I suppose that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention. And especially if it’s given from the heart. When people are talking, there’s no need to do anything but receive them. Listen to what they’re saying. Care about it. Most times caring about it is even more important than understanding it. Most of us don’t value ourselves or our love enough to know this. It has taken me a long time to believe in the power of simple saying “I’m so sorry,” when someone is in pain.
One of my patients told me that when she tried to tell her story people often interrupted to tell her that they once had something just like that happening to them. Her pain became a story about them. Eventually, she stopped talking to most people. We connect through listening. When we interrupt what someone is saying to let them know that we understand, we move the focus of attention to ourselves. When we listen, they know we care.
I have even learned to respond to someone crying by just listening. In the old days I used to reach for the handkerchiefs, until I realized that passing a person a handkerchief may be just another way to shut him down, to take them out of their experience of sadness. Now I just listen. When they have cried all they need to cry, they find me there with them.
This simple thing has not been that easy to learn. It certainly went against everything I had been taught since I was very young. I thought people listened only because they were too shy to speak or did not know the answer. But now I know that a loving silence often has far more power to heal than the kindest words.What does the author value most in the communication with each other?
A.Deep understanding | B.Saying “I’m Sorry”. |
C.Attention from heart. | D.Doing nothing. |
The woman patient stopped telling her story to most people because ______.
A.She didn’t get enough respect from others |
B.she was discouraged by being often interrupted |
C.people often told her their own opinions |
D.people couldn’t understand her sad situation |
If you hand a handkerchief to someone crying, you may ______.
A.hurt his feelings | B.make him embarrassed |
C.encourage him to continue to cry | D.stop him from letting out his sorrow |
It can be inferred from the passage that while communicating, ______.
A.listening is a perfect way to respond to others |
B.people keep silent because they don’t know the answer |
C.keeping silent means being too shy to speak |
D.it is easy to form the habit of listening silently |
A large number of women in Western European countries wish that they were born men. The number is said as high as 60% in Germany.
“Women often wish that they had the same chance as men have, and believe it is still men’s world.” Said Dr James Holden, one of the scientists who did the study. Anne Harper has a very good job for an international oil company. She also believes in“Women’s Liberation(解放)”.
“I don’t wish that I were a man,” she says, “and I don’t think many women do .But I do wish that people would stop looking down upon us women. At work, for example, we often do the work that men do but we get less paid. There are still a lot of jobs that are usually the best ones that open only to men. If you’re a man, you have a much better chance of leading an exciting life. How many women pilots are there or engineers or scientists?”What can we learn from the first paragraph?
A.There are more Western European women wishing to be born men. |
B.Women in Western European countries wish to deliver boy-babies. |
C.60%women in Germany wish that they were born men. |
D.60% Western European women wish that they were born men. |
“it is still men’s world.” means “______.”
A.There’re more men than women in the world |
B.There’re more men scientists or engineers in the world |
C.Women cannot live on themselves without men |
D.Women have not been given the same chance as men |
The “believes in” in paragraph 2 can be explained as _______.
A.feels sure of the value of | B.is sure of the existence of |
C.has some trust in | D.learns something from |
Anne Harper considers that women should ______.
A.be really liberated | B.live a better life than men |
C.be well paid | D.get better jobs than men |
Which of the following is NOT true according to the passage?
A.Usually the best jobs are open to men not to women. |
B.Women are less paid than men for doing the same job. |
C.Men pilots, engineers and scientists are more than women ones. |
D.Women are looked down upon as the second-class citizens. |
Charlie works in a post office. His father lost his job five years ago and his mother is often ill. And he has two brothers and a sister. He works hard and tries his best to buy enough food for his family.
Last month his family had to move to an old house outside the city. It's farther from the post office and he has to get up early in the morning in order to catch the 6:30 train. The head of his office is strict and everybody has to get there on time. He knows what it'll mean if he's late. A friend of his had pity on(同情) him and lent his old car to him. The young man was happy and from then on he could go to work by car.
Last Saturday Charlie went to buy some medicine for his mother. Bad luck! When he came out of the shop, he couldn't find the car. He was quite worried and began to look for it in front of the shop but he didn't find it. Suddenly he saw a woman parked a car there and hurried into the shop. Charlie saw the car wasn't locked. He got on it and drove it at once. He was afraid the loser would run after him and drove fast. A truck hit it at a crossing and he lost consciousness.(知觉)
This morning the young man came back to life and saw there were a few policemen standing by his bed. He asked, "Where am I?"
"In Room 103."
"In hospital or in prison ?"There’re ________ people in Charlie's family.
A.four | B.five | C.six | D.seven |
Charlie’s family moved to the old house outside the city because _______.
A.it's very quiet there | B.they hoped to save some money |
C.he could get to his office by train | D.his father had found a job there |
Charlie has to get to his office on time because ___________.
A.the head is strict with them | B.he wishes to be praised |
C.he's usually on duty | D.he's afraid to be fired |
For did Charlie buy any medicine last Saturday?
A.himself | B.his father |
C.his sister. | D.his mother |
Charlie was afraid ________, so he drove fast.
A.to be late | B.to meet the red lights |
C.to be caught by the loser | D.to miss the 6:30 train |
An early invention by Albert Einstein has been rebuilt by scientists at Oxford University. They are trying to develop an environmentally friendly refrigerator that runs without electricity.
We all know that modern fridges cause damage to the environment. They work by using a kind of man-made greenhouse gas called Freon (氟里昂), which is far more damaging than carbon dioxide.
Now Malcolm McCulloch, an electrical engineer at Oxford, is leading a three-year project to develop appliances that can be used in places without electricity.
His team has completed a prototype (样机) of a fridge patented in 1930 by Einstein. It used only pressurized gases to keep things cold. The design was partly used in the first refrigerators, but the technology was dropped when more efficient compressors (压缩机) became popular in the 1950s. That meant a switch to using Freon.
Einstein's idea uses butane (丁烷) and water and takes advantage of the fact that liquids boil at lower temperatures, when the air pressure around them is lower.
"If you go to the top of Mount Qomolangma, water boils at a much lower temperature than it does when you're at sea level and that's because the pressure is much lower up there," said McCulloch.At one side is the evaporator (蒸发器), a bottle that contains liquid butane. "If you introduce a new vapor above the butane, the liquid boiling temperature decreases and, as it boils off, it takes energy from the surroundings to do so," says McCulloch. "That's what makes it cold."
The gas fridges based on Einstein's design were replaced by Freon-compressor fridges partly because Einstein's design was not very efficient. But McCulloch thinks that by changing the design and replacing the types of gases used it will be possible to quadruple (翻两番) the efficiency.
However, McCulloch's fridge is still in its early stages. "It's very much a prototype," he said. "Give us another month and we'll have it working." According to the passage, an early invention by Albert Einstein _______.
A.has been rediscovered because it costs much less and works more efficiently |
B.is being redesigned because it could be used in places without electricity |
C.has just been found to be energy-saving and environmentally friendly |
D.will be fully made use of and become the fridge of the future |
Which of the following is TRUE according to the text?
A.Freon was used in fridges long before the 1950s. |
B.Freon is what makes current fridges big polluters. |
C.McCulloch thinks he could improve Einstein's design by using other types of vapors. |
D.The fridge Malcolm McCulloch and his team designed will be put into production soon. |
We can learn from the text that the prototype completed _______.
A.changed the air pressure around it |
B.was tested on the top of Mount Everest |
C.increased the liquid boiling temperature |
D.used only pressurized gases to keep things cold |
McCulloch's words in Paragraph 6 _____.
A.serve as an explanation for the principle behind Einstein's fridge |
B.give you the reason why Einstein's fridge was not efficient |
C.tell you how to take advantage of low air pressure |
D.show you how Einstein's fridge works |
A latest national survey has found that over half of China's netizens are suffering from various mental problems although some 62 percent of them claim at the same time that they are happy on the whole anyway.
This is the result of China's first White Paper on Netizens' Health Conditions issued on Wednesday by 39.net, China's largest authoritative website on health sciences. It is the first most comprehensive health survey on netizens' health situation ever conducted in China in ten years' time. The white paper came out after two months of online and offline research that involved over 150 thousand netizens, covering topics and questions on health knowledge, mental situation, sense of health, and living habits.
According to the white paper, more than 70 percent of China's netizens say they are suffering from mental problems such as bad memory, anxiety, depression, and a lack of confidence. And a similar 72 percent of them also say they are often suffering from diseases like insomnia, dizziness, joint degeneration and achings. Meanwhile, another 53 percent of netizens believe that white collar employees who have bigger work pressures are more likely to catch mental problems.
The white paper adds, doing almost no sports and spending long time surfing online lead to the above mentioned health problems among netizens. Only 9 percent of netizens take up sports on weekends while over 40 percent stay home, surfing. And only 16 percent netizens can assure more than eight hours' sleeping daily.
At present, China has a netizen population of 162 million, with a monthly consumption of 186 yuan, or about 25 dollars, on Internet surfing.The national survey on netizens' health situation ________.
A.was conducted by sohu.com | B.is conducted every year |
C.was carried out online and offline | D.covered about half a million netizens |
Which of the following has the closest meaning to the underlined part "white collar"?
A.White clothes. | B.White offices. | C.Office workers. | D.White people. |
All the following factors have been mentioned to cause the health problems among netizens EXCEPT ________.
A.doing no sports | B.spending long time online |
C.heavy work pressures | D.shopping online |
If you look up the word “create” in the dictionary , you will find it means “to bring into being, to cause to exist something each of us does daily”.
We are creative whenever we look at or think about something in a new way First, this includes an awareness of our surroundings.It means using all of our senses to become aware of our world.This may be as simple as being aware of color and texture(质地),as well as taste, when we plan a meal.Above all, it is the ability to notice things that others might miss.
A second part of creativity is an ability to see relationships among things.If we believe the expression, “There is nothing new under the sun, the creativity is remaking or recombining(重组) the old in new ways.”For example, we might do this by finding a more effective way to study or a better way to arrange our furniture, or we might make a new combination of camera lenses and filters to create an unusual photograph.
A third part of creativity is the courage and drive to make use of our new ideas, to ask for them to achieve some new results.To think up a new idea is one thing; to put the idea to work is another.
These three parts of creativity are included in all the great works of geniuses, but they are also included in many of our day-to-day activities.Which of the following activities is NOT a creative one according to the passage?
A.To prepare for a meal. |
B.To arrange the furniture in a special way. |
C.To buy some books from a bookstore. |
D.To“write”a letter with the computer. |
“There is nothing new under the sun” really implies that _________.
A.a new thing can only be created at the basis of earlier things |
B.a new thing is only a tale |
C.we can seldom create new things |
D.we can hardly see really new things in the world |
What does the author think about the relationship between a new thought and its being put into practice?
A.It’s more difficult to create a new thought than to use it in practice. |
B.To find a new thought will clearly lead to the production of a new thing. |
C.A man with an excellent ability of practice can easily become an inventor. |
D.One may come up with a new thought, but can not put it into practice. |
The best title for this passage is__________.
A.How to Develop One’s Creativity |
B.What Is Creativity |
C.The Importance of Creativity |
D.Creativity, a Not Faraway Thing |