A new study of 8,000 young people in the Journal of Health and Social Behavior shows that although love can make adults live healthily and happily, it is a bad thing for young people. Puppy love(早恋) may bring stress for young people and can lead to depression(忧郁症). The study shows that girls become more depressed than boys, and younger girls are the worst of all.
The possible reason for the connection between love and higher risk of depression for girls is “loss of self”. According to the study, even though boys would say “lose themselves in a romantic relationship”, this “loss of self” is much more likely to lead to depression when it happens to girls. Young girls who have romantic relationships usually like hiding their feelings and opinions. They won’t tell that to their parents.
Dr. Marianm Kaufman, an expert on young people problems, says 15% to 20% young people will have depression during their growing. Trying romance often causes the depression.
She advises kids not to jump into romance too early. During growing up, it is important for young people to build strong friendships and a strong sense of self. She also suggests the parents should encourage their kids to keep close to their friends, attend more interesting school activities and spend enough time with family.
Parents should watch for signs of depression---eating or mood changes---and if they see signs from their daughter or son, they need to give help. The good news is that the connection between romance and depression seems to become weak with age. Love will always make us feel young, but only maturity(成熟) gives us a chance to avoid its bad side effects.What’s the main idea of the passage?
A.Puppy love may bring young people depression. |
B.Parents should forbid their children’s love lives. |
C.Romance is a two-edged sword for adults. |
D.Romance is good for young people. |
Which of the following is more likely to have depression?
A.Young people who have a strong sense of self. |
B.Young boys whose parents watch for their behavior. |
C.Young girls who always hide their feelings and opinions. |
D.Careless parents whose children are deep in love. |
What can be inferred from the passage?
A.Lacking love can lead young people to grow up more quickly. |
B.Early love makes young people keep close to their friends and parents. |
C.Parents should help their children to be aware of the signs of depression. |
D.The older a woman is, the less likely she seems to lose herself in romance. |
What’s the author’s attitude towards puppy love?
A.Confused. | B.Disapproving. | C.Disinterested. | D.Scared. |
I’ve just got to talk about this problem I’m having with my postman. It all began a year ago, after the birth of his first child. Not wanting to appear rude, I asked him about the baby. The next week, not wanting him to think I had asked out of mere politeness the week before, I asked all about the baby again. Now I can’t break the habit. I freeze whenever I see him coming. The words “How’s the baby?” come out on their own. It holds me up. It holds him up. So why can’t I stop it? The answer is that I want him to like me. Come to think of it, I want everyone to like me.
My sister had the same problem with the caretaker of her block of flats: “All he ever does is complain; he talks at me rather than to me, never listens to a word I say, and yet for some reason I’m always really nice to him. I’m worried in case I have a difficulty one day, and he won’t lift a finger to help.”
What about at work? Richard Lawton, a management trainer, warns: “Those managers who are actually liked by most of their staff are always those to whom being liked is not the primary goal. The qualities that make managers popular are being honest with staff, treating them as human beings and observing common politeness like saying hello in the morning.” To explain the point, Richard mentions the story of the company chairman who desperately wanted to be liked and who, after making one of his managers fired, said with moist (湿润的) eyes that he was so, so sorry the man was leaving. The employee replied: “If you were that sorry, I wouldn’t be leaving.” The lesson being, therefore, that if you try too hard to be liked, people won’t like you.
The experts say it all starts in childhood. “If children feel they can only get love from their parents by being good,” says Zelda West-Meads, a marriage guidance consultant, “they develop low self-confidence and become compulsive givers.” But is there anything wrong in being a giver, the world not being exactly short of takers? Anne Cousins believes there is. “There is a point at which giving becomes unhealthy,” she says. “It comes when you do things for others but feel bad about it.”
I am now trying hard to say to people “I feel uncomfortable about saying this, but…” and tell myself “Refusal of a request does not mean rejection of a person” and I find I can say almost anything to almost anyone.Why does the author ask the postman about his baby?
A.He is interested in the baby. |
B.He wants to create a good impression. |
C.He wants to be always polite to him. |
D.It’s a way to start a chat with great politeness. |
What could we find out about the author’s sister and the caretaker?
A.She doesn’t want to risk displeasing him. |
B.She doesn’t pay attention to him. |
C.He often refuses to help her. |
D.He is impatient of her overreaction. |
Managers are more likely to be popular if they ______.
A.help the staff with their problems |
B.make sure the staff do not lose their jobs |
C.encourage the staff to be polite to each other |
D.do not make too much effort to be liked |
The underlined words, “compulsive givers”, in the fourth paragraph refer to the people who ______.
A.are willing to help others |
B.couldn’t bear to turn down requests |
C.are unconfident of denying demands |
D.are less selfish than takers |
What is the author’s intention of writing this passage?
A.To show how to let others like you more. |
B.To prove how to create a harmonious atmosphere. |
C.To encourage people to have more self-confidence. |
D.To suggest ways of dealing with difficult people. |
When it came to role models, Diana Ortiz said her mother, Marcia Dominguez, was the “hero”. Ms. Dominguez came to the United States from Cuba in 1979. She went to college and got a job as a social worker --- all the while raising three children in America mostly on her own.
“It was always school first,” Diana said, “My mom had us in a straight line. If we got out of line, she corrected us. She was a perfect woman. She was beautiful, she had the education and she had everything --- but the illness took over. When I was 11, it frightened me to see how quickly my mother’s health was ruined by cancer. A week before I turned 14, my mother died at age 50. I had tried to prepare myself, but on the first morning I woke up without my mother, the sense of loss was painful.”
Diana had not seen her father for five years, who refused to provide for her. Diana then entered the city’s foster care system. She has spent about four years in foster homes.
Despite Diana’s hard teenage years, the values her mother had planted in her mind inspired her to go after higher education. Since August 2010, she has been a fulltime student majoring in law. A public organization offers her tuition but she has part-time jobs to help people like her and earn more life experience. Her goal is a job in the Federal Bureau of Investigation.
For now, Diana works 20 hours a week as a cashier at Marshalls, earning $7.25 an hour. In November, she moved into her own public housing studio apartment on the Lower East Side. She pays $236 a month in rent. Although she is out of foster care, Diana has been speaking at workshops for foster youths. She emphasizes that nothing should get in the way of their success, not the trials of their lives or what they may have lost.
“I tell the young who have the similar experience like me, ‘Why are you going to let what happened to you affect you in the long run?’ ” Diana said. “ ‘Why are you going to sit there and feel sorry for yourself? You’re wasting precious time.’ It is a message my mother would approve of. My mom taught me that everything is not given to you. You have to go out and get it.”Which of the following words can be used to describe Ms. Dominguez?
A.Learned, independent and strict. |
B.Positive, simple and graceful. |
C.Hardworking, dependent and tough. |
D.Kind, determined and lonely. |
What did Ms. Dominguez find most important for her children?
A.Staying in a straight line for coherence. |
B.Making punctual self-correction. |
C.Struggling to run after perfection. |
D.Receiving excellent education. |
How did Diana grow up after her mother passed away?
A.She was provided for by a law institute. |
B.She depended on foster care system. |
C.She relied upon the people like her. |
D.She supported herself by doing part-time work. |
What made Diana go on with her education despite there are so many difficulties?
A.The sense of loss from her mother’s death. |
B.The eagerness to achieve success. |
C.The deep influence of her mother’s values. |
D.The wish to win prizes to please her mother. |
With provided tuition, Diana still works after school because she knows ______.
A.success comes with her own struggle and efforts |
B.rich experience helps her find better jobs |
C.her tuition will be increased sharply |
D.nobody is perfect in the world |
Is it okay to keep exercising when you have a cold? What about the flu? With winter viruses going around, it’s important to know how to alter your training if you do catch a germ or two.
“The guidelines are pretty easy,” says Dr Lorenzo Masci from the Alphington Sports Medicine Clinic. “Anything above the neck --- so if you’ve got a cold for example, a runny nose or a sore throat --- then you should probably cut down your exercise by half and do 50 percent of what you normally do.”
“If you’ve got anything below the neck, like muscle pain, joint pain or fever, you shouldn’t really exercise at all until those general symptoms settle down,” Lorenzo says. He points out that a cough would also fall into this more serious category. “For example, if anyone comes in with a fever and a runny nose, I’d tell them to stop exercising until the fever and the muscle ache settles. Then they can start their training again at 50 percent once all those symptoms settle, even if they’ve got a bit of a runny nose or a sore throat.”
“The reason we tell people to stop exercising is because if you exercise when you’re unwell it can make the illness worse and prolong it.” There is a second reason Lorenzo advises his patients to stop exercising when they have “below the neck” symptoms. In the event you have an illness which affects your heart, exercise can sometimes actually lead to death.
Lorenzo advises to take zinc (锌) and vitamin C as a way of preventing colds. But he admits that this is controversial --- some studies have shown that these supplements can improve immune function while other studies have cast doubt on the issue. The good news is that if you exercise regularly, you’re likely to improve your immune function. “If you exercise too much, it can predispose (使倾向于) you to coughs and sniffles,” he points out. This is often the case for excellent athletes who train every day, such as triathletes (铁人三项运动员). “But what we do know is that if you exercise at a moderate level, your immune system improves such that you’re probably at a lower risk of developing coughs and colds.”How many guidelines does Dr Lorenzo mainly suggest on doing exercises when people catch a cold?
A.One. | B.Two. | C.Three. | D.Four. |
How should people do exercises with a fever or a cough?
A.They should probably reduce their training time by 50%. |
B.They should stop exercising until they recover. |
C.They should start exercising at 50% after their runny nose settles. |
D.They should do half of what they normally do. |
What is the worst result if people don’t stop exercising when they are unwell?
A.Worsening the illness. |
B.Prolonging the illness. |
C.Affecting the heart. |
D.Bringing about threat to life. |
What can be proved from the last paragraph?
A.Zinc and Vitamin C can help to prevent colds. |
B.The more exercises we do, the stronger our immune function will be. |
C.Doing exercises regularly can help us prevent colds. |
D.Excellent athletes seldom get coughs or sniffles. |
What is this passage mainly about?
A.Relationship between exercises and flu. |
B.How to do exercises. |
C.How to cope with flu. |
D.When to do exercises. |
Cool temperatures, golden colors of autumn and dramatic events are just three reasons to visit Oregon’s Washington County this fall. The season brings a large number of places to see and things to do. We’ve collected some of the best reasons why you should plan a trip here in the coming months.
It’s a Harvest Season
Autumn marks the height of the agricultural season, which not only means a variety of autumn fruits and vegetables at the farmers’ markets, but also means that the season is heating up with fun, family farm events. Three apple festivals this fall will celebrate the diversity and deliciousness of Oregon-grown apples.
The Colors Are Changing
On a cool, autumn day, the rural, agricultural and forested scenery of Oregon’s Washington County comes alive with bright red, orange and yellow leaves --- a stark contrast to the deep, dark green of the trees that share these landscapes.
Bird Migration Season Is in High Season
September and October are busy months for bird watchers. Migratory and native birds call Washington County “home”, whether it’s for the winter or they’re just visiting on their southern voyage.
Wine Harvest Season Brings Signature Tasting Events
Celebrate the splendor of Oregon wine at two of the region’s biggest wine events, which happen annually in the fall. The North Willamette Harvest Trail and Grand Tasting is a full-day guided bus tour to three wineries featuring hands-on experiences, vineyard exploration, a wine country lunch, and wine tastings.
Experience Tree-to-Tree Adventures at Sunset
Enjoy the crisp temperatures and rich colors of the season at Tree to Tree Adventure Park, an aerial ropes course with six challenging courses and zip-line park, all rolled into one. These are the final months to enjoy this fun and exciting attraction until it closes for the season in November.
Plan your own Oregon’s Washington County autumn getaway. Read this great digital visitor guide for ideas and inspiration.When you go to the farmers’ markets ______.
A.you can get kinds of apples for free |
B.you can make friends with farmers |
C.you can join in the celebrations |
D.you can feel satisfied with fun |
The bird watchers go to Washington County ______.
A.because they are attracted by colorful leaves |
B.because the native birds leave their home |
C.because they can see different kinds of birds |
D.because the birds start their southern voyage |
It can be inferred from the fifth paragraph that ______.
A.the wine event is to be held in the coming winter |
B.farmers are good at growing grape in Oregon |
C.the three wineries are most famous in America |
D.few tourists like tasting the wine in wineries |
If you love the aerial ropes course ______.
A.you must face six competitions in Oregon |
B.you should have experience in rolling |
C.you must take ropes course in advance |
D.you can visit Oregon in the fall season |
Which is the best title for the passage?
A.Reasons to Visit Oregon’s Washington County |
B.Washington County Welcomes its Best Season |
C.Charm of the Colorful Season |
D.Take Adventures in the Coming Autumn |
BEIJING,Feb.5,2013(Xinhua)-Chinese health authorities on Tuesday launched a campaign to fight against assisted reproductive technology (ART:辅助生育技术) abuse.Unauthorized ART use,surrogate motherhood and the illegal collection and supply of sperm and eggs,as well as the illegal sale and abuse of ovulation induction(诱导排卵) medicine,will be targeted.
The Ministry of Health and health department of the People's Liberation Army General Logistics Department jointly announced the campaign at a conference.Both departments also ordered all of their local branches to suspend permits for new organizations that wish to offer ART treatments.That is,new organizations will not appear recently.Official figures showed that at the end of 2012,China had 358 organizations authorized to conduct ART treatment.
The health ministry also delivered a brief statement of the country's current infertility rate(不孕率) and ART use.The infertility rate in China is now between 7 and 10 percent,the ministry said.Some 70 to 80 percent of women who are suffering from infertility can be pregnant after changing their lifestyles and receiving medical treatment.Around 20 percent of infertile couples have to resort to ART to have babies.In 2011,about 350,000 people received ART treatment and more than 60,000 infertile couples successfully had children with the help of ART,the ministry said.ART abuse DOSEN'T include________.
A.surrogate motherhood |
B.unauthorized ART use |
C.the regular usage of medicine |
D.the illegal supply of sperm and eggs |
What does the underlined word “suspend” (paragraph 2) probably mean?
A.Support. | B.Pause. | C.Allow. | D.Ban. |
From the last paragraph we can know________.
A.Nearly10 percent of couples could not have their own babies |
B.70 to 80 percent of women could not be pregnant now |
C.Over 350,000 infertile couples had their babies with the help of ART |
D.About one fifth of infertile couples have to turn to ART for help |
What's the best title of the passage?
A.China targets ART abuse |
B.ART is used in China |
C.ART is illegal in China |
D.China increases ART using |