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In recent years, our parenting culture began to send the message that competence(能力) was important for building self-confidence. However, that same parenting culture made a big mistake by telling parents they should tell their children how competent they were. Children can't be convinced that they are competent. Only your children can build their sense of competence.
However, you can do several things to encourage them to develop their own competence. First, you can give them opportunities to gain a sense of competence. You should allow your children to “get their hands dirty” in the daily life and find out what they are capable of.
These daily experiences allow your children to develop specific competencies that will be helpful to them as they grow up. Also, the more individual competencies children develop, the more they will view themselves as globally competent people.
Second, you can be sure that they gain the most value from their experiences. You can direct their focus to the competences that enabled those successes rather than some generic(笼统的) praise of the accomplishment itself. And you can also praise their accomplishments.
A great difficulty for parents is allowing their children to be wrong or do something poorly in the mistaken belief that these experiences will hurt their sense of competence. In fact, whether they do it well isn't important because success isn't really the goal. Instead, the goal is their willingness to keep trying.
Another mistake that parents make is that, after being unsuccessful when their children first try something, they try to correct them so they will succeed the next time they try. That's not to say that you can't lend a hand when they are struggling. But let them take the lead; if they really want your help, they'll ask for it.The passage is mainly about_____.
| A.the arts to praise children |
| B.the ways to help children develop ability |
| C.the ways to evaluate children’s ability |
| D.the proper ways to help children deal with failure |
What should parents say to help children gain value from their experiences?
| A.Well done! |
| B.You are the best! |
| C.You are really careful! |
| D.You’d better do as I do. |
Parents often make a mistake by ______.
| A.getting their children’s hands dirty |
| B.not realizing the harmful effect of failure |
| C.putting themselves into children’s shoes |
| D.telling their children how competent they are |
How did the writer develop the passage?
| A.By asking and answering questions. |
| B.By introducing different opinions. |
| C.By listing examples. |
| D.By giving explanations. |
In which section of a newspaper can you find this passage?
| A. Education | B.Health and Fitness |
| C.Home and Garden | D.Careers |
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Jean—Francois Millet (October 4,1814----January 20, 1875) was a French painter and one of the founder of the Barbizon School in rural France. Born of a peasant family, Millet was encouraged by his father to study art in Cherbourg, France. He can be categorized as part of the movement called “naturalism”(自然主义). His understanding of the peasant’ hard life was perfectly expressed in his choice of subject and natural preference for powerful but simple drawing and coloring.
One of the most well—known of Millet’s paintings, The Gleaners(《拾穗者》),first came in a vertical composition(垂直式构图) painted in 1854,and then there came the horizontal version in 1856, which is now preserved in the Musee d’Orsay. It depicts women bending over in the fields to collect the leftover’s from the harvest, and it is a monumental composition devoted to the working class.
Previously, servants were depicted in paintings as obedient to a noble or a king, and picking up what was left of the harvest was regarded as one of the lowest jobs in Millet;s times. However, Millet offered these women as the heroic focus of the picture. Besides, in the painting, light lights up the women’s shoulders as they carry out their work. Behind them, the field that stretches into the distance is bathed in golden light, under a wide , magnificent sky. The forms of the three figures, standing against the lighter field, show balance and harmony. According to the passage , we can know that Millet________.
| A.was born in rural France |
| B.belongs to neither naturalism nor realism |
| C.became famous for his love of the countryside |
| D.received his high school education in Barbizon |
As for the painting The Gleaners, ________.
| A.it is originally a horizontal composition |
| B.it is based on the effort of Musee d’Orsay |
| C.it presents women in the field as the chief focus |
| D.it shows how women are stopped from working in the field |
In the painting, the viewer can appreciate Millet’s_________..
| A.crazy interest in blue color |
| B.strong focus on the city life |
| C.absolute respect for the king |
| D.particular choice of main characters |
In which of the following books can we probably find this passage?
| A.Kings and Nobles in France |
| B.A Guide to French Painting |
| C.French Agricultural History |
| D.The Founder of Musee d’Orsay |
I learned about life from an ant farm.When I was seven years old, my family created one.First, we put clean sand in a thin glass box, and then we waited for the live ants to arrive.Shortly after the chilly ants were dropped into the glass structure, they got to work making tunnels.I was amazed that each one knew exactly what to do.After hours of staring, I realized that the ants had assigned jobs.With my mom ' s help, I kept a diary of what happened each day and named the ants.
One day a tragedy struck the ant farm.The pages of the diary, still wrinkled where tear drops fell, indicate the depth of the tragedy.'I had put my face so close to the structure that I accidentally tipped it over, caving in all the tunnels.Although the ants survived their earthquake, one by one they began to die.I was terrified as I watched them give up their tunnel-building to carry the bodies to a comer of the farm.My mother reported that the ants were dying of "frustration." They simply could not stand the reality that their tunnels had been destroyed.
Although much time has passed, I still think of that ant farm.Mom had hoped it would teach me about the natural world, but it taught me much more.Over the years, I came to realize the ants were a study in the benefits of teamwork.Working together, they were able to create an amazing world for themselves.I also learned that they should be admired for their hard work.Day in and day out, each labored at their task.The ant farm showed that teamwork and perseverance are indeed two key ingredients to success.But there was an even larger lesson that I did not realize until recently: Adversity (不幸、灾祸) is a natural part of life,and must be accepted.Unlike the ants, humans cannot give up when they face disappointment.Unlike the ants, we have to realize that if a tunnel caves in, we just have to build another.Giving up, I say, is not a choice.The family created an ant farm in a glass box because it was easy _____.
| A.for the ants to live in | B.to get sun light in |
| C.to keep the sand clean | D.for the boy to observe |
What made the pages of the diary wrinkled?
| A.The tears. | B.The earthquake | C.The ants. | D.The tragedy. |
What did the writer finally realize?
| A.Perseverance is the only way to success. |
| B.Humans cannot give up when facing adversity. |
| C.People should admire anyone for their hard work. |
| D.His mother taught him much more. |
When did the writer draw a more important lesson from his experience?
| A.Before he was seven years old. |
| B.When he was seven years old. |
| C.Immediately after the tragedy. |
| D.Many years after the tragedy |
All the Lortons’ farm animals – the cows and the goats, the ducks and the chickens, got along well with Roger—a llama(美洲驼). But since llamas are used to thinking of animals like coyotes(土狼) and dogs as threats, it took Roger a few weeks to accept the family dog.
Roger protects the sheep and lambs in two ways. First, he keeps the sheep together. A hungry coyote will try to scatter(分散) the flock and then pick off a weak or small animal that has become separated from the rest. But when a coyote threatens the Lorton’s sheep, they all run to Roger, depending on him to defend them.
And he does, with his second defense: confronting(对抗) the coyote. Llamas are very curious and will run at top speed to investigate anything that looks interesting. When a coyote sees a three-hundred-pound llama rushing toward it, the coyote will not usually wait around to see what the llama wants.
And once a llama realizes that a coyote is threatening the flock, the llama will stand between the coyote and the sheep to defend them. Often, the llama will charge toward the coyote with its head down. As it runs, it will sometimes call out an alarm to the flock in a high-pitched voice. Since Roger’s arrival, coyotes haven’t gotten any sheep from the Lortons.The purpose of the passage is to tell us that ________________.
| A.protective | B.curious | C.brave | D.patient |
It can be inferred that the Lortons are __________________.
In seventh grade, Brittany Blythe dreamed of being a cheerleader. Her school’s coaches were less than enthusiastic. “They said, ‘I don’t know how you’ll be able to do it,’ she recalls. “‘You won’t be able to do it. ’”
But Brittany, now a junior at Strath Haven High School near Philadelphia, persisted(坚持). And when the junior team cheerleaders won a tournament last year, she was right there, dancing and cheering with the rest of the team.
Not bad for someone whose legs were cut off below the knee when she was two years old.
Brittany, 18, was born without shinbones(胫骨)--“just blood and muscle tissue”, as she puts it. When she tried to walk, her legs twisted.
After the operation, she adapted quickly. “From day one, I basically jumped up and wanted to do everything,” she says. Prosthetic legs(假腿) allowed her to move around upright, but too slowly to keep up with her friends. Brittany’s solution: take the legs off and walk on her knees---sometimes she still does when safety and comfort permit.
She’s rarely daunted. Other children laughed at her through the years, especially in junior high school, but she says the challenge only made her stronger. Now she’s trying to convince her coaches to let her remove the prostheses and be a flyer, the cheerleader who’s thrown in the air and caught by her teammates.
Brittany doesn’t think her problems are more difficult than the next person’s. “My disability was the first thing I had to get through, and that’s going to prepare me for the future,” she says. “It’s all just a test: If someone throws you a curve ball(给你出难题), what are you going to do?”What was the school’s coaches’ attitude towards Brittany’s idea of being a cheerleader?
| A.Supportive | B.Doubtful | C.Opposed | D.Curious |
What did Brittany do to keep up with her friends?
| A.She used a pair of walking sticks. |
| B.She practiced hard every day. |
| C.She walked on her knees. |
| D.She asked her friends for help |
The underlined word “daunted” in Paragraph 6 probably means _____________.
| A.discouraged | B.angry | C.confident | D.fortunate |
We can learn from the last paragraph that Brittany __________.
| A.is not well prepared for the future |
| B.takes a positive attitude towards life |
| C.likes the challenge of learning new things |
| D.thinks that her problems are more difficult than other’s. |