Many of us spend a great deal of time and energy trying to prove that we are right and others are wrong. Many people 21 that it’s their job to show others how their positions, statements, and points of view are 22 , and that on doing so, the person they are correcting is going to somehow _23 it, or at least learn something. Wrong!
Think about it. Have you ever been _24 by someone and said to him, “Thank you so much for showing me that I’m wrong and you’re right”? Or, has anyone you know ever 25 you when you corrected them, or made yourself “right” at their 26 ? Of course not. The truth is, all of us 27 to be corrected. We all want our position to be 28 and understood by others. Being listened to and heard is one of the greatest 29 of the human heart. And those who learn to 30 are the most loved and respected. Those who are in the 31 of correcting others are often resented(怨恨 ) and 32 .
A wonderful way for becoming more peaceful and loving is to practice 33 others the joy of being right ---give them the glory. 34 correcting. When someone says, “ I really feel it’s important to …”, rather than breaking 35 and saying, “No, it’s more important to…”, simply let it go and allow their statement to 36 . The people in your life will become less defensive and more 37 . They will appreciate you more than you could ever have 38 . You’ll discover the joy of joining in and witnessing other people’s 39 , which is far more rewarding than a battle of egos( 自我 ). Starting today, let others be “ 40 ” , most of the time.
A．believe B．doubt C．prove D．tell
A．unimportant B．unbelievable C．incorrect D．imperfect
A．consider B．appreciate C．understand D．refuse
A．fooled B．helped C．taught D．corrected
A．thanked B．rewarded C．cared D．accepted
A．side B．price C．expense D．value
A．like B．hate C．prefer D．afford
A．admired B．received C．realized D．respected
A．shortcomings B．advantage C．desires D．wishes
A．talk B．praise C．help D．listen
A．habit B．form C．position D．purpose
A．punished B．avoided C．left D．laughed
A．letting B．lending C．allowing D．owing
A．Stop B．Continue C．Practise D．Try
A．out B．up C．in D．off
A．last B．send C．work D．stand
A．helpful B．loving C．careful D．popular
A．dreamed B．requested C．asked D．demanded
A．sufferings B．worries C．progress D．happiness
A．happy B．right C．sorry D．proud
There was a very special teacher who made a far –reaching difference in my life.
Fall ,1959,the first day of class at Bethesda Chevy Chase High School was about begin .“Who”，I asked a senior , “is Mrs McNamara,my 10th grade English teacher?”He just _ and said something about my being in ____Soon ,I understood what he meant. Mrs. McNamara had a pattern of ______that she repeated again and again. We would have a literature reading task for__ _. The next day ,when we came to class, there would be two or three topics on the blackboard ________ to the homework reading. We were_______to write an in –class essay about one of the topics. The following day ,she would _____thd corrected and graded essays and each person would be called _____ to stand in front of the class and to _________ his\her essay. The class were required to criticize(评论)that essay, _____the grade of everyone in class would be reduced.
The first time that I___her read–write–criticize method, I had not ______to do the homework and had written something without knowing what it meant. ________the extreme embarrassment I suffered, standing before my classmates, _________myself. No one laughed at me, no one would be ________enough ,or foolish enough, to do that in Mrs. McNamara’s class. The embarrassment came from ________and along with it came a strong ________not to let it happen again.
Mrs. McNamara kept all of our written work in files, it was easy to see the ________in writing that had occurred. What was not so easy to see was the inner transformation that had taken place, at least for me. What Mrs. McNamar___________me to do was to see myself as others see me and, having done that, I could improve myself. And I _______. Thank you, Mrs. McNamara.
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In the United States there was an unusual tale telling of the daughter of a mechanic (技工). One day while walking along the bank of a lake, the girl to see 20 eggs laid by a wild goose. After some time the girl the mother would not return to her eggs and she to take them home. There she carefully the eggs in the heat of a lamp. Several days the eggs broke and the baby geese came into the .
Geese are known to take the first living thing they see as their mother. ，to these young geese, the girl was their mother.
As they , the girl was able to her birds to run across the grass, but she could not teach them to . The girl became increasingly worried about this, both when and in her dreams. later, she had an She would pilot a plane to guide them in . She asked her father for a plane and he assembled (组装) a small aircraft for her.
Caring about safety, the father decided to pilot the plane himself. However, the birds did not or follow him, and slept in the grass.
One day, the girl into the plane, started it and soon left the , Seeing their mother take to the air, the birds flapped (拍打) their wings and . She flew the plane freely in the sky, her young birds following.
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You have waited 45 minutes for the valuable 10 minutes’ break between classes. But when the bell for the next class rings, you can’t how quickly time has passed.
If you are familiar with this , you’ll know how time flies when you are having fun and when you are bored. Now scientists have a reason why this is the case.
Scans have shown that patterns of activity in the brain according to how we focus on a task. When we are , we concentrate more on how time is passing. And this makes our brains the clock is ticking more slowly.
In an experiment by a French laboratory, 12 volunteers watched an image researchers monitored their brain activity.
The volunteers were told to concentrate on how long an image appeared for, then the color of the image, and thirdly, study both duration and color. The results showed that was more active when the volunteers paid subjects.
It is thought that if the brain is focusing on many aspects of a task, it has to its resources, and pays less attention to the clock. , time passes without us really it, and seems to go quickly. If the brain is not so active, it concentrates its energies on monitoring the passing of time. , time seems to drag.
Next time you feel bored , perhaps you should pay more attention to what the teacher is saying!
A．guess B．learn C．believe D．doubt
A．view B．point C．scene D．experience
A．drags B．stops C．backs D．gains
A．thought over B．made up C．suggested D．come up with
A．change B．develop C．grow D．slow
A．sleepy B．bored C．excited D．active
A．report B．think C．decide D．see
A．produced B．carried C．tried D．performed
A．so B．when C．while D．but
A．partly B．quickly C．how D．first
A．remember B．focus on C．forget D．tell apart
A．the researchers B．the experiment C．the clock D．the brain
A．much attention to B．more attention to C．attention to many D．attention to more
A．busy B．likely C．ready D．sure
A．focus B．gather C．reach D．spread
A．However B．Furthermore C．Therefore D．Finally
A．recognizing B．watching C．noticing D．counting
A．enough B．full C．right D．proper
A．In fact B．As a result C．For example D．Instead
A．in class B．with work C．in mind D．of lessons
When Danny Bowman was at school, he was so crazy to attract girls. He spent 10 hours a day more than 200 selfies (自拍) trying to find the one.
He would take 10 photos of before he washed and would go class secretly three times every hour. At 16, he dropped out of school he could throw himself into his addiction (上瘾) , and he ate . He did not leave his house for six months, and when he failed to take the perfect picture, he tried to himself by taking an overdose (过度用药). His mother, Penny, to save him, and forced him to ask for help after his addiction had become .
The 19-year-old, believed to be Britain's first selfie , is now under special treatment . He has not taken a picture of himself in seven months and has that achieving perfection is . He told the Sunday Mirror, “I was constantly the perfect selfie and when I realized I couldn’t, I wanted to die. I my friends, my education, my health and almost my life. The only thing I about was having my phone with me so that I could satisfy the desire for a picture of myself at any time of the day.” He expressed his to the doctors and said their help kept him and called on others to ask for help they ended up in hospital.
One psychologist at a clinic Danny was treated said the addiction to taking selfies has now become a mental illness.
A．making B．taking C．having D．getting
A．perfect B．beautiful C．good D．comfortable
A．others B．his teacher C．the classroom D．himself
A．into B．out of C．inside D．away
A．so that B．because C．but D．as if
A．more B．nothing C．less D．everything
A．surprise B．calm C．kill D．thank
A．managed B．decided C．failed D．succeeded
A．under control B．out of control C．in order D．out of date
A．winner B．loser C．killer D．addict
A．in hospital B．at home C．at school D．at work
A．expected B．realized C．imagined D．recognized
A．impossible B．possible C．necessary D．unpleasant
A．in need of B．in want of C．in search of D．in favor of
A．missed B．left C．lost D．got
A．cared B．worried C．dreamed D．talked
A．happiness B．regret C．thanks D．sadness
A．wise B．wealthy C．patient D．alive
A．after B．until C．while D．before
A．when B．where C．which D．how
Although one might not agree because of some of the criticism of it, advertising is essential to the kind of society in which people in the United Kingdom, and a very proportion of the world live. Advertising is necessary as a of communicating with others, of telling them about the goods and services that are offered, and of which most of them would never to hear at all if it were not for advertising. And advertising helps a great deal to promote a standard of living.
In talking about advertising, one should not think only a commercial on television, or an advertisement in the newspapers or periodicals. In its widest , advertising includes a host of other such as packaging, shop displays and--in the sense of communication--even the spoken word of the salesman. , the roots of advertising are to be found in the market place.
For many years it was thought that it was enough to goods and supply services, it is only more that it has become increasingly understood that the production of goods is a waste of resources those goods can be sold at a fair price within a time span. In the competitive society in which we live, it is essential that we go out and sell what we have to offer, and advertising plays an important role in this respect, whether selling at home or in markets.
Approximately 2 percent of the UK gross national product (GDP) is spent on advertising. But it must not be thought that this advertising tries to sell goods to consumers who do not want them. Of course, advertising does try to attract the interest of the consumer, but if the articles when does not match up to the standards that the advertising suggests that it will, it is obviously exceedingly unlikely that the article will sell well.
A．enjoyable B．considerable C．agreeable D．knowledgeable
A．data B．proportion C．means D．message
A．get B．put C．find D．avoid
A．demanding B．raising C．declining D．rising
A．in honor of B．in case of C．in terms of D．in favor of
A．sense B．border C．level D．extent
A．conferences B．activities C．matters D．actions
A．Of all B．In all C．Above all D．After all
A．protest B．program C．process D．produce
A．quickly B．immediately C．recently D．totally
A．unless B．though C．until D．when
A．inevitable B．comfortable C．reasonable D．available
A．country B．import C．job D．export
A．financial B．potential C．essential D．social
A．presented B．purchased C．responded D．respected