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For many parents , raising a teenager is like fighting a long war ,but years go by without any clear winner . Like a border conflict between neighboring countries ,the parent-teen war is about boundaries: Where is the line between what I control and what you do?
Both sides want peace ,but neither feels it has any power to stop the conflict . In part ,this is because neither is willing to admit .any responsibility for starting it . From the parents’ point of view, the only cause of their fight is their adolescents’ complete unreasonableness. And of course .the teens see it in exactly the same way , except oppositely . Both feel trapped
In this article. I’ll describe three no-win situations that commonly arise between teens and parents and then suggest some ways out of the trap. The first no-win situation is quarrels over unimportant things . Examples include the color of the teen’s hair, the cleanliness of the bedroom ,the preferred style of clothing , the child’s failure to eat a good breakfast before school ,or his tendency to sleep until noon on the weekends .Second ,blaming.The goal of a blaming battle is to make the other admit that his bad attitude is the reason why everything goes wrong . Third , needing to be right ,It doesn’t matter what the topic is –politics. The taws of physics ,or the proper way to break an egg –the point of these arguments is to prove that you are right and the other person is wrong .for both wish to be considered an authority—someone who actually knows something — and  therefore to command respect. Unfortunately , as long as long as parents and teens continue to assume that they know more than the other ,they’ll continue to fight these battles forever and never make any real progress
Why does the author compare the parent-teen war to a border conflict?

A.Both can continue for generations .
B.Both are about where to draw the line
C.Neither has any clear winner
D.Neither can be put to an end

What does the underlined part in Paragraph 2 mean?

A.The teens blame their parents for starting the conflict.
B.The teens agree with their parents on the cause of the conflict
C.The teens acouse their parents of misleading them
D.The teens tend to have a full understanding of their parents

Parents and teens want to be right because they want to ________.

A.give orders to the other
B.know more than the other
C.gain respect from the other
D.get the other to behave properly

What will the author most probably discuss in the paragraph that follows?

A.Causes for the parent –teen conflicts
B.Examples of the parent –teen war.
C.Solutions for the parent –teen problems
D.Future of the parent-teen relationship
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A new generation addiction is quickly spreading all over the world. Weboholism(醉心于网络), a twentieth century disease, affects people from different ages. They surf the net, use e-mail and speak in chat rooms. They spend many hours on the computer, and it becomes a compulsive habit. They cannot stop, and it affects their lives.
Ten years ago, no one thought that using computers could become compulsive(强迫性的)behavior that could affect the social and physical life of computer users. This obsessive behavior has affected teenagers and college students. They are likely to log on computers and spend long hours at different websites.
They become hooked on computers and gradually their social and school life is affected by this situation. They spend all free time surfing and don’t concentrate on homework, so this addiction influences their grades and success at schools. Because they can find everything on the websites, they hang out there. Moreover, this addiction to websites influences their social life.
They spend more time in front of computers than with their friends. The relation with their friends changes. The virtual(虚拟的)life becomes more important than their real life. They have a new language that they speak in the chat rooms and it causes cultural changes in society.
Because of the change in their behavior, they begin to isolate(孤立 themselves from the society and live with their virtual friends. They share their emotions and feelings with friends who they have never met in their life. Although they feel confident on the computer, they are not confident with real live friends they have known all their life. It is a problem for the future. This addictive behavior is beginning to affect the whole world.
The main idea of the passage is about _______.

A.the cause of weboholism B.the advantage of weboholism
C.the popularity of weboholism D.the influence of weboholism

The underlined work “obsessive” in the second paragraph most probably means “______”.

A.attractive B.addictive C.professional D.potential

We can infer from the passage that ________.

A.weboholism has the greatest effect on teenagers.
B.students can hardly balance real and virtual life.
C.people are addicted to games on the Internet.
D.virtual life is more vivid and attractive anyway.

Which of the following is NOT true of weboholism?

A.It contributes to the development of the web.
B.The chat room language may change social culture.
C.The problem will be getting more and more serious later.
D.People addicted to the web often become inactive in real life.

The author’s attitude towards weboholism is that of being ________.

A.optimistic B.positive C.oppositive D.acceptable

Forest guards in western India are using cell phones with ringtones(手机铃声)of cows mooing, goats bleating and roosters crowing to attract leopards (豹)that have wandered into human settlements, officials said on Monday.
The wild cats in the state of Gujarat often get into villages near forests in search of food, say officials, adding that this results in attacks on people. But rather than use methods such as live bait(活诱饵)like goats tied to trees to lure (引诱) the leopards, which then fall into large pits dug by guards, officials say they have found a safer method to trap the cats.
“The moos of a cow, and bleating of a goat from the phone have proved effective to trap leopards,” said D. Vasani, a senior forest official in Gujarat. “This trick works.” Vasani said forest guards have downloaded the sounds of over a dozen animals as ringtones on their mobiles which they attach to speakers and fix behind a cage. They then play the ringtone continuously for up to two hours until the curious leopard appears and moves into the cage looking for its easy meal.
At least five leopards have so far been lured from villages since the new ringtone method was introduced three months ago. The cats have all been released (释放)back into forest areas.
Wildlife activists welcomed the new initiative (新方案) saying that previous methods of trapping the cats using pits often resulted in the animals getting injured.
What can be the best title of the passage?

A.Cell Phones to Hunt Animals B.Practical Uses of Cell Phones
C.Wildlife And New Technology D.Phone Ringtones to Catch Leopards

Forest guards in India try to catch leopards mainly because _______.

A.leopards attack villagers B.they want leopard fur
C.leopards attack animals D.they have new ringtones

According to the wildlife activists, the new method is _______.

A.appreciated because it benefits leopards B.not good because it may injure animals
C.effective because ringtones work D.not safer than the former one

We can learn from the passage except that _______.

A.forest guards don’t mean to hurt the leopards
B.forest guards no longer use pits to trap leopards
C.forest guards used goats to attract leopards
D.recorded animal sound are used to lure leopards

What will be needed to trap the leopards using the new method?
a. cell phones b. animals c. sounds of animals d. cages e. large pits

A.abcd B.bce C.ade D.acd

World top-ranked badminton player Lin Dan said last Friday that he was a better player than Taufik Hidayat in the year of 2006 despite losing the Asian Games single title to the Indonesian Olympic champion.
“I have ranked No.1 in the world for two straight years and I think people can easily come to a conclusion on who is a better player for the whole year,” said Lin Dan, also known as Super Dan in the badminton world because of his marvelous performance in the sport.
Hidayat beat Lin 21-15, 22-20 to give Indonesia its second gold medal in Doha on December 9, retaining his Asian Games singles title and avenging(报仇) two losses to the badminton world champion.
Lin, 23, led China to the men’s team title after defeating Hidayat twice in three days, in the preliminary round and in the semifinals of the Asian Games.
In their third meeting, Lin came up against a better-prepared Hidayat than he had encountered previously.
Hidayat was cheered on by the noisy support from dancing and flag-waving Indonesian fans, who had converted the badminton arena into a national celebration even before the two players stepped onto the court.
There’s been a lot of acrimony(言语的刻毒) between Hidayat and Lin, who this year won the single title in the world championships after former champion Hidayat crashed out in the quarterfinals.
In Doha, Hidayat was quoted as calling Lin “arrogant” before the event began, but the two stars played down the rift (a situation where two people dislike each other).
“It’s no problem, we’re close friends,” said Hidayat. “The media fabricated it.”
Lin said last Friday in Beijing that he and Hidayat remain friends despite all the rumors(谣言).
“There is no problem between Taufik and me although we don’t talk to each other very much,” said Lin. “Media tends to make up things in order to make their stories juicy.”
What does the underlined word “fabricated” mean?

A.made up B.reported C.discovered D.found out

What is the relationship between the two players like?

A.They are only opponents.
B.Lin looks down upon Hidayat.
C.They both think they are friends.
D.The media has worsened the relationship between them.

Which of the following statements is true according to the passage?

A.Lin beat Hidayat in all the games of 2006.
B.Lin won the single title in the world championships in 2006.
C.Indonesian fans held a national celebration after the two players stepped onto the court.
D.Hidayat beat Lin 21-15, 22-20 to give Indonesia its first gold medal in Doha on the ninth of December

This passage implies that ________.

A.Hidayat was in a better prepared condition than Lin in the Asian Games
B.Lin helped to win the men’s team title in the Asian Games of 2006
C.Both of them are the best badminton players in the world
D.Media tends to make up rumors

What is the best title for this passage?

A.Opponents Become Good Friends
B.True Friendship
C.World Top-ranked Badminton Players
D.Who Is a Better Player?

Philip was a nine-year-old boy in a Sunday school class of 8-year-old girls and boys. Sometimes the third graders didn’t welcome Philip into their group and usually tricked him. This was not because he was older, but because he was “different”. You see, Philip suffered from a condition called Downs’s Syndrome. This made him “different”, with his facial characteristics, slow responses and mental problems.
One Sunday after Easter, the Sunday school teacher gathered some plastic eggs that pulled apart in the middle. The teacher gave one to each child. On that beautiful spring day, the children were to go out and discover for themselves some symbol of “new life” and place it inside the plastic eggs.
After the children returned to the classroom, the teacher opened their eggs one by one, asking each child to explain that symbol of “new life”. The first opened egg contained a flower. Everyone cheered. In another was a butterfly…. When the teacher opened the last egg, it was empty. “That’s stupid,” said someone. The teacher felt a pull at his shirt. It was Philip. Looking up, Philip said, “It’s mine. I did it. It’s empty. I have new life, because the tomb is empty.” Not a sound was heard in class at all. From that day on, Philip became a real part of the group. They welcomed him, and whatever made him different was never mentioned again.
Philip’s family knew he wouldn’t live a long life, for there were too many things wrong with him.
The underlined word “condition” in the first paragraph probably means ________.

A.grade B.status C.health D.disease

It can be inferred from the first paragraph that ________.

A.The 8-year-olds were sometimes cruel
B.The 8-year-olds were friendly to Philip
C.Philip was really different in school
D.Philip was older and more sensitive

The teacher gave each child one plastic egg to let them ________.

A.play around on that beautiful spring day
B.put some symbol of “new life” into it
C.try to pull it apart in the middle
D.go out and discover themselves

After Philip explained his new life, ________.

A.The class thought he was clever. B.The class fell silent.
C.He began to study in the class. D.He felt dying.

We learn from the passage that ________.

A.The teacher used to have classes outdoors
B.The Philip’s new life wish was empty
C.Philip was healthy as a whole
D.Philip was accepted by his classmates in the end

It was unusually quiet in the emergency room on December 25.
I was nurse on duty that day. I didn’t think there would be any patients, sighing about having to work on Christmas. Just then five bodies showed up at my desk, a pale woman and four small children.
“Are you all sick?” I asked suspiciously.
“Yes,” she said weakly and lowered her head.
But when it came to descriptions of their presenting problems, things got a little vague. Two of the children had headaches, but the headaches weren’t accompanied by the normal body language of holding the head or trying to keep it still. Two children had earaches, but only one could tell me which ear was affected. The mother complained of a cough but seemed to work to produce it.
Something was wrong, but I didn’t say anything but explained that it might be a little while before a doctor saw her. She responded, “Take your time; it’s warm here.”
On a hunch (出于直觉), I checked the chart after the admitting clerk had finished registering the family. No address---they were homeless. The waiting room was warm.
I looked out at the family huddled by the Christmas tree. The little one was pointing at the television and exclaiming something to her mother. The oldest one was looking at an ornament on the Christmas tree.
I went back to the nurses’ station and mentioned we had a homeless family in the waiting room. The nurses, grumbling about working Christmas, turned to compassion for a family just trying to get warm on Christmas. The team went into action, much as we do when there’s a medical emergency. But this one was a Christmas emergency.
We were all offered a free meal in the hospital cafeteria on Christmas Day, so we claimed that meal and prepared a banquet for our Christmas guests. We needed presents. We put together oranges and apples in a basket. We collected from different departments candies, crayons and other things available that could be presents. As seriously as we met the physical needs of the patients that came to us that day, our team worked to meet the needs, and exceed the expectations, of a family who just wanted to be warm on Christmas Day.
Later, as the family walked to the door to leave, the four year old came running back, gave me a hug and whispered, “Thanks for being our angels today.”
Which of the following would be the best title of the passage?

A.Working Christmas Day B.Christmas Day is Coming
C.A Happy Family D.A Pale Woman and Four Small Children

What kind of person do you think the author is?

A.Hardworking and outgoing B.Serious and careful
C.Hardworking and warmhearted D.Serious and stubborn

Which of the following is TRUE according to the passage?

A.Something was wrong with one of the children’s heads.
B.The pale woman forgot to write the address.
C.The author did not understand the truth.
D.The children’s mother told a lie.

It can be inferred from the text that______.

A.The author didn’t think there would be any patients on Christmas Day
B.The woman was uncomfortable when she lowered her head
C.The family appeared in the emergency room on Christmas Eve
D.The woman and four small children were satisfied and grateful

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