Studies have shown it takes a physician about 18 seconds to interrupt a patient after they begin talking.
It was Sunday. I had one last patient to see. I her room in a hurry and stood at the doorway. She was an older woman, sitting at the edge of the bed, to put socks on her swollen feet. I crossed the threshold(门槛), spoke to the nurse, and scanned her chart noting she was in stable condition. I was almost in the clear.
I leaned on the bedrail looking at her. She asked if I could help put on her socks.
, I began a monologue that went something like this: “How are you feeling? Your sugars and blood pressure were high but they’re today. The nurse mentioned you’re anxious to see your who’s visiting you today. It’s nice to have a family visit from far away. I bet you really look forward to seeing him.”
Each story is . Some are detailed; others are vague. Some have a beginning, middle and end. Others wander without a clear . Some are true; others not. Yet all those things do not really . What matters to the storyteller is that the story is —without interruption, assumption or judgment.
Listening to someone’s story costs than expensive diagnostic testing but is key to healing and diagnosis.
I often thought of the woman taught me, and I reminded myself of the of stopping, sitting down and truly listening. And, not long after, in an unexpected , I became the patient, with a diagnosis of multiple sclerosis(诊断为多发性硬化症)at age 31. Now, 20 years later, I sit all the time —in a wheelchair.
For I could, I continued to see patients from my chair, but I had to resign when my hands were . I still teach medical students and other health care professionals, but now from the perspective of and patient.
I tell them I believe in the power of . I tell them I know firsthand that immeasurable healing takes place within me someone stops, sits down and listens to my story.
A．entered B．stepped C．passed D．approached
A．hoping B．wishing C．struggling D．pulling
A．quickly B．slowly C．carefully D．carelessly
A．away B．up C．around D．down
A．However B．Instead C．Therefore D．Moreover
A．good B．better C．more D．well
A．son B．daughter C．friend D．sister
A．unique B．similar C．different D．wonderful
A．way B．direction C．conclusion D．instruction
A．attract B．exist C．appeal D．matter
A．appreciated B．told C．enjoyed D．heard
A．less B．more C．higher D．cheaper
A．which B．how C．what D．that
A．pleasure B．difference C．behavior D．importance
A．twist B．accident C．occasion D．thing
A．as good as B．as long as C．as soon as D．as well as
A．wounded B．affected C．injected D．hurt
A．physician B．hospital C．teacher D．school
A．stopping B．talking C．listening D．sitting
A．before B．when C．until D．unless
Dine with General St. Amour
General St. Amour was famous for his bravery, but he was born into the family of a poor peasant. Even when he became a general, he never his humble origin（卑微的出身）.
While his was stationed in his hometown, he invited some of his principal officers to a dinner party at a . They had just sat down at the table when his father to drop in on him. When the guard it to the general, he rose and told his guests that his father had .
He said that he knew the he owed to them, but at the same time he hoped they would excuse him he withdrew (退出) because he would like to with his father in another room.
Hearing what he said, all the guests present that the father should be introduced to them, that they would be very pleased to see one who was so closely to him. But to their , General St. Amour replied, “Ah, no, gentleman. You are wrong. I mean my father would find himself so in company with so many people who are unsuited to his rank. , it would deprive(剥夺) us both of the only pleasure of the ——the natural intercourse(交流) of a parent and his son.”
He then himself from the table and spent the evening dining with his father.
The moral of the story is: you can’t give people , but you can provide the kind of understanding that makes people keep their pride.
A．forgot B．knew C．minded D．cared
A．family B．army C．company D．organization
A．park B．school C．restaurant D．cinema
A．agreed B．promised C．decided D．happened
A．explained B．whispered C．reported D．shouted
A．strongly B．immediately C．simply D．suddenly
A．resigned B．started C．left D．arrived
A．respect B．understanding C．support D．love
A．before B．until C．if D．unless
A．chat B．dine C．walk D．dance
A．demanded B．commanded C．stressed D．requested
A．saying B．complaining C．admitting D．reminding
A．used B．opposed C．related D．devoted
A．joy B．disappointment C．excitement D．surprise
A．terribly B．completely C．slightly D．partly
A．embarrassed B．frightened C．disturbed D．disappointed
A．Above all B．After all C．In addition D．In time
A．party B．interview C．appointment D．discussion
A．defended B．allowed C．introduced D．excused
A．time B．money C．pride D．confidence
When I was a college student, I did a lot of traveling abroad. That was because a professor me to do so. She said, “Now it is the time for you to travel around the world, your knowledge through actual experiences and have fun?” I her.
Since I started to work for a company, however, I have done most of my traveling through the Internet. By using the Internet, I have seen the of many cities on my computer screen. And I have really made business , too. With the help of the Internet, I have also got about food in different countries.
Therefore, I was beginning to feel that actual trips were necessary when I happened to read a famous chef's (厨师) comment on the Internet. He said, “It is very difficult to have real Italian food in a foreign country, because we enjoy food and the
around us at the same time. So why don't you fly over to Italy and enjoy real Italian ? “Those words reminded me of my advice. As information technology , you might be able to do without making some real trips. But this also means that you will miss the various you can get from traveling.
Today there are people who direct communication with others and spend much of their time on the Internet. It is not surprising to see a group of peoplenot with each other but into their micro phones. It seems as if such people are by an invisible wall. They seem to be losing out on a good chance to and talk with other people. I do not think that they are taking good advantage of information technology. We should use information technology as a tool to make our daily more fruitful. However, we should never let it our time for face to -face communication. Let's make use of information technology more , and have great fun in experiencing the actual world.
A．promised B．allowed C．hurried D．encouraged
A．build up B．use C．practise D．exchange
A．agreed with B．learned from C．followed D．obeyed
A．car B．food C．clothing D．machine
A．life B．rivers C．sights D．houses
A．plans B．bargain C．progress D．trips
A．information B．taste C．cooks D．feelings
A．even more B．no longer C．much D．actually
A．people B．drink C．atmosphere D．environment
A．shoes B．dishes C．customers D．situations
A．friend's B．parents' C．professor's D．boss's
A．produces B．advertises C．forms D．advances
A．news B．pleasures C．troubles D．places
A．avoid B．keep C．lose D．enjoy
A．meeting B．talking C．communicating D．traveling
A．stopped B．met C．surrounded D．hurt
A．look at B．employ C．travel D．meet
A．communication B．study C．work D．action
A．spare B．increase C．reduce D．make use of
A．wisely B．correctly C．or less D．slowly
How can you make a million dollars in one month? I’m sure I am going to get the of many readers with this question. The news is that you are not going to make a million dollars in one month you win the lottery (彩票) or some prize.
We all want to be millionaires. However, if you try to find out how they become rich, you will learn that they worked very for the money. That is what most have had to do, including Bill Gates and Andrew Carnegie, and they often went hardships before they succeeded .
There are many reasons why the millionaires have made it for themselves. In this article, I am going to passion (热情) which I think is the most quality to have in order to succeed. I am sure that if one was to the people who made millions in their lifetime, this would be found in all of them.
Take J.K Rowling for . Her first Harry Potter was sent to twelve publishing houses, all of which to publish it. A year later, she was finally given the chance by a small , which paid 15.000. and the from that company was that she should get herself a job since she had little of making a living by writing children’s books. If you want to make a million dollars, find something that you really passionate (热情的) and work hard at it. It doesn’t what it is. Let me know how you !
A．consideration B．attention C．surprise D．happiness
A．disappointing B．surprising C．good D．funny
A．if B．although C．unless D．when
A．such B．too C．this D．that
A．happily B．hard C．long D．less
A．teachers B．rich C．millionaires D．poor
A．through B．back C．on D．under
A．at first B．at last C．by chance D．on end
A．happen B．cause C．change D．rise
A．refer to B．object to C．talk about D．agree with
A．good B．interesting C．exciting D．important
A．discuss B．like C．study D．visit
A．granted B．experiment C．example D．experience
A．refused B．agreed C．promised D．loved
A．school B．factory C．bank D．publisher
A．praise B．word C．comment D．advice
A．chance B．time C．dollar D．energy
A．makes B．matter C．drives D．forces
A．care B．matter C．work D．tell
A．begin B．finish C．go D．understand
Joe wanted a bike. He asked his parents for the money and they had said he must 1 it.
But how? He thought about this 2 he walked home. Not many people wanted to ask kids to work for
3 . Maybe he could clear away snow for the neighbors. 4 this was summer. He’d have to
5a long time for that. He couldn’t cut grass for their gardens 6he had no tools to do the work with.
Then Joe saw one of his 7 , Dick, delivering 8 . I could do
that, he 9 . Maybe I could get the bike right 10 . I could pay
for it
11each week. He ran to catch up
12 Dick．Joe asked 13 questions about having a paper route. He learned that 14 was possible to earn twenty-five dollars each week. He learned
15 the job took about three 16 each night. Dick gave him the
17 of the newspaper manager.
Joe almost flew home. After he had 18 his plan, his mother smiled. “I think it’s a great idea.” she said. “I’ll call the newspaper.”
“Wait Mom,” Joe said. “I’ll19 . After all, I’m going to be a businessman now.”
Joe’s mother smiled 20.
A．buy B．earn C．take D．do
A．if B．whether C．since D．as
A．them B．you C．him D．us
A．But B．And C．So D．Or
A．walk B．wait C．sit D．stand
A．because B．so C．although D．but
A．classmate B．classmates C．parents D．parent
A．newspapers B．news C．cards D．message
A．talked B．agreed C．thought D．told
A．along B．away C．on D．out
A．little B．few C．a little D．a few
A．with B．on C．along D．to
A．many a B．much C．plenty D．a great many
A．this B．it C．that D．which
A．that B．what C．why D．when
A．days B．minutes C．hours D．hour
A．address B．telephone C．phone number D．manager
A．explained B．talked C．thought D．changed
A．call B．tell C．say D．be
A．sadly B．angry C．proud D．proudly
He went to America to improve his English _________ to make money, according to his parents.
A．other than B．more than C．rather than D．better than