You know how wonderful you are,and you know that others know how wonderful you are,but what do you do when admiration crosses over the line into jealousy?For most teens there will come a day when you realize that one of your friends is jealous and that this jealousy is hurting your friendship.When this happens it can seem like there is nothing that you can do,but the good news is that there is.Don't let jealousy spoil your relationships.Tackle it head on and you might be back to normal much sooner than you think.
It can be hard to walk up to a friend and ask them what the problem is,but if you want to save your friendship you'll have to do just that.Don't approach them and ask why they are jealous of you (unless of course you want to appear totally conceited),just take some time alone with them and let them know that you've been feeling like there's been something coming between you.If they refuse to respond,then use the opportunity to explain how you have been feeling.Chances are that something you say will strike a nerve and your friend will open up as well.
When you figure out what is annoying your friend,ask him or her what (s)he thinks would make the situation better.If,for example,(s)he says that (s)he feels like (s)he doesn't get to spend any time with you because of your being off with your new friends from the swim team then maybe you could invite her along the next time or block off one day a week for just the two of you.Remember,though,that whatever solution you decide on should be a compromise.Don't limit your own talents or opportunities simply because your friend is unhappy.Try instead to include him or her in your new life and see how that works out.
Even the best of friendships can be tinged by jealousy.This destructive emotion is rarely productive and can turn best friends into worst enemies.Before taking extreme action,chat with your jealous friend to see if the two of you can work out a compromise.If you can't,be prepared to know exactly how far you will go to keep your friend and how far you won't.According to the author,the jealousy emotion is ________.
A.normal | B.productive |
C.destructive | D.extreme |
Which of the following is NOT mentioned as a way to confront your friend when jealousy happens?
A.Walking up to him/her and asking him/her why he/she is jealous of you. |
B.Walking up to him/her and asking him/her what the problem is. |
C.Spending some time with him/her and letting him/her know how you feel. |
D.Spending some time with him/her and letting him/her know you think there's something coming between you. |
The purpose of the passage is ________.
A.to explain what causes jealousy |
B.to offer some advice on making friends |
C.to introduce the way to cope with a jealous friend |
D.to explain how destructive the jealous emotion is |
What can be inferred from the last two paragraphs?
A.There's always a solution to solve the problem of jealousy. |
B.Jealousy can turn best friends into worst enemies. |
C.You may lose a friend to keep your own gifts,chances or selfdevelopment. |
D.You should go a long way with your friend to work out a solution |
It is quite reasonable to blame traffic jams, the cost of gas and the great speed of modern life, but manners on the road are becoming horrible.Everybody knows that the nicest men would become fierce tigers behind the wheel.It is all right to have a tiger in a cage, but to have one in the driver’s seat is another matter altogether.
Road politeness is not only good manners, but good sense too.It takes the most cool-headed drivers great patience to give up the desire to beat back when forced to face rude driving.On the other hand, a little politeness goes a long way towards reducing the possibility of quarrelling and fighting.A friendly nod or a wave of thanks in answer to an act of politeness helps to create an atmosphere of good will and calm so necessary in modern traffic condition.But such behaviors of politeness are by no means enough.Many drivers nowadays don’t even seem able to recognize politeness when they see it.
However, misplaced politeness can also be dangerous.Typical examples are the driver who waves a child crossing the street at a wrong place into the path of oncoming cars that may be not able to stop in time.The same goes for encouraging old ladies to cross the road wherever and whenever they want to.It always amazes me that the highways are not covered with the dead bodies of these grannies (奶奶).
An experienced driver, whose manners are faultless, told me it would help if drivers learnt to correctly join in traffic stream without causing total blockages that give rise to unpleasant feelings.Unfortunately, modern drivers can’t even learn to drive.Years ago, experts warned us that the fast increase of the car ownership would demand more give-and-take from all road users.It is high time for all of us to take this message to heart.According to the passage, troubles on the road are often caused by .
A.road conditions | B.the speed of modern life |
C.the large number of cars | D.the behavior of the drivers |
In the writer’s opinion, .
A.drivers should show road politeness properly. |
B.strict traffic rules are badly needed |
C.unskillful drivers should be punished |
D. drivers should avoid traffic jams |
The underlined word “give-and-take” in the passage means .
A.politeness and impoliteness |
B.willingness to give in to each other’s wishes |
C.offering help to others as much as possible |
D.good manners and bad manners |
What is the best title of the passage?
A.Road Politeness
B.Traffic Problems
C Bad Manners on the Road
D.Good Drivers and Bad Driver
People have been burying the dead at Salem’s Hope Cemetery since 1833. The place is filled with old gravestones and gothic mausoleums(哥特式陵墓), the spirits of the dead hanging over the land like an early morning fog.
Keeping watch, a few steps from the road with her skirt over the pedestal (基座), is Goldie Belle Taylor, her face weathered but otherwise in good condition. On this day, she is holding a bunch of pink rises because Goldie Belle always holds flowers. Someone makes sure of that.
“And she has had fresh flowers in her hands for the last 150 years.” Karen Biery lives in Damascus, about five miles west of Hope Cemetery. She’s written a book based on the legend of Goldie Belle Taylor titled Believe. In 1886, at the age of two, young Goldie Belle used her hands to sop up (抹去) the left over elderberry juice from her father’s iron kettle. She died not long after from poisoning. She was the love of her dad’s life, and he was so upset that he sold the family farm to buy the Italian made statue, which today marks her grave.
At first, it was her father who brought the flowers and laid them in her hands. When he died in 1896, the flowers kept coming. Her flowers are different per season. Why do the flowers keep miraculously appearing? People have tried to find out by having camped by the statue, but not even the groundskeepers have been able to catch the criminal.
It’s said that a fairy arrives at Hope Cemetery looking for the grave of her birth mother. She comes across Goldie Belle’s statue.The underlined word “that” in paragraph 2 probably refers to________.
A.her face in good condition |
B.her bunch of pink roses |
C.Goldie Belle Taylor is holding pink roses |
D.Goldie Belle Taylor always holds flowers |
It can be inferred from the third paragraph __________.
A.her father was poisonous | B.the iron kettle was poisonous |
C.elderberry juice was poisonous | D.it was her father that hated her |
After her father died, the flowers in the hands of Goldie Belle Taylor_______.
A.usually change | B.were stolen |
C.are no longer fresh | D.come from a criminal |
What would be the best title for the passage?
A.A fairy brings the flowers. | B.The mystery of Goldie’s flowers. |
C.What happens to the girl? | D.How do the flowers get there? |
TS said that everyone has a changing circle of friends. However, no matter how frequently we renew our phone books, some names always remain. These names remind us of the good times we spent together with our friends. Though we may not see them every day, they will always stay in our hearts.
Tom was often called "Big Head" at school because of his extraordinarily large head. He was one of my close friends at primary school. But since graduation, we have been studying in different cities and haven't seen each other for a long time.
Several days ago, I received an e-mail saying that my former classmates from primary school were holding a party to get together and chat about past memories. I was so excited because [ would get to see Tom again. What would he look like now? Would we still feel as close to each other as we had done back then? I was a little frightened about what I would find.
When I arrived at the party, I did manage to recognize Tom. However, he was much taller than he had been before. What's more, his head was no longer big.
"Hi, Buddy. Do you recognize me?" Tom walked towards me.
"Of course. How could I ever forget our ' Big Head' ," I said jokingly, "But where has your big head gone?"
"Haha, maybe it didn't keep up with the steps of time and stayed in the past," Tom patted his own head and answered with a laugh.
All my misgivings suddenly disappeared. I realized that time had changed us outwardly, but our friendship hadn't changed at all. I chatted happily with Tom about our shared experiences in primary school.
Then I looked around the small room and saw different faces, both familiar and unfamiliar, but none of them the faces of strangers. The whole party was filled with a warm atmosphere. Everyone was lost in the sweet memories of childhood. They forgot all their present-day stresses and pressures.
"Hey, what are you thinking about? Come and get some pizza!" A call from a friend woke me up from my thoughts. I hurried towards the table. "Wait! That biggest piece is mine!"Why are some names always in our phone books?
A.Because everyone has a changing circle of friends. |
B.Because we sometimes forget to renew phone books. |
C.Because we'll never forget some of our friends. |
D.Because our circle of friends will not change. |
According to the passage, which of the following statements is TRUE?
A.Tom has changed a lot since primary school. |
B.Tom invited the author to the get-together party by email. |
C.The author recognized Tom immediately because of his big head. |
D.Tom couldn't recognize the author at the first sight. |
What does the underlined word "misgiving" mean (in para. 8 )?
A.expectation and excitement | B.worries and doubts |
C.stresses and pressures | D.shyness and nervousness |
The author writes the last paragraph to show
A.others can't understand what the author is thinking about |
B.The pizzas are not adequate for everyone in the party |
C.the author wants to have a big pizza very much |
D.the author enjoys the warm atmosphere of the party greatly |
Which of the following proverbs can be used to conclude this passage.'?
A.A friend in need is a friend indeed. | B.Time reveals a person's heart. |
C.Friends are like wine; the older, the better. | D.A faithful friend is hard to find. |
Nothing succeeds like confidence. When you are truly confident, it radiates from you like sunlight, and attracts success to you like a magnet. Besides, those who are self-confident can in turn inspire confidence in others: their audience, their peers, their bosses, their customers, and their friends. And gaining the confidence of others is one of the key ways in which a self-confident person finds success.
So how can we build a sense of self-confidence and prepare ourselves on the way to success?
First, do what you believe to be right, even if others mock or criticize you for it. Believe in yourself and believe that you can do it under any circumstances, because if you believe you can, then you really will. The belief keeps you searching for answers, which means that pretty soon you will get them.
Second, govern your behavior based on what other people think. What's more important, be willing to take risks and go the extra miles to achieve better results, in which case mistakes can not be avoided. Don't hesitate to admit your mistakes, and learn from them. Next, work hard to settle the problems in order to cover up your mistakes before anyone notices. Building self-confidence is readily achievable, as long as you have the focus and determination to carry things through. And what's even better is that the things you'll do to build self-confidence will also build success -- after all, your confidence will come from real, solid achievement. No one can take this away from you!
As you sow, so shall you reap. With your perseverance and improvement, you are getting closer to success. At this stage, wait for others to congratulate you on your accomplishments and compliments graciously. "Thanks, I really worked hard on that prospectus. I'm pleased you recognize my efforts. " The congratulations and compliments from others will promote you to gain further success.
Self-confidence is extremely important in almost every, aspect of our lives, and it is no wonder that so many people struggle to find it. Self-confidence really can be learned and built on. Besides, whether you're working on your own self-confidence or building the confidence of people around you, it's well-worth the effort!Those who are truly confident
A.succeed without effort and hard work |
B.encourage people around to become confident |
C.appear more attractive and thus become successful |
D.gain the confidence of others and feel successful |
The underlined word "mock" (Para. 2) is closest in meaning to
A.praise | B.imitate | C.talk to | D.laugh at |
When others congratulate us on our achievements, we are supposed to
A.praise them in return | B.gain further improvement |
C.politely accept the compliments | D.expect them to congratulate you again |
Which of the following proverbs best goes with Paragraph 4.9
A.Look before your leap. |
B.It is no use crying over spilt milk. |
C.Genius is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration. |
D.Learn from past mistakes and avoid future ones. |
The purpose of the text is to
A.tell people how to become successful |
B.convince people to do what they believe to be right |
C.encourage people to build confidence and achieve success |
D.criticize people who lack confidence and thus fail in their career |
Over the years I've been teaching children about a simple but powerful concept -- the ant philosophy (哲学).I think everybody should study ants.
They have an amazing four-part philosophy, and here is the first part: ants never quit. That's a good philosophy. If they're headed somewhere and you try to stop them; they'll look for another way.
They'll climb over, they'll climb under, and they'll climb around. They keep looking for another way. What a neat philosophy, to never quit looking for a way to get where you're supposed to go.
Second, ants think winter all summer. That's an important viewpoint. You can't be so naive ( 天真的) as to think summer will last forever. So ants are gathering in their winter food in the middle of summer.
An ancient story says, "Don't build your house on the sand in the summer. " Why do we need that advice.'? Because it is important to be realistic. In the summer, you've got to think storm. You've got to think rocks as you enjoy the sand and sun. Think ahead.
The third part of the ant philosophy is that ants think summer all winter. That is so important. During the winter, ants remind themselves, "This won't last long ; we'll soon be out of here. " And on the first warm day, the ants are out. If it turns cold again, they'll dive back down, but then they come out on the first warm day. They can't wait to get out.
And here's the last part of the ant-philosophy. How much will an ant gather during the summer to prepare for the winter? All he possibly can. What an incredible philosophy, the "all-you-possibly-can" philosophy.
Wow, what a great seminar to attend -- the ant seminar. Never give up, look ahead, stay positive and do all you can.If you try to stop ants going forward, they will
A.climb over your head | B.quit looking for a way |
C.search for another way | D.keep climbing around |
What is the second philosophy of ants?
A.Think winter all summer. | B.Always be realistic. |
C.Never become lazy in summer. | D.Always look ahead. |
Which of the following can best describe the third part of the ant philosophy?
A.Always stay positive. | B.Always remind yourself. |
C.Always think summer. | D.Always be hardworking. |
We can learn from the last part of the ant philosophy that we should
A.never stop gathering food in the summer | B.always get prepared for the winter |
C.gather as much as possible for the future | D.do whatever we can for the future |
Which of the following is the best title for the passage?
A.The Concept of Ants | B.The Ant Philosophy |
C.Never Give up | D.Do All You Can |