Why do young adult children become independent so much later than they did in 1970，when the average age of independent living was 21? Why have reduced class sizes and increased per-pupil expenditures (花销）not higher academic achievement levels? Why is the mental health of today’s kids so poor when with that of children in the 1960s and before? Why do today’s become defensive when told by teachers that their children have misbehaved in school?
The answer in two words: parental . Those two words best summarize the between “old” child raising and new, post-1960s parenting. Then, the overall philosophy was that parents were not to be involved with their kids. They were available crisis, but they stood a (an) distance from their kids and allowed them to experience the benefits of the trial-and-error process. It was the child’s ，back then, to keep his or her parents from getting involved. That was children learned to be responsible and determined.
Today’s parents help their kids with almost everything. These are parents who are when it comes to an understanding of their purpose in their kids，lives. Their involvement leads them to personalize everything that happens to their kids; , the defensiveness. But given that schools and mental health professionals have been pushing parent involvement for nearly four decades, the confusion and defensiveness are .
University researchers analyzed three decades of data relating to parent participation in children’s academics. Their conclusions what I’ve been saying since the 1980s: parental help with homework a child’s academic achievement and is not reflected on standardized tests.
Parents who manage a child’s social life interfere with the of good social skills. Parents who manage a child’s after-school activities grow kids who don’t know how to their own free time. Parents who get involved in their kids, with peers grow kids who don’t know how to avoid much less trouble.
These kids have anxieties and fears of all sorts and don’t want to leave their . And their parents, when the time comes, don’t know how to being parents. You can imagine what will become of their future.
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A．associated B．linked C．compared D．matched
A．parents B．adolescents C．psychologists D．youths
A．assistance B．protection C．involvement D．preference
A．differences B．similarities C．choices D．relations
A．slightly B．passively C．highly D．fairly
A．in case of B．in spite of C．in view of D．in fear of
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A．when B．how C．why D．what
A．confused B．disappointed C．amazed D．satisfied
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A．value B．devote C．fill D．save
A．communication B．conflicts C．cooperation D．competitions
A．home B．school C．career D．profession
A．start B．ignore C．consider D．stop
I had offered to watch my 3-year-old daughter, so that my wife could go out with a friend. I was getting some work done in my study while she ______ to be having a good time in the other room. No problem, I figured. But then it got a little too ______ and I shouted, “What are you doing ?”No response. I ______ my question and heard her say, “Oh,…nothing.” Nothing？
I got up from my desk and ran out ______ the living room, where I saw her running across the hall. I followed and watched her as her little behind made a quick ______ into the bathroom. I had her ______! I told her to turn around. She ______. I pulled out my big Daddy voice, “Young lady, I said turn around !”
______, she turned toward me. In her hand was what was left of my wife’s new lipstick. And every square inch of her face was ______ with bright red! As she looked up at me with fearful eyes, I heard ______ voice that had been shouted to me as a child. “How could you…You should know…How many times have you been _____ … What a bad thing to do…” It was just a matter of my picking out which old _____ I was going to use on her so that she would know what a bad girl she had been. But ______ I could let loose, I looked ______ at the sweater on her. In big ______ it said, “I’M A PERFECT LITTLE ANGEL(天使)!” I looked back up into her tearful eyes and, ______ seeing a bad girl who didn’t listen, I saw a little angel full of ______ that I had come dangerously close to ______. “Sweetheart, let’s take a picture so Mommy can see how ______ you look.” I took the picture and thanked God that I didn’t ______ the chance to prove what a perfect little angel she had given me.
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A．preventing B．getting rid of C．destroying D．doing wrong on
A．dirty B．ugly C．special D．silly
A．have B．get C．take D．miss
Burglars are probably the most unpopular visitors to your house. But how do you know if your home is an easy target for burglars(窃贼)? Around the holidays, many families don’t consider taking proper to prevent their homes from suffering holiday thefts. With just a few simple , you can better make sure of the of your home during all of the holiday celebrations. Here are a few tips for making it difficult to you are away from home.
Either have a trusted neighbor your mail and newspapers, or tell your mailman to hold your mail until you . Make sure says “Hey, we’re not home!” like when your post-box is filled with all kinds of mail and you have many different newspapers in your driveway. several different lights in your house on random timers. Do not leave your lights on all the time. , put your outside lights on timers to be on only during the . If an outdoor light on for days at a time, it means that nobody is home to turn it off.
If you have pets that you are not taking with you on vacation, them with a friend, having someone coming into your house every day to take care of them. When burglars see a neighbor or friend 35 your house every day, they will know you are not home.
Close all your when you leave town. This is effective to possible burglars, as no one can see what is in your house. If they don’t know what there is to take, then the is even greater for them to break in.
This article just has suggested a few tips to help you keep your house safe while you are on . Nothing can truly protect your home unless you have it by a professional home security system.
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A．Choose B．Give C．Set D．Make
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A．days B．weekends C．weekdays D．nights
A．repeats B．remains C．lasts D．happens
A．find B．turn C．leave D．hold
A．other than B．rather than C．or rather D．or else
A．cleaning B．protecting C．evaluating D．entering
A．windows B．doors C．curtains D．eyes
A．improve B．discourage C．inspire D．frighten
A．chance B．desire C．reward D．risk
A．holiday B．board C．duty D．trip
A．monitored B．guided C．strengthened D．collected
In Glasgow, , a young lady, like a lot of teens today, got tired of home. The daughter objected to her family’s lifestyle and said, “I don’t want your God. I am leaving !”
She left home. Before long, she was disappointed and unable to find a job, so she took to the streets to do everything she could to money. Many years passed by, her father died , her mother grew , and the daughter became more and more entrenched (固执) in her way of life.
No contact was made between mother and daughter during these years. The mother, having her daughter’s whereabouts, went to the poor part of the city in of her daughter . She stopped at each of the rescue missions with a simple . “Would you allow me to this picture?” It was a picture of the smiling, gray-haired mother with a handwritten at the bottom : “I love you still…come home!”
One day the daughter wandered into a rescue mission for a hot meal. She sat listening to the service, all the while letting her wander over to the bulletin board. There she saw the picture and thought, could that be my mother?
She couldn’t until the service was over. She stood and went to look .It was her mother , and there were those words, “I love you still…come home !” she stood in front of the picture, she wept. It was too to be true.
It was night, but she was so by the message that she started walking home. the time she arrived it was early in the morning. She was afraid and her way timidly. As she knocked, the door open on its own. She thought someone must have broken into the house. Concerned for her mother’s , the young woman ran to the bedroom and shook her mother awake and said, “It’s me ! It’s me ! I’m home!”
The mother couldn’t believe her eyes. They fell into each other’s arms. The daughter said , “I was so worried and someone had broken in.” The mother replied gently, “No, dear . From the day you left, that door has never been .”
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A．earn B．win C．offer D．approach
A．lonelier B．slower C．elder D．older
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A．request B．remark C．question D．speech
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A．record B． C．message D．notice
A．constantly B．absent-mindedly C．frequently D．carefully
A．eyes B．hands C．thoughts D．imaginations
A．help B．evaluate C．wait D．consult
A．After B．Since C．Until D．As
A．lucky B．good C．skeptical D．coincidence
A．astonished B．touched C．blamed D．ashamed
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A． B．anxiety C．danger D．relief
A．observed B．realized C．found D．thought
A．adopted B．opened C．locked D．Fixed
Good friends mean a lot in our life. I used to have some friends who I could . It was my 4th grade in the elementary school that I had my two friends Nina and Nancy. I had known them since the first grade and we had gotten along quite well. Now the memory of their appearance is still in my mind.
The following year I went to a new school. I was shy and didn’t much. The first day I made no new friend and I felt . The next day right after school as we were waiting for our school , I felt someone on my hair, I quickly turned “Why did you do that? ”
“I’m sorry I was stretching. ”Giving her a look, I turned around without saying anything. I had seen my teacher’s eyes as I didn’t want to get into . Then I felt a on my shoulder and turned around again. “What is it? ”“Well umm . . . I have seen you for the first time. For the reason that I was yesterday I was wondering if you’re a new student. ”I nodded and she smiled “Welcome to De Zavala Primary School! I’m Alondra, nice to meet you! ”Then the school bus came and we got on.
And that’s how it all . She was a warm-hearted girl she introduced me to new people and I made a lot of new friends! And I swore I would them because they saved me from the and they didn’t even know. One day, when we were in the 8th grade, Alondra told me she had always wanted a best friend and then I along. I felt so to hear about it. Now I’m in the college and I have many friends: Logan, Mari, Amold, Maggie, and those whose you don’t know.
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A．eat B．talk C．know D．gain
A．good B．angry C．bored D．lonely
A．doctor B．dinner C．teacher D．bus
A．pull B．push C．catch D．put
A．angry B．cold C．friendly D．excited
A．close B．widen C．narrow D．brighten
A．agreement B．danger C．trouble D．touch
A．knock B．tap C．strike D．beat
A．absent B．lazy C．busy D．strange
A．anxiously B．attentively C．nervously D．sincerely
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A．when B．why C．as D．how
A．care for B．thank for C．send for D．seek for
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A．came B．marched C．hurried D．got
A．honored B．stable C．uneasy D．sad
A．even B．just C．only D．still
A．characters B．names C．friends D．grades
Angelina Jolie says she has a really wonderful time with her partner Brad Pitt, who is an American actor and film producer—and that’s why they’re still together!
Jolie six children with the actor. She was by America’s Parade magazine if their children are the she and Brad stay together.
“The children certainly tie us together, but a relationship won’t if it’s only about the kids, ” Jolie replied. “You also must be really interested in each other and have a really, really wonderful, time together. We do. Brad and I being together. We enjoy it. We need it, and we find that special time. We keep connected. We talk about it. It’s very to our family. If Brad and I are strong and happy, then our kids have happy and that’s the best thing we can give them. Brad knows completely, as I am, every part of me. He loves me. The kids love me. Hopefully I’m giving my children the that they are deeply loved and deeply safe. At the same time we are hopefully their individuality(个性)as they get to know who they are, and not getting in the way of that. That’s why they are six very strong individuals. ”
The Oscar-winning star showed of helping her children develop their individuality is them to develop their own identities(自我认同感), she admitted that she can’t the recent controversy(争论)with Brad when she agreed that her daughter Shiloh could cut her hair short and like a boy. For example, she usually wears a jacket instead of a skirt.
Angelina added to , “She wants her hair cut like a boy and she wants to be John for a while. Some kids wear caps and want to be a Superman and she wants to be like her . ”
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A．reason B．intention C．purpose D．result
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A．love B．avoid C．hate D．consider
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A．easy B．different C．far D．important
A．parents B．classmates C．relatives D．neighbors
A．mostly B．only C．exactly D．simply
A．knowledge B．sense C．sight D．view
A．changing B．forming C．encouraging D．destroying
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A．and B．though C．because D．but
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A．doctors B．players C．readers D．reporters
A．mistaken B．called C．recognized D．made
A．brothers B．sisters C．uncles D．aunts