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Deal with conflict
Losing friends is about as easy as making friends if you don’t know how to deal with anger and conflict .Conflict is part if everyone’s ______.It will show up at school , at work and at home .It’s Ok to feel angry ,annoyed or sad. These feelings are __
___,but different people deal with ___
______in different ways .Some people shout, call people names ,or even hit the person who has __
____them .Others do their best to keep away from disagreements but very few deal with conflict ___
________.
Dealing with conflict is a step by step progress._____ ______you start discussing the problem ,calm down ,count to 10 and imagine a relaxing ___
______.Then ,say what is really bothering you ,but watch how you express yourself .Don’t complain .Share ___
___you feel by using “I “ For example ,don’t say “You are always ordering me to do this or to do that ,”but “I feel sad___
__you don’t pay attention to what I think .
You want people to _________your opinion so make sure you practice what you want to say .Listen carefully to the other person and accept that he or she might see the problem in a different way .Be open-minded and willing to say sorry .
Susan:Hello,Helen.(1) ?
Helen:Hi.Susan.It was OK.I really enjoyed it.
Susan:Did you go anywhere?
Helen:Yes.I went to Weifang in Shandong.
Susan:Weifang?I (2) there twice.I know it is a city famous for kites.
Helen:Yes,there is an international kite festival there every April.During the festival,you can see(3) made of silk or paper.
Susan:Sounds like you had a wonderful time.
Helen:Yes,it was really fun to see the kites flying in the sky.What did you do on your vacation?
Susan:I visited a farm in the countryside.I saw a lot of interesting things and took some photos.
Helen:That's great.(4) show them to me tomorrow?
Susan:No problem.It's time for class.See you later.
Helen:(5) .
A.Thank you for telling me so much.
B.When I get a gift,could I open it right now?
C.Would you mind telling me some customs about the festival?
D.I'm interested in Chinese festival,especially the Chinese New Year.
E.The person with coins is lucky.
F.Do you like coins?
Dave:Nice to meet you!I'm Dave from America.
He Wei:Nice to meet you,too!I'm He Wei,an exchange student from China.
Dave:China?It's a great country.(36)
He Wei:Really?Well,next year,you can come to my house for the New Year.
Dave:OK.(37)
He Wei:Of course not.On the New Year's Eve,we always make dumplings with family and some coins put in the dumplings.(38)
Dave:That's cool.Anything else?
He Wei:On the New Year's Day,we Chinese always visit relatives and give gifts to each other.
Dave:Oh,I like gifts.(39)
He Wei:In China,you shouldn't open the gift at once.You should wait and open it later.
Dave:Really?It's interesting.(40)
He Wei:You're welcome.
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