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For many parents, raising a teenager is like fighting a long war, but years go by without any clear winner. Like a border conflict between neighboring countries, the parent-teen war is about boundaries: Where is the line between what I control and what you do?
Both sides want peace, but neither feels it has any power to stop the conflict. In part, this is because neither is willing to admit any responsibility for starting it. From the parents’ point of view, the only cause of their fight is their adolescents’ complete unreasonableness. And of course, the teens see it in exactly the same way, except oppositely. Both feel trapped.
In this article. I’ll describe three no-win situations that commonly arise between teens and parents and then suggest some ways out of the trap. The first no-win situation is quarrels over unimportant things. Examples include the color of the teen’s hair, the cleanliness of the bedroom, the preferred style of clothing, the child’s failure to eat a good breakfast before school, or his tendency to sleep until noon on the weekends. Second,  blaming. The goal of a blaming battle is to make the other admit that his bad attitude is the reason why everything goes wrong. Third, needing to be right, It doesn’t matter what the topic is –politics. The taws of physics, or the proper way to break an egg –the point of these arguments is to prove that you are right and the other person is wrong. for both wish to be considered an authority—someone who actually knows something — and therefore to command respect. Unfortunately, as long as long as parents and teens continue to assume that they know more than the other, they’ll continue to fight these battles forever and never make any real progress.
Why does the author compare the parent-teen war to a border conflict?

A.Both can continue for generations.
B.Both are about where to draw the line
C.Neither has any clear winner
D.Neither can be put to an end

What does the underlined part in Paragraph 2 mean?

A.The teens blame their parents for starting the conflict.
B.The teens agree with their parents on the cause of the conflict
C.The teens cause their parents of misleading them
D.The teens tend to have a full understanding of their parents

Parents and teens want to be right because they want to ________.

A.give orders to the other
B.know more than the other
C.gain respect from the other
D.get the other to behave properly

What will the author most probably discuss in the paragraph that follows?

A.Causes for the parent –teen conflicts
B.Examples of the parent –teen war.
C.Solutions for the parent –teen problems
D.Future of the parent-teen relationship
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When he arrived at New Lanark it was a dirty little town with a population of 2,000 people. Nobody paid any attention to the workers' houses or their children's education. The conditions in the factories were very bad. There was a lot of crime and the men spent most of their wages on alcoholic drinks.
Owen improved the houses. He encouraged people to be clean and save money. He opened a shop and sold the workers cheap, well-made goods to help them. He limited the sale of alcoholic drinks. Above all, he fixed his mind on the children's education. In 1816, he opened the first free primary school in Britain.
People came from all over the country to visit Owen's factory. They saw that the workers were healthier and more efficient than in other towns. Their children were better fed and better educated. Owen tried the same experiment in the United States. He bought some land there in 1825,but the community was too far away. He could not keep it under control and lost most of his money.
Owen never stopped fighting for his idea. Above all he believed that people are not born good or bad. He was a practical man and his ideas were practical. "If you give people good working conditions," he thought, "they will work well and, the most important thing of all, if you give them the chance to learn, they will be better people."
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A.improving worker's houses
B.helping people to save money
C.preventing men from getting drunk
D.providing the children with a good education

From the passage we may infer that Owen was born ___________.

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We may infer form the passage that no children in Britain could enjoy free education until ____.

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____might become a firefighter in the future.

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My mother was shocked into silence.
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