There are two types of people in the world. Although they have equal degree of health and wealth and other comforts of life, one becomes happy and the other becomes unhappy. This arises from the different ways in which they consider things, persons, events and the resulting effects upon their minds.
People who are to be happy fix their attention on the convenience of things: the pleasant parts of conversation, the well prepared dishes, the goodness of the wine and the fine weather. They enjoy all the cheerful things. Those who are to be unhappy think and speak only of the opposite things. Therefore, they are continually dissatisfied. By their remarks, they sour the pleasure of society, hurt many people, and make themselves disagreeable everywhere. If this turn of mind was founded in nature, such unhappy persons would be the more to be pitied. The intention of criticizing and being disliked is perhaps taken up by imitation. It grows into a habit, unknown to its possessors. The habit may be strong, but it may be cured when those who have it realize its bad effects on their interests and tastes. I hope this little warning may be of service to them, and help them change this habit.
Although in fact it is chiefly an act of the imagination, it has serious results in life since it brings on deep sorrow and bad luck. Those people hurt many others; nobody loves them, and no one treats them with more than the most common politeness and respect. This frequently puts them in bad temper and draws them into arguments. If they aim at getting some advantages in social position or fortune, nobody wishes them success. Nor will anyone start a step or speak a word to favor their hopes. If they bring on themselves public objections, no one will defend or excuse them, and many will join to criticize their wrongdoings. These should change this bad habit and be pleased with what is pleasing, without worrying needlessly about themselves and others. If they do not, it will be good for others to avoid any contact with them. Otherwise, it can be disagreeable and sometimes very inconvenient, especially when one becomes mixed up in their quarrels.People who are unhappy _______.
| A.always consider things differently from others |
| B.always discover the unpleasant side of certain things |
| C.usually misunderstand what others think or say |
| D.usually are affected by the results of certain things |
The phrase “sour the pleasure of society” most nearly means “_______”.
| A.make others unhappy |
| B.have a good taste with social life |
| C.tend to scold others openly |
| D.enjoy the pleasure of life |
We can conclude from the passage that _______.
| A.we should pity all such unhappy people |
| B.such unhappy people are dangerous to social life |
| C.people can get rid of the habit of unhappiness |
| D.unhappy people can not understand happy persons |
If such unhappy persons insist on keeping the habit, the author suggests that people should _______.
| A.show no respect and politeness to them |
| B.prevent any communication with them |
| C.persuade them to recognize the bad effects |
| D.quarrel with them until they realize the mistakes |
Seventy years ago I was quite a small little girl, the baby of the family, with an older brother and sister. My father was very ill at the time, and my mother took in sewing(缝纫) of any kind so we could live. She would sew far into the night with an old sewing machine. She never complained even when the food would be very scarce. She would sew until the early hours of morning.
Things were very bad that particular winter. Then a letter came from where her sewing machine was bought, saying that they would have to pick up her machine the next day unless payments were brought up to date. I remember when she read the letter I became frightened; I could picture us starving to death and all sorts of things that could come to a child‘s mind. My mother did not appear to be worried, however, and seemed to be quite calm about the matter. I, on the other hand, cried myself to sleep, wondering what would become of our family. Mother said God would not disappoint her, that he never had. I couldn‘t see how God was going to help us keep this old sewing machine.
The day when the men came for our machine arrived. There was a knock at the kitchen door. I was frightened as a child would be, for I was sure it was those men who would take away our sewing machine. Instead, a nicely dressed man stood at our door with a darling baby in his arms.
He asked my mother if she was Mrs. Hill. When she said she was, he said, "I‘m in trouble this morning and you have been recommended by the druggist and grocer down the street as an honest and wonderful woman. My wife was rushed to the hospital this morning, and since we have no relatives here, and I must open my dentist office, I have nowhere to leave my baby. Could you possibly take care of her for a few days?" He continued, "I will pay you in advance." With this he took out ten dollars and gave it to my mother.
Mother said, "Yes, yes, I will be glad to do so," and took the baby from his arms. When the man left, my mother turned to me with tears streaming down a face that looked as though a light was shining on it. She said, "I knew God would never let them take away my machine."The turning point in the story may refer to ______.
| A.a letter to the family |
| B.the man’s coming for help |
| C.the man’s wife being rushed to the hospital |
| D.the nicely dressed man’s trouble |
Why did the man turn to the writer’s mother for help?
| A.The people around him recommended the mother to him. |
| B.He was familiar with the mother. |
| C.The mother had sewn for him. |
| D.The mother was hired by the man. |
According to the text all the following are true to the man EXCEPT _____.
| A.his wife stayed in hospital |
| B.he was confused when in trouble |
| C.he had few men to turn to for help |
| D.he was a dentist |
What does mother mean by saying “I knew God would never let them take away my machine?”
| A.God can solve all the problem. |
| B.The sewing machine is my only support. |
| C.Never give up when in trouble. |
| D.Everybody should believe in God. |
A scientist turns out to be able to see the future by offering each of four-year-olds a piece of candy and watching how he or she deals with it. Some children reach eagerly for the candy they see. Some last a few minutes before they give in. But others are determined to wait until the last moment.
By the time the children reach high school, something amazing has happened. A survey found that those who as four-year-olds had enough self-control to hold out generally grew up to be more popular, adventurous, confident and dependable. The children who gave in to temptation (诱惑) early were more likely to be lonely, easily upset in time of difficulties and inflexible (固守己见的).
Actually, the ability to delay reward is a sign of emotional intelligence which doesn’t show up on an IQ test.
The hardware of the brain and the software of the mind have long been scientists’ concerns. But brain theory can’t explain what we wonder about most, like the question why some people remain upbeat in the face of troubles that would defeat a less resistant (有抵抗力的) person.
Here comes the theory of Daniel Goleman, writer of Emotional Intelligence: when it comes to predicting people’s success, brain ability as measured by IQ may actually matter less than the qualities of mind once thought of as “character”.
EQ is not the opposite of IQ. What researchers have been trying to understand is how they work together; how one’s ability to handle stress, for instance, affects the ability to concentrate and put intelligence to use. Among the ingredients (要素) for success, researchers now generally agree that IQ counts for about 20%; the rest depends on everything from social class to luck.
While many researchers in this relatively new field are glad to see emotional issues finally taken seriously, some few fear EQ invites misuse.Why does the author mention the experiment at the beginning of the text?
| A.To introduce the topic of the text. |
| B.To prove the scientist’s wisdom. |
| C.To amuse both the children and readers. |
| D.To show us how to do an IQ test. |
The experiment with the four-year-olds makes it clear that .
| A.the age of 4 is a proper time for scientific experiment |
| B.emotional intelligence won’t show up until adolescence |
| C.the ability of self-control plays a role in personal success |
| D.candy can be used to measure a person’s emotional intelligence |
The underlined word “upbeat” in Paragraph 4 probably means .
| A.kind | B.positive |
| C.floating | D.negative |
Which of the following is TRUE of EQ and IQ according to the text?
| A.There is no link between EQ and IQ. |
| B.The higher a person’s IQ is, the higher his or her EQ is. |
| C.Some people can be blessed with lots of both, but some with little of either. |
| D.Scientists are trying to discover the way in which EQ and IQ work together. |
The morning had been a disaster.My tooth was aching, and I’d been in an argument with a friend.Her words still hurt, “The trouble with you is that you won’t put yourself in my place.Can’t you see things from my point of view?” I shook my head stubbornly---and felt the ache in my tooth.I’d thought I could hold out till my dentist came back from holiday, but the pain was really unbearable.I started calling the dentists in the phone book, but no one could see me immediately.Finally, at about lunchtime, l got lucky.
“If you come by right now,” the receptionist said, “the dentist will fit you in.”
I took my purse and keys and rushed to my car.But suddenly I began to doubt about the dentist.What kind of dentist would be so eager to treat someone at such short notice? Why wasn’t he as busy as the others?
In the dentist’s office, I sat down and looked around.I saw nothing but the bare walls and I became even more worried.The assistant noticed my nervousness and placed her warm hand over my ice-cold one.
When I told her my fears, she laughed and said, “Don’t worry.The dentist is very good.”
“How long do I have to wait for him?” I asked impatiently.
“Come on, he is coming.Just lie down and relax.And enjoy the artwork,” the assistant said,“The artwork?” I was puzzled.
The chair went back.Suddenly I smiled.There was a beautiful picture, right where I could enjoy it: on the ceiling.How considerate the dentist was! At that moment, l began to understand what my friend meant by her words.
What a relief!Which of the following best describes the author’s feeling that morning?
| A.Cheerful. | B.Nervous. | C.Satisfied. | D.Upset. |
What made the author begin to doubt about the dentist?
| A.The dentist’s agreeing to treat her at very short notice. |
| B.The dentist’s being as busy as the other dentists. |
| C.The surroundings of the dentist’s office. |
| D.The laughing assistant of the dentist. |
What does the author want to tell us in the text?
| A.Strike while the iron is hot. |
| B.Have a good word for one’s friend. |
| C.Put yourself in others’ shoes. |
| D.A friend in need is a friend indeed. |
General Airport Tips
Plan to get to the airport at least an hour early, or two during holidays and other busy times; this will reduce the stress of the flight.If all goes well, you will have time to relax, shop for last-minute items, or have a meal before the flight.
Flight Delays
Find out why your flight is delayed.Call the free call numbers.Find out if other airlines are experiencing similar delays.If you believe the delay is due to something other than weather or air traffic problems, then mention your suspicion (怀疑) and ask the airline agent to book you on the next available flight, either on the same air-line or a competing one.This is called "Rule 240", and all airlines are required to do it.Use the lingo (行话); ask, "Can you 240 me?" when speaking with an agent.They will know what you mean.
Flight Cancellations(取消)
If your flight is canceled, then make a reservation on the next flight to your destination.Usually, air-line officials will try to book everyone on their next flight out.Often they will put you on a competitor's next flight only if you request it.
Getting bumped(不能登机)
To avoid getting bumped, you must be at the loading gate at least 10 minutes ahead of scheduled departure for a U.S. Flight, 20 minutes to /from Bahamas, Canada, and Mexico and 30 to/ from all other international points.You must be at the loading gate, not the airport entrance.By arriving at the airport earlier, one can _______.
| A.get on the airplane immediately |
| B.reduce the pressure of the flight |
| C.have a good rest in the airplane |
| D.buy what he wants in the airport |
If a person calls "Rule 240", he wants to _______.
| A.make sure the time for the next plane |
| B.get a ticket for the next flight |
| C.know if other flights are also delayed |
| D.ask about the cause of the plane delay |
People heading for Germany must be at the loading gate at least__________.
| A.40 minutes ahead of time |
| B.20 minutes ahead of time |
| C.30 minutes ahead of time |
| D.10 minutes ahead of time |
The purpose in writing this text is to________.
| A.show us how to get on a plane |
| B.tell us what to do before and after a flight |
| C.put forward suggestions for a flight |
| D.give us advice on dealing with airlines |
In Canada and the United States, there is a new group of children called “satellite kids”, who live in one place but whose parents live in another place.
Asians are immigrating (移民) to Canada and the United States in larger numbers than ever before. Most Asians immigrate because they believe that they can give their children a better education in the West. In Asia, especially in China, Japan, and Korea, it is difficult to go to university. Students must first pass the strict national examination. However, in Canada and the United States, it is easy to go to university, and anyone who wants to go can go. As a result, Asian parents decide to leave their countries so that their children can go to university.
The problem is that when Asians arrive, they discover that finding a job and making money are more difficult in the West than in the East. Also, they find that they are very lonely, and that they miss their homes. For these two reasons, most Asian parents decide to go back to work while their children study in the West. Therefore, these children become “satellite kids”, and most of their parents do not know how sad it is to be a “satellite kid”.
Only until now are Canadians and Americans discovering the “satellite kid” problem. Because these children do not speak English and because their parents are not there to take care of them, they are often absent from school. To be a “satellite kid” means to grow up in a country where you know you are different and where you cannot make friends because you do not speak English well. Also, it means to grow up lonely, because your parents are elsewhere. What these “satellite kids” will probably say to their parents is that it’s better to have parents around than to have a university educationSome Asian parents send their kids abroad because ________
| A.they hope their children may easily find a job there |
| B.all foreign universities are better than the ones in their own countries |
| C.the kids may not be accepted by universities in their own countries |
| D.the kids want to improve their English and make foreign friends |
“Satellite kids” refer to Asian kids ________
| A.without parents | B.speaking no English |
| C.with university education | D.living abroad alone |
What is the main idea of the passage?
| A.Parents want better education for their kids |
| B.Parents feel lonely and miss their families |
| C.Kids in foreign countries alone are badly in need of care from family |
| D.Canadians and Americans begin to notice the “satellite kids” problem |