agrees that ______.
A.the young are better at handling important things |
B.people’s brains work best between their 40s and 60s |
C.ageing leads to the decline of the function of the brain |
D.wrinkles and grey hair are the only symbols of ageing |
The continuing research has found older people perform better on _____ .
A.vocabulary tests |
B.number ability |
C.perceptual speed |
D.body balance |
People are happier with age because ______.
A.they learn to value the time left |
B.they know how to share feelings |
C.they cannot focus on negative aspects |
D.they do not realize the possible dangers |
What is the main idea of the passage?
A.People get wiser with age. |
B.People get more forgetful with age. |
C.People get happier with age. |
D.People get more self-aware with age. |
阅读下列短文,从每题所给的A、B、C、D四个选项中,选出最佳选项
Summer is slipping away from me.Some days, it makes me want to cry.Other days, I feel a sense of expectation within me just thinking about fall that makes me want to burst.Tonight, all five of us were in the family room doing our own things.
At this moment, my littlest kid is my number one trouble and my number one joy.He has a tooth on the way and although it’s such a tiny thing, it’s causing so much grief.I’m holding him a lot and I’m not going to lie.I live for his afternoon nap(小睡) so I’m able to actually get dressed and use the restroom.
The big E is starting school soon.The other day, I found myself a bit depressed about the end of summer and the beginning of another school year.I looked out of our front window with eyes that were heavy and a bit teary.Then, I suddenly realized just how silly this end of summer depression of mine is.I can’t change time.But, I can change my emotions and my thoughts.I decided not to spend my final days of summer vacation walking around with a sad face.I decided to hug the last few days of summer and remind myself that before I know it, we will be back in our school routine and all will go well.
This week we plan on meeting teachers.I’m taking my girl to have her nails done before her first day of kindergarten.We want to bake a few dozen cookies.We’ll take our evening walks as usual and stay up late.And last but not least, I’ll get school clothes ready, I’ll pack lunches and write lunch notes, we’ll read “The Kissing Hand,” like we normally do, and I’ll tuck(掖好被子) my third grader and kindergartener in their little beds before the big first day.
Thank you summer, you’ve been warm and wonderful, you’ve been sweet and sticky, you’ve been refreshing and exactly what we need.And your sunsets have been amazing, so thank you.According to Paragraph 1, the author ______.
A.feels excited |
B.has mixed feelings |
C.feels worried |
D.has bad feelings |
How will the author spend the final days of the summer vacation?
A.Live a simple life. |
B.Stay at home and relax herself. |
C.Treasure the vacation. |
D.Walk around with a depressed face. |
From the passage, we can learn that the author ______.
A.is fond of reading novels |
B.has two annoying children |
C.often takes evening walks |
D.has no time to get dressed |
Dear Mom, Clear My Calendar
September is around the corner, and some of us are already complaining about summer’s end. But parents have a special reason to do so. The end of summer means the start of school. And these days, planning a young child’s schedule is a big challenge. The challenge is no longer finding activities to fill a child’s day; it is saying no to the hundreds of options available. Our mailbox is filled with brochures urging us to sign our kids up for classes from cooking to martial arts(武术).
Educators are themselves discouraged by the number of special classes that many children attend. In the name of “enrichment,” three-year-olds not only go to preschool in the morning but study French or gymnastics after lunch. One teacher tells of a four-year-old asking for help in the toilet before hurrying off to tennis. Another teacher says that children sometimes hold on to her at pickup time. What happened to unstructured time?
A generous explanation is that we enjoy giving children opportunities we never had. The truth however is that many parents have doubts about how much time they spend away from their families. And one way to reduce this guilt is to believe that time spent in these classes is somehow more beneficial to children than the time we know we should be giving them ourselves.
David Elkind, an expert on children, suggests that the 1960s gave birth to the belief that earlier is better. Parents hope that early music lessons, for example will build a child’s confidence. The truth, however, is that any time children are asked to do too much, too soon, they are at greater risk for feelings of failure.
A child’s time does not have to be planned to be meaningful. Remember the lazy days of summer? Some children sleep late and play with the kids across the street until it’s time to come home for dinner. However, with the majority of mothers working, fewer children enjoy that idle (空闲的) time now.
Come September, children across the country will finish a full day of kindergarten, only to attend an after-school program until 6 P.M., when a working mom or dad comes to take them home. That’s too much for a five-year old. Finances, of course, do limit some parents. But let’s be honest with ourselves – our own busy schedules, whatever they involve, are no excuse for burdening a young child’s.The author holds that it’s a challenge to plan a schedule for a child mainly because _____.
A.a child’s schedule is too complex |
B.activities suitable for kids are limited |
C.parents are stuck in numerous choices |
D.children always say no to parents’ advice |
What the two teachers say in Paragraph 2 implies that _____.
A.children love to stay at school |
B.they are popular with children |
C.children dislike after-school classes |
D.after-school classes are of poor quality |
According to the author, what is the real reason for parents to send their children to after-school classes?
A.Parents want to make up for their own regrets. |
B.After-school classes develop children’s potential. |
C.Parents have doubt about their own ability to guide children. |
D.After-school classes give parents an excuse for being absent. |
Which of the following will the author probably agree with?
A.For children’s benefits, the earlier the better. |
B.Children’s spare time should be carefully designed. |
C.Idle time for children is becoming a thing of the past. |
D.Parents should be forgiven if they have a good reason., |
Google has kicked off Google Science Fair (GSF) 2014, its annual online competition for
bright, creative and ambitious teenagers who want to change the world with science. While the project is led by Google, it also has the backing of the Lego Group and world-famous publications National Geographic and Scientific American. The competition is open for students aged 13 to 18, who can sign-up now, form a team and begin working on a submission.
The winner will be rewarded with a ten-day exploration to the Galapagos Islands aboard the National Geographic Endeavor, as well as a VIP tour of ‘Spaceport America’ in New Mexico. Google is also throwing in a $50,000 scholarship and $10,000 for the winner’s school to purchase cutting-edge science lab equipment.
Google suggests that each project should be “an in-depth investigation of a science question or engineering problem” but otherwise, it’s up to students to pick and develop an idea that follows the competition rules.
Completed projects need to be submitted by May 12, 2014 at 11:59 PDT. Google will announce the regional competitors in June, ahead of global finalists in August and the competition winners in September.
Interested? Here are the rules.
If you want to enter the competition as an individual (个人), you should register first. Complete requested information about yourself and your project in the registration section before creating your project. You may edit this later. Click the box stating that you have read, accept, and agree to be bound by these Official Rules and Terms.
Upon completion of registration you may begin working on your project. The project must follow the technical, creative, and legal entry requirements set out in these Official Rules and the Googlesciencefair.com Site. You will be required to complete all sections of the Project Site.
You may begin working on your project after completing the registration process, however, you may not submit it for judging until you have requested and received parental consent (允许). Once you have done this, your parent or guardian will receive an email from Google with instructions on how they can give their consent for you to participate. The project will not be judged unless this consent is received.From the first paragraph, we can learn that ________.
A.GSF is a science competition |
B.teenagers should form a team |
C.every teenager can take part in it |
D.GSF is organized by Google alone |
What is mainly discussed in the last paragraph?
A.Parental consent. |
B.Submission time. |
C.Registration process. |
D.Project requirements. |
If you plan to enter GSF alone, you ________.
A.should create your project first |
B.you needn’t follow the official rules |
C.you should provide some personal information |
D.your should start your project before registration |
The main purpose of the passage is to ________.
A.offer tips on how to enter GSF |
B.provide information about GSF |
C.persuade teenagers to enter GSF |
D.show teenagers the importance of GSF |
My grandmother Adele loved culture and was generous with its gifts. When I was a child, she took me to museums, restaurants, dances. She showered me with gifts from her travels around the world. But I can only remember her giving me one book—a book that, to this day, I have not read. She presented me with her own favorite childhood book: Hans Brinker. My grandmother was happy to share this book with me. She even decorated the title page with her proud writing.
I tried to read it. I adored reading, and would dive into a new pile of books from the library all at once. But something about Hans Brinker just wouldn’t let me in. The story was set in Holland, a long time ago. It felt dull and unfamiliar—even though I was a fan of classics of other times and places. I simply read the first pages over and over. I could not progress.
Standing on a bookshelf in our living room, the book was like something I avoided. It scolded me for not being interested, for not trying hard enough, for disappointing my grandmother.
The book started to fit in, almost forgotten, until Adele asked. Had I read it? Did I like it? Always determined, she wanted to know the answer. I would make some kind of excuse, feel bad, and open it again, hoping for a new reaction. The book weighed on me.
Years passed and finally Adele and I both accepted that I would never read Hans Brinker. Eventually I cleared the book from the shelf. The Hans Brinker experience led me to set a rule that I’ve lived by ever since: Do not ask about a book given as a gift. Don’t ask, despite your desire to discuss it to grow closer. The desire for such connection is what gives book-giving with special meaning—and increases the owner’s possibility to be a letdown.
Guilt is basically the same as for all gifts, though. If the giver doesn’t have the pleasure of seeing or hearing about the gift being enjoyed, and asks whether it is, then the owner—unless she can truthfully say “yes”—either has to admit to not liking the present, or else lie on the spot. Neither is pleasant. So, don’t ask.When the author was a kid, his grandmother ________.
A.took him to travel around the world a lot |
B.loved to take him to museums and stores |
C.shared her childhood stories with him |
D.gave him many gifts |
What does the author think about the book his grandmother gave him?
A.Boring. | B.Interesting. |
C.Puzzling. | D.Disappointing. |
The underlined sentence “The book weighed on me” in Paragraph 4 probably means _______.
A.the book is too heavy for the author to carry |
B.the author feels stressful facing the book |
C.the book is full of powerful viewpoints |
D.the author keeps reading the book |
The author learns from the Hans Brinker’s experience that never________.
A.give others books as gifts |
B.lie to people who give you gifts |
C.get close to others through gifts |
D.talk about the books given as gifts |