“Mom, I have cancer.” These four words catapulted my son and me on a journey that lasted two years. On that day I felt a wave of paralyzing fear.
Scott was the oldest of my four children. He was 33 years old and a successful assistant principal at SamRayburn Hifht School in Pasadena, Texas. He and his wife Carolyn were busy raising four active children. Scott was 6’2’’, weighed 200 pounds and had never been sick a day in his life.
A few month earlier a mole(痣)on his neck had changed color. “Dr.Warner called,” Scott said that spring morning. “It’s melanoma.(黑素瘤)” I tried to comfort him, naming all the people I knew who had survived skin cancer. Yet, I felt small tentacles of fear begin to wrap around my chest.
Our next stop was MDAnderson, the famous cancer hospital in Houston. Scott had surgery at the end of May and was scheduled for radiation treatments over the summer recess. “There is an 80 percent chance it won’t reoccur,” the doctors said. At the end of summer, all his tests came back negative and Scott was back at school in the fall. However, in December, Scott discovered a lump on his neck. It was examined and the result came back “malignant.(恶性的)” We now realized that Scott fell into the 20 percent category. I could feel the tentacles tightening around my chest. He entered the hospital for an aggressive treatment, a combination of interferon and interleukin.
After five months of treatment, he had radical surgery on his neck. The test results were encouraging, only three of the 33 lymph nodes(淋巴结) removed were malignant. We were very hopeful.
For the next six months, Scott’s follow-up visits went well. Then in October, X-ray revealed a spot on his lung. The spot was removed during surgery and the doctors tried to be optimistic. It was a daily battle to control the fear and panic each setback brought.
In January, he was diagnosed as having had a “disease explosion.” The cancer had spread to his lungs, spine and liver and he was given three to six months to live. There were times during this period when I felt like I was having a heart attack. The bands constricting my chest made breathing difficult.
When you watch your child battle cancer, you experience a roller coaster of emotions. There are moments of hope and optimism but a bad test result or even an unusual pain can bring on dread and panic.
Scott was readmitted to the hospital for one last try with chemotherapy. He died, quite suddenly, just six weeks after his last diagnosis. I was completely destroyed. I had counted on those last few months.
The next morning I was busy notifying people and making funeral arrangements. I remember having this nagging feeling that something was physically wrong with me. It took a moment to realize that the crushing sensation in my chest was gone. The thing every parent fears the most had happened. My son was gone. Of course, the fear had been replaced by unbearable sorrow.
After you lose a child, it is so difficult to go on. The most minimal tasks, combing your hair or taking a shower, becoming monumental. For months I just sat and stared into space. That spring, the trees began to bloom; flowers began to pop up in my garden. Friendswood was coming back to life but I was dead inside.
During those last weeks, Scott and I often spoke about life and death. Fragments of those conversations kept playing over and over in my mind.
“Don’t let this ruin your life, Mom.”
“Make sure Dad re models his workshop.”
“Please, take care of my family.”
I remember wishing I could have just one more conversation with him. I knew what I would say, but what would Scott say? “I know how much you love me, Mom. So just sit on the couch and cry.” No, I knew him better than that. Scott loved life and knew how precious it is. I could almost hear his voice saying, “Get up Mom, Get on with your life. It’s too valuable to waste.”
That was the day I began to move forward. I signed up for a cake decorating class. Soon I was making cakes for holidays and birthdays. My daughter-in-law told me about a writing class in Houston. I hadn’t written in years, but since I was retired I decided it be time to start again. The local college advertised a Life Story Writing class that I joined. There I met women who had also lost their children. The Poet Laureate of Texas was scheduled to speak at our local Barnes and Noble. I attended and joined our local poetry society. I never dreamed that writing essays and poems about Scott could be so therapeutic. Several of those poems have ever been published. In addition, each group brought more and more people into my life..
I don’t believe you ever recover from the loss of a child. Scott is in my heart and mind every day. However, I do believe you can survive.
Scott fought so bravery to live and he never gave up. He taught me that life is a gift that should be cherished, not wasted. It has taken years to become the person I am today. The journey has been a difficult, painful process but certainly worth the effort and I know that my son would be proud.How old was Scott probably when he died?
A.33 | B.35 | C.37 | D.40 |
What does the underlined sentence “ The bands constricting my chest made breathing difficult” probably imply?
A.It implies that Scott’s mother was likely to have a heart attack. |
B.It implies that there was something wrong with Scott’s mother’s chest. |
C.It implies that Scott’s mother was very upset and panic because of Scott’s severe illness. |
D.It implies that the cancer had spread to her chest just like her son. |
Which of the following statements best shows the author’s feeling about Scott’s death?
A.It was a daily battle to control the fear and panic each setback brought. |
B.She felt a wave of fear. |
C.She felt a feeling of fear begin to wrap around her chest. |
D.The fear had been replaced by unbearable sorrow. |
From Scott and his mother’s conversation, we can know that Scott is ________.
A.considerable | B.humorous | C.determined | D.sensitive |
The author intends to tell us that___________.
A.it takes a long time to make a person recover from the shock of losing a child |
B.Scott is proud of his mother |
C.life is full of happiness and sorrow. |
D.We’d better make our life count instead of counting your days. |
What might be the best title of the passage ?
A.Life is valuable | B.Grieving and Recovery |
C.Love and sorrow | D.Alive or dead |
The following is a true story. It happened in the northern end of Queens land, Australia, where all kinds of animals live in the forest.
Lisa, a 33-year-old woman, went to prepare lunch in the kitchen, leaving Barney, her three-year-old son, playing by himself in the back garden.
Suddenly, a sharp cry of Barney came into the mother’s ears, and Lisa rushed into the backyard in a hurry and found a big snake entwining(缠绕) the little child with its terrible body and trying to eat the boy as its delicious dish! It was a boa(蟒)! Lisa was terrified and quite angry. She made up her mind to save her son from the snake’s mouth.
It was fearless mother love that made Lisa forget what she faced. She took up an old hoe from the ground and beat the boa with all her might.
One...two... With the hoe, Lisa beat the snake repeatedly, but useless. The little boy’s voice and breath were getting weaker and weaker. Lisa’s heart was broken and she got nearly mad.
Suddenly Lisa put away the hoe and threw herself to the boa, opening her mouth and bit into the boa’s back as if trying to eat a rare steak(牛排). Lisa was really mad!
Blood was spurting(喷射) out of the boa’s body and covered most of Lisa’s body. The boa was so badly wounded that it let go of Barney and moved back into the forest hurriedly. It had never known how a man had such terrible sharp teeth! On halfway home, the boa died.
It was fearless mother love that saved the little boy.
61.When she rushed into the back garden, Lisa found ______
A.a boa eating her son
B.her son was playing with a big snake
C.her son in danger of losing his life
D.her son was fighting with a boa
62.Lisa failed in fighting against the boa at first just because ______.
A.she was bit by the boa
B.the boa was too strong
C.the hoe was not sharp enough
D.she was afraid that she would hurt her son
63. Lisa bit the snake because ______.
A.she was mad
B.she thought her teeth were much sharper than the boa
C.her son was entwined by the boa
D.she hadn’t got any other way to fight with the snake
64.The best title for this passage is ______.
A.Mother and Boa B.Fearless Mother Love
C.A Boa and a Boy D.Saving a Boy from a Boa
A German taxi-driver, Franz Bussman, recently found his brother who was thought to have been killed twenty years before.
While on a walking tour with his wife, he stopped to talk to a workman. After they had gone on, Mrs Bussman said that the workman was closely like her husband and even suggested that he might be his brother. Franz laughed at the idea, pointing out that his brother had been killed in action during the war. Though Mrs Bussman knew this story quite well, she thought that there was a chance in a million that she might be right.
A few days later, she sent a boy to the wokman to ask him if his name was Hans Bussman. Needless to say, the man’s name was Hans Bussman. And he really was Franz’s long-lost brother. When the brothers were reunited, Hans explained how it was that he was still alive.
After having been wounded towards the end of the war, he had been sent to hospital and was separated from his unit. The hospital had been bombed and Hans had made his way back into Western Germany on foot. Meanwhile, his unit was lost and all records of him had been destroyed. Hans returned to his family house, but the house had been bombed. Guessing that his family had been killed during an air-raid. Hans settled down in a village fifty miles away where he had remained ever since.
69.Which of the following can be used as the best title of the passage?
A.Living Not Far. B.A Chance in a Million
C.Coming Back to Life D.Back after the War.
70.Walking along the street, _______.
A.Mr. Bussman recognized his brother at the first sight.
B.Mrs. Bussman thought of her long-lost brother.
C.Mr. and Mrs. Bussman talked to a workman because he looked like his brother.
D.Mr. Bussman happened to meet a work-man and talked to him.
71. Which of the following order is RIGHT?
A.He walked back to Western German
B.He was wounded when the war was coming to the end.
C.The hospital was destroyed by bombs.
D.He came back to his family house.
e. He was sent to hospital.
f. His unit of German didn’t exist any longer.
A.b, a, e, d, f, c B.b, e, c, a, f, d
C.b, e, a, c, d, f D.b, c, f, d, a, e
It is impossible not to make a mistake at some points in your life. We may as well accept that something will go wrong and we will be to blame. It is therefore sensible to work out some strategies for apologizing, and the best way to apologize is by letter. This way you can take care over every work you write— which you can’t do if you say sorry to someone in person.
We all say or do something that we wish we hadn’t said or done. You may say something that accidentally hurts someone, or you may provide a service which doesn’t come up to the standards that a client or customer expected.
You may feel that it was a genuine mistake which couldn’t be avoided. Rather than dwell on the mistake, you should quickly try to remedy(修补)the problem. An effective letter of apology is an important part of that process.
For the contents of the letter, just remember TABS—Timing, Action, Brevity, Sincerity.
The timing of a letter of apology is essential—it must be sent as soon as possible. Any delay in our sending the letter will only compound the problem. In this case “Better late than never” is not the best motto! The longer you wait before you wait before writing a letter of apology, the more it will seem that you have been coerced(被迫)into writing it.
Although it is important to recognize what has gone before, it is also essential to detail the action you plan to take to rectify whatever it was you did wrong. Research has shown that some indication that you have thought about what future action you plan to take is always well received.
A letter of apology should be brief and the word “sorry” should appear no more than twice. Indicate that you are aware using it a second time—“once again, I am so sorry for…” or “as I said earlier, I am really sorry about…”. Finally, the tone of the letter has to be sincere. In fact, the combination of all the above factors will help in this respect.
And don’t think that letters are out of date in the email—oriented 21st century. An apology email can be worse than no apology at all!What kind of advice does the text suggest about apologizing?
A.It’s a good idea to write a letter of apology as soon as something has gone wrong. |
B.It’s a good idea to send several emails to apologize. |
C.Write a long letter apologizing several times to make your point. |
D.Wait to see how they react to your letter before planning to do anything. |
What kind of things do you NOT apologize for?
A.A service that is not as good as it should be. |
B.Genuine mistakes. |
C.Car accidents. |
D.Causing offence or hurt. |
The underlined expression “Rather than dwell on the mistake” in the third paragraph means you _____.
A.should not waste time worrying about what happened. |
B.should consider the problem |
C.should forget about what happened. |
D.should analyse who was at fault. |
How can timing compound problems?
A.If you write immediately, they will be suspicious. |
B.If you leave it for a few days, they will know it is your idea to write. |
C.Waiting for a few days before you write will show your sincerity. |
D.Waiting too long will make it worse because they won’t believe you mean it. |
In some urban centers, workaholism is so common that people do not consider it unusual:
They accept the lifestyle as normal. Government workers in Washington D.C, for example, frequently work sixty to seventy hours a week. They don’t do this because they have to; they do it because they want to.
Workaholism can be a serious problem. Because true workaholics would rather work than do anything else, they probably don’t know how to relax.
Is workaholism always dangerous? Perhaps not. There are, certainly, people who work well under stress. Some studies show that many workaholies have great energy and interest in life. Their work is so pleasurable that they are actually very happy. For most workaholics, work and entertainment keep them busy and creative.
Why do workaholics enjoy their jobs so much? There are several advantages to work. Of course, it provides people with paychecks, and this is important. But it offers more than financial security. It provides people with self confidence; they have a feeling of satisfaction when they’re produced a challenging piece of work and are able to say, “I made that.” Psychologists claim that work gives people an identity through participation in work, they get a sense of self and individualism. In addition, most jobs provide people with a socially acceptable way to meet others. Perhaps some people are compulsive about their work, but their addiction seems to be a safe-even an advantageous-one.The passage indicates that workaholics .
A.just know work but nothing else |
B.are willing to work hard for long hours without pay |
C.find their work provide them more satisfaction and self confidence than how much they are paid |
D.has the work with more responsibility than others |
One of the reasons that some people are not willing to quit their jobs even in their eighties and nineties is that
A.they are in the need of financial security |
B.they would rather work than be disturbed by domestic affairs |
C.they long for a sense of identity and being accomplished |
D.they may have health problems from sheer boredom |
This passage is mainly about .
A.workaholics are usually successful people, but their lives are in a mess |
B.workaholism can lead to serious problems but it can also create a joyful life |
C.people who are absorbed in their work may enjoy movies, sports and other kinds of entertainment |
D.those who work even under difficult conditions may be very happy |
It can be inferred from the passage that .
A.in the eyes of all the common people workaholics are peculiar |
B.to workaholics, work is the sole source of happiness |
C.a piece of challenging work may provide the workaholics a sense of satisfaction |
D.workaholics are as addicted to their job as other people are to drugs or alcohol |
Across the globe, single parent homes are on the rise. In the US, the 2000 census (人口普查) showed 24.8 million, or nearly 24 percent of the nation’s 105.5 million households, were traditional two-parent homes. By comparison, 9.8 million households, or 9 percent of all US households were headed by an adult raising a child alone. The 1990 census showed 26 percent of homes were led by a married mother and father, and 8 percent of homes were led by a single parent.
Similar increases occurred in other countries. In the UK, lone-parent homes increased from 3.3 percent in 1990 to 5.5 percent in 1999. Single parent households in Australia rose from 5.8 percent in 1990 to 7.6 percent in 1999. Belgium saw the increase from 1.8 percent to 2.7 percent during the same period of time. These countries tend to have greater acceptance of the single parent because there are fewer nearby family members to disapprove, Riche, a Census Bureau director, said.
Just as in the US, those changes raised new questions about how involved govenment should be in helping single parent families. Some research suggests children raised in two-parent families are better off than those who depend on one.
“The position of one-parent families in any country is very much a gender (性别) issue-women’s opportunities, especially working-class women on low income,” said Sue Cohen, coordinator (协调员) of the Single Action Parents Network in England.Not considering the exact number of the single-parent families, which country saw the fastest rise rate in 1999, compared with 1990?
A.UK. | B.Australia. | C.America. | D.Belgium. |
What is the cause of the rise of single parent families across the globe?
A.The nearby family members have a favourable opinion. |
B.A lone parent is well off enough to support his /her children. |
C.A lot of problems have arisen in two-parent families. |
D.We cannot get enough proving information from the text. |
Which of the following is TRUE about the increase of single parent families according to the passage?
A.It will somewhat limit the growing population of younger generation. |
B.Governments should take actions about the social problems brought about by it. |
C.Single parent families are not looked down upon in any country mentioned here. |
D.Generally speaking, the single parents needn’t worry since they are highly paid. |
Which of the following diagrams correctly shows the rise of single parent families in the US from 1990 to 2000?