You feel happiest when you create a healthy balance between giving and receiving. If you give and give without making time to fill your own needs, then it’s likely you will burn out, or feel upset .When you take and take without giving anything back ,you never feel fulfilled, so you are always searching for ways to fill the void in your life.
The way to create a healthy balance between giving and receiving is to know and then live by your values .I break values up into two groups which I call being and having values. Your being values are the character traits of the ideal person you would like to be. I suggest to my clients that they choose three being values that they are willing to make a commitment to live by. An example of some being values are: kind, loving, generous, inspirational, peaceful, wise and even powerful. By acting on these values you give to others through your actions and you inspire others by being a positive role model. Mastering being these character traits becomes your life purpose.
Your having values are the feelings you need to create in order to be happy. These could be companionship, achievement, support, being valued or financial security. This is what you receive. You take responsibility for filling your own needs by taking steps to create these feelings and conditions in your life.
When you make a commitment to live by your being values, it becomes easier to make conscious choices rather than reactionary ones. If your usual pattern is to talk about your problems, you could choose to think and act like a calm person. A calm person might go for a walk, meditate, or set a time limit before responding. If your usual pattern is to worry, you could choose to act like a responsible or wise person. In other words, you would act like the person you choose to be—this is the key to personal power.
When you choose to act on your values, you not only feel good about yourself, you reinforce your chosen beliefs. Over time acting in this way changes how you see the world, and in turn the way other people think of you.The main purpose of this passage is to ___________.
A.persuade the readers to make a commitment |
B.inform the readers how to be truly happy |
C.explain to the readers what personal values are |
D.instruct the readers how to make wise choices |
According to the text, living by your being values ,you would ___________.
A.gain a lot of power | B.fill your own needs |
C.seek all human virtues | D.form positive personality |
The underlined word “void” in Paragraph 1 means ___________.
A.a feeling of emptiness | B.an absence of one’s mind |
C.a break of continuity | D.a state of confusion |
Which of the following does not belong to “your having values”?
A.your success in the competition | B.the help from your friends |
C.your own peaceful mind | D.the friendship |
What can be inferred from the text?
A.Having values are better than being values. |
B.The way other people think of you decides who you are. |
C.A calm person does not choose to complain. |
D.A responsible person does not care about financial security. |
(2013·天津,C)
Poet William Stafford once said that we are defined more by the detours(绕行路)in life than by the narrow road toward goals. I like this image. But it was quite by accident that I discovered the deep meaning of his words.
For years we made the long drive from our home in Seattle to my parents' home in Boise in nine hours. We traveled the way most people do: the fastest, shortest, easiest road, especially when I was alone with four noisy, restless kids who hates confinement(限制)and have strong opinions about everything.
Road trips felt risky, so I would drive fast, stopping only when I had to. We would stick to the freeways and arrive tired.
But then Banner, our lamb was born. He was rejected by his mama days before our planned trip to Boise. I had two choices: leave Banner with my husband, or take him with me. My husband made the decision for me.
That is how I found myself on the road with four kids, a baby lamb and nothing but my everlasting optimism to see me through. We took the country roads out of necessity. We had to stop every hour, let Banner shake out his legs and feed him. The kids chased him and one another. They'd get back in the car breathless and energized, smelling fresh from the cold air.
We explored side roads, catching grasshoppers in waisthigh grass. Even if we simply looked out of the car windows at baby pigs following their mother, or fish leaping out of the water, it was better than the best ride down the freeway. Here was life. And new horizons(见识).
We eventually arrived at my parents' doorstep astonishingly fresh and full of stories.
I grew brave with the trip back home and creative with my disciplining technique. On an empty section of road, everyone started quarreling. I stopped the car, ordered all kids out and told them to meet me up ahead. I parked my car half a mile away and read my book in sweet silence.
Some road trips are by necessity fast and straight. But that trip with Banner opened our eyes to a world available to anyone adventurous enough to wander around and made me realize that a detour may uncover the best part of a journey—and the best part of yourself.Why did the author use to take freeways to her parents' home?
A.It was less tiring. |
B.It would be faster and safer. |
C.Her kids would feel less confined. |
D.She felt better with other drivers nearby. |
The author stopped regularly on the country roads to ______.
A.relax in the fresh air |
B.take a deep breath |
C.take care of the lamb |
D.let the kids play with Banner |
What does the author discover from the trip according to Paragraph 6?
A.Freeways are where beauty hides. |
B.Getting close to nature adds to the joy of life. |
C.Enjoying the beauty of nature benefits one's health. |
D.One should follow side roads to watch wild animals. |
Why did the author ask the kids to get out of the car on their way back home?
A.To give herself some time to read. |
B.To order some food for them. |
C.To play a game with them. |
D.To let them cool down. |
What could be the best title for the passage?
A.Charm of the Detour. |
B.The Road to Bravery. |
C.Creativity out of Necessity. |
D.Road Trip and Country Life. |
(2013·福建,C)
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www. NewYorkMint. comWhat is stressed in the ad?
A.The coin is of high quality and worth collecting. |
B.The coin can be circulated as a currency. |
C.Limited supplies guarantee a stable price of the coin. |
D.Demand for the coin is bound to break records. |
If you buy six 2012 U. S. Mint Silver Eagles by post, you should pay at least ________.
A.$230.7 | B.$233.7 |
C.$240.7 | D.$243.7 |
The ad strongly encourages people to purchase the silver coins by ________.
A.shopping online |
B.making a phone call |
C.lining up in front of the stores |
D.writing to the company |
(2013·全国Ⅱ,C)
Given that many people's moods (情绪)are regulated by the chemical action of chocolate, it was probably only a matter of time before somebody made the chocolate shop similar to a drugstore of Chinese medicine. Looking like a setting from the film Charlie & the Chocolate Factory, Singapore's Chocolate Research Facility (CRF) has over 100 varieties of chocolates. Its founder is Chris Lee who grew up at his parents' corner store with one hand almost always in the jar of sweets.
If the CRF seems to be a smart idea, that's because Lee is not merely a seasoned salesperson but also head of a marketing department that has business relations with big names such as Levi's and Sony. That idea surely results in the imagination at work when it comes to making different flavored(味道)chocolates.
The CRF's produce is “green”, made within the country and divided into 10 lines, with the Alcohol Series being the most popular. The Exotic Series—with Sichuan pepper, red bean (豆), cheese and other flavors—also does well and is fun to taste. And for chocolate_snobs,who think that they have a better knowledge of chocolate than others, the Connoisseur Series uses cocoa beans from Togo, Cuba, Venezuela, and Ghana, among others.What is good about chocolate?
A.It serves as a suitable gift. |
B.It works as an effective medicine. |
C.It helps improve the state of mind. |
D.It strengthens business relations. |
Why is Chris Lee able to develop his idea of the CRF?
A.He knows the importance of research. |
B.He learns from shops of similar types. |
C.He has the support of many big names. |
D.He has a lot of marketing experience. |
Which line of the CRF produce sells best?
A.The Connoisseur Series. |
B.The Exotic Series. |
C.The Alcohol Series. |
D.The Sichuan Series. |
The words “chocolate snobs” in Paragraph 3 probably refer to people who ________.
A.are particular about chocolate |
B.know little about cocoa beans |
C.look down upon others |
D.like to try new flavors |
The baby is just one day old and has not yet left hospital. She is quiet but alert (警觉). Twenty centimeters from her face researchers have placed a white card with two black spots on it. She stares at it carefully. A researcher removes the card and replaces it by another, this time with the spots differently spaced. As the cards change from one to the other, her gaze(凝视) starts to lose its focus—until a third, with three black spots, is presented. Her gaze returns: she looks at it for twice as long as she did at the previous card. Can she tell that the number two is different from three, just 24 hours after coming into the world?
Or do newborns simply prefer more to fewer? The same experiment, but with three spots shown before two, shows the same return of interest when the number of spots changes. Perhaps it is just the newness? When slightly older babies were shown cards with pictures of objects (a comb, a key, an orange and so on), changing the number of objects had an effect separate from changing the objects themselves. Could it be the pattern that two things make, as opposed to three? Not again. Babies paid more attention to squares moving randomly on a screen when their number changed from two to three, or three to two. The effect even crosses between senses. Babies who were repeatedly shown two spots became more excited when they then heard three drumbeats than when they heard just two; likewise(同样地) when the researchers started with drumbeats and moved to spots.The experiment described in Paragraph 1 is related to the baby's________.
A.sense of hearing | B.sense of sight |
C.sense of touch | D.sense of smell |
Babies are sensitive to the change in ________.
A.the size of cards |
B.the colour of pictures |
C.the shape of patterns |
D.the number of objects |
Why did the researchers test the babies with drumbeats?
A.To reduce the difficulty of the experiment. |
B.To see how babies recognize sounds. |
C.To carry their experiment further. |
D.To keep the babies' interest. |
Where does this text probably come from?
A.Science fiction. | B.Children's literature. |
C.An advertisement. | D.A science report. |
(2013·陕西,A)
![]() Joshua, Helmut, and Bethlehem Michelle O. Donovan ISBN 9781462058679 Life is not easy for nineyearold Joshua during World War II. Because of his family's Jewish background, they are sent to live in the concentration camps (集中营). Scared and alone, Joshua one day makes friends with a little mouse he calls Bethlehem who becomes his closest friend. |
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![]() Encourage Me! Inspirational Poetry Gloria Coykendall ISBN 9781412027854 It is an easytoread collection of poems originally written to encourage in faith and to be a cure for chronic depression(长期抑郁) ... cure to strengthen identity and purpose. |
![]() More Things in Heaven Bill Bosworth ISBN 9780595433582 In his More Things in Heaven, Bill Bosworth presents the highlights of his 83 years of life, including his trips to India and the study of the writings of several great spiritual leaders. More Things in Heaven will appeal to anyone who insists on finding the deepest meaning for their existence based on their own experience. |
![]() Seeking the Edge Dr. Joseph L. Rose ISBN 9781462031795 Seeking the Edge provides the tools and techniques to find that edge in one's life—driving readers to achieve success whether in your current job, finding a new job, in education, family, or even hobbies. |
![]() Creation or Evolution Michael Ebifegha ISBN 9781450289023 Were humans created, or did they evolve? How old is the Earth? The debate between science and religion continues to be heated. In Creation or Evolution, Michael Ebifegha examines these two opposed world views within the structure of empirical(实证的) science. |
Who wrote the story about a little boy and a little mouse?
A.Bill Bosworth. | B.Michelle O. Donovan. |
C.Dr. Joseph L. Rose. | D.Gloria Coykendall. |
The ISBN for the book of poems is ________.
A.9781462031795 | B.9781412027854 |
C.9780595433582 | D.9781462058679 |
What kind of readers will probably like reading More Things in Heaven?
A.Those who are searching for the meaning of life. |
B.Those who are trying to be spiritual leaders. |
C.Those who study the art of writing. |
D.Those who like traveling abroad. |
Which of the following books explores the origin of humans?
A.Seeking the Edge. |
B.Creation or Evolution. |
C.Joshua, Helmut, and Bethlehem. |
D.More Things in Heaven. |