Marriages improve after children grow up and move out,according to an academic study, which suggests an “empty nest” is not always a bad thing.
Popular wisdom has it that parents’ relationships may suffer once their young fly the coop, because they feel they have lost their purpose in life.However, a new study by researchers at the University of California, Berkeley, has found that many couples actually feel happier when their children leave home because they are able to enjoy spending time together.
In total,123 American mothers born in the 1930s were tracked for 18 years and asked to rate their satisfaction levels shortly after marrying, when they were bringing up babies, once their children reached their teenage years and finally at age 61, when almost all had “empty nests”.
Although not all said they were happier in general, most claimed their marriages had improved since their children had left home. Researchers believe this is not just because the spouses were spending more time together, but because they were able to enjoy each other’s company more.
One of the participants in the study,which is published in the journal Psychological Science,said:“Once the kids grow up...there’s some of that stress removed...that responsibility removed,so things are a little more relaxed.”
Psychologist Sara Gorchoff,who carried out the investigation,said: “The takehome message for couples with young children is ‘hang in there’.” Her coauthor Oliver John added:“Don’t wait until your kids leave home to schedule quality time with your partner.”
However, Dr Dorothy Rowe,from the British Psychological Society,said the effects of living in an “empty nest” will depend on the parents’ relationship with their children.“If you’re just waiting for them to leave home so you can get on with your life,then of course you’ll be pleased to see them go,” she said, “But if you’ve built your life around your children you’ll be terribly lonely.For some parents,their world falls apart when their children leave.”It is commonly believed that___________.
A.marriages improve after children leave home |
B.an “empty nest” is always a happy thing |
C.parents’ relationships may suffer once their young grow up and move out |
D.parents will be pleased after their children leave home |
When did many couples feel happier according to the study?
A.At age 61, when almost all had “empty nests”. |
B.Shortly after marrying. |
C.Once their children reached their teenage years. |
D.When they were bringing up babies. |
Marriages improve after children fly the coop not because___________.
A.many couples are able to spend time together |
B.many couples are able to enjoy each other’s company |
C.things are a little more relaxed |
D.many couples needn’t work at all |
The author of the passage tends to agree that____________.
A.parents should build their life around their kids |
B.parents should schedule quality time with each other before kids leave home |
C.parents’ relationship with their kids has no effect on marriages at all |
D.parents should be pleased to see their kids leave home |
Many people have influence on my life, based on their personal characteristics, achievements, and values. I have been lucky to have had a great many teachers and professors who I respect for their patience and intelligence. There are artists who have encouraged me by their talents and creativity. I value many political leaders, who have inspired me by their contributions to society, and their ability to change our futures. But of all the people I have known in my life, the person I admire most is my father.
As the youngest girl in my family, I always considered myself to be “Daddy’s little girl”. While I grew up, it always made me sad to see so many of my friends and neighbors without a father or father-like figure around. This helped me appreciate how my father always takes an interest in his children’s lives. In every aspect of my life, my father continuously pushes me to excel, so I could finish my work excellently among my people. Whenever I feel like giving up, or have a question or a concern, I know I can always turn to him for advice. From him I have also learned that sometimes you have to put others’ needs ahead of your own, but don’t make yourself made use of by others. His strength seems to be unbreakable during hard times, and he is extremely determined to do anything he sets his mind on, no matter how small it is. I highly respect him for how he stands up for what he believes in, and will never back down. I have always admired his open mind, sympathy(同情)for people, and sense of understanding. He is a very strict man, but in our daily life, he has a great sense of humor, and always knows how to put a smile on the faces of his wife, his children and his friends.
Living in his love and instruction, I am very proud of my father. He also professes how proud he is of his children, and is still there to support us in whatever we are doing in.Which of the following could NOT be used to describe the author’s father?
A.Caring and humorous. |
B.Knowledgeable and sociable. |
C.Sympathetic and open-minded. |
D.Energetic and helpful. |
Which of the following can best explain the underlined word “excel”?
A.be cleverer than others. | B.show off. |
C.do better than others. | D.keep healthy |
According to the underlined sentence, the father was telling the author to ____.
A.think about others and help them, but not to be used in a bad way |
B.try to take advantage of those who were friendly to her |
C.think about others and help them, so that she could make them serve her |
D.try to be good to those who were worth making friends with |
What can we infer(推论) about the author?
A.She appreciated her father because he could solve all the problems. |
B.She considered her father strict and had no smile to her. |
C.She was outstanding because her father forced her to do so. |
D.She felt pity for those children without the father. |
The time may soon come when we say goodbye to most of the world’s languages. Today humans express themselves in over 6,000 different languages. But that is quickly changing. Many scientists say that over half of these languages will disappear within the next 50 years. After 100 years, the languages used in the world will not be more than 20.
Why? It is because people from different cultures live and work together much more often than before. This brings changes. The languages of the world’s main culture are replacing the languages of the smaller cultures. Most international trade takes place in world languages such as English. People respect their own cultures and traditions, but when it comes to getting a job, knowing a world language is often necessary. It may mean the difference between success and failure.
Technology works on the change of languages in an even more amazing way. Modern media such as radio and television give young people in developing countries much knowledge about the world. But this knowledge doesn’t come in words from the mouths of their parents or the elders in their neighborhood. It usually comes in the language of a different culture.
People in different cultures think it good for them to share a popular language. They can quickly share ideas and work together. Knowing the same language means easier communication and is a basis for trust.
Is the death of a small local language such a terrible thing? The answer is maybe. Many cultures may have words for many useful things we know nothing about. If their languages die, their valuable wisdom may be lost forever. The future of the world’s language depends on our actions now. Will we protect endangered languages or allow them to quietly disappear?
Time will have the last word.Scientists say that within 50 years, perhaps, there will be only_____ languages in the world.
A.no more than 20 | B.over 3,000 |
C.4,000 | D.around 3,000 |
According to the passage, if all the people in the world knew a major world language, _____.
A.radio and television would all use the language |
B.it would be easier for them to share their ideas |
C.lessons at schools would be taught in the language |
D.people would respect their own culture more |
We can know that if nobody spoke the languages of smaller cultures, _____.
A.people would find working together was difficult. |
B.knowledge would come from the mouths of the elders |
C.many of the words for things we do not know would be lost |
D.there would be no smaller cultures in the world |
By saying “Time will have the last word.”, the writer means “_____”.
A.let us wait and see |
B.we have time to do something |
C.it is too late to do anything |
D.it is only a problem of time |
A group of graduates, successful in their careers, got together to visit their old university professor. Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life.
Before offering his guests coffee, the professor went to the kitchen and returned with a large pot of coffee and a variety of cups—porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal, some plain looking and cheap, some exquisite and expensive—telling them to help themselves to the coffee.
When all the students had a cup of coffee in hand, the professor said: “If you noticed, all the nice looking expensive cups were taken up, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress. Be assured(确信的)that the cup itself adds no quality to the coffee. In most cases it is just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink. What all of you really wanted was coffee, not the cup, but you consciously went for the best cups… And then you began eyeing each other’s cups.
Now consider this: Life is the coffee; the jobs, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain Life, and the type of cup we have does not define, nor change the quality of life we live. Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee God has provided for us.”
God brews(泡,沏)the coffee, not the cups. Enjoy your coffee!
"The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything. "
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God.What did the conversation turn into?
A.complaints | B.study |
C.discussion | D.chat |
Why did the professor offer his students coffee with varieties of cups?
A.To give his students many more choices. |
B.To teach his students how to enjoy coffee. |
C.To show the students his collection of cups. |
D.To tell his students the right attitude to life. |
According to the professor, the happiest people are the ones who _____.
A.get the best type of coffee cups |
B.make the best of what they have |
C.have a wide range of coffee cups |
D.care about social status and wealth |
The best title for the passage would be _____.
A.God's Coffee |
B.The Pressure of Life |
C.The Happiest People |
D.Professor's Coffee Cups |
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With Funny Faces, you can shape a mouth into a happy smile, or you can make a sad face. If you want to show an angry face, you can make it appear to be fierce(凶狠的). The eyebrows (眉毛) move up and down, the eyes turn from side to side, and the ears move slightly.
It is lots of fun to play with Funny Faces, by yourself or with your friends, make up stories about the different faces, put on a Funny Faces show and invite your friends to watch it.
A Funny Faces toy costs only five dollars. It is a super toy that every child should have. Buy Funny Faces today! You will find it in many stores in your city or town.
And if you buy Funny Faces now, we will send you a FREE gift. It is a special case for your toy. You will not find this case in stores. Here is all you have to do:
Cut off the top of the Funny Faces box. It writes “A Great New Toy!”
Write your name and address on a piece of paper.
Mail both pieces to the Funny Faces address on the front of the box.
Act today! This offer is good only until June 30.According to the passage, what is Funny Faces?
A.A kind of toy. | B.A box. |
C.A special show. | D.A picture. |
With Funny Faces, we can _____.
A.make our friends angry |
B.write names and address |
C.shape a mouth into a smile |
D.turn our eyes from side to side |
Why does the author write this passage?
A.To tell us how to get a free gift. |
B.To encourage us to buy Funny Faces. |
C.To show us how to enjoy Funny Faces. |
D.To advise us to put on an interesting show. |
We can see the passage is _____.
A.a story | B.a news report |
C.a letter | D.an advertisement |
The iMOVE database is a foreign-language information platform for persons interested in job opportunities offered by German companies. The information can be obtained in seven languages: German, English, French, Spanish, Chinese, Russian and Arabic.
All programs in the area of professional training are carried out by German training providers. All these programs have a clear content to meet your special needs.
Programs which take place in Germany are carried out in English. Many of the German training providers have stated their training activities towards the international market. Therefore, they also offer courses abroad. These courses are taught in English or the language of the target country. Providers will be glad to supply you with additional information on these courses. You can contact the provider directly to find out more about a program and the training provider.
To guarantee(保证) high standards in the database, iMOVE has developed quality standards for training providers and their services. All of the training facilities in the iMOVE database have to follow these quality criteria(标准). All training providers who publish their international training programs in the iMOVE database have recognized general terms and conditions.The iMove database is intended for people who __________.
A.seek a job as a language translator |
B.wish to work for professional training providers |
C.are interested in German |
D.want to be employed by German companies |
Which of the following measures has iMove taken to guarantee its high standards?
A.Offering different language courses. |
B.Providing modern training facilities. |
C.Developing quality standards. |
D.Starting training courses overseas. |
The purpose of the passage is to _______________.
A.advertise the iMove database |
B.hire overseas employees to work in German |
C.make German companies more popular |
D.encourage people to learn more foreign languages |