Have you ever been in a conflict(冲突)?Do you know how to solve it?Conflict resolution is a peaceful way of trying to solve a conflict.Both sides in the conflict explain what they think happened to cause it.The person who listens to both sides is called the mediator(调解人).
After both sides tell what they think happened to cause the conflict,they discuss ways to solve it.They try to come up with a"resolution"that both sides agree to.They cannot be angry during the communication.Everyone should use good listening and attending skills while talking.If voices get too loud or it appears that someone is angry,the mediator will speak up and have them treat each other with respect.After different suggestions are shared in how to mediate the conflict,it is time for
discussing the best solution(解决办法).
Here is an example of how conflict resolution works step by step in a school playground setting:
●Someone says a student pushed him on the football field.
●The person who was accused as the"pusher"says it was actually an accident.
●The person who was pushed gets the mediator.
●The mediator takes the two persons to a quieter place,away from others to talk.
●The mediator calms them down and lets them know he understands their feelings.
●Each person describes what happened
●The mediator repeats what he heard,so it is clear to everyone.
●The mediator asks for ideas to solve the problem.
●The two persons offer their own solutions.
●The two persons have a discussion and come to an agreement.
●The mediator makes sure the persons follow the solution.
●The mediator offers praise for solving the problem.
Conflict resolution can be used in many environments.It encourages people to tell what really happened,to share their feelings,and to work together peacefully to solve the problem.It offers people workable steps to reach an agreement with the help of a mediator.
38.According to the passage,if two students have had a fight,they had better .
A.call the police
B.get a mediator
C.ask parents for ideas
D.describe the fight to teachers
39.In conflict resolution,the mediator's job is to .
A.describe what really happened to both sides
B.help both sides reach an agreement in a proper way
C.listen to both sides and then punish the trouble maker
D.write down what both sides have explained in the communication
40.The underlined words"was accused"in this passage might mean" "in Chinese.
A.被惩罚
B.被轻视
C.被指责
D.被否定
41.The writer gives the example in the passage in order to .
A.show how a mediator works in a football match
B.help us know the importance of a mediator in daily life
C.show how conflict resolution is used in different environments
D.help us clearly understand the workable steps in conflict resolution.
Do teenagers in small villages do chores at home? How about the teenagers in big cities? Here is a survey. We asked 4,000 teenagers in China several questions. Half of them come from big cities like Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou.The others are from small villages. We made a diagram of the result of our survey. Let’s have a look at it.We found out that teenagers from small villages do more chores than those from big cities. Maybe it is because they live a harder life. Our advice to parents in big cities is that parents should give their children some chores to do. Doing chores teaches teenagers to take care of themselves.
Chores |
2000 teenagers in small villages |
2000 teenagers in big cities |
Take out the trash |
1600 |
1000 |
Sweep the floor |
1200 |
850 |
Make the bed |
1400 |
750 |
Do the dishes |
1100 |
600 |
Fold the clothes |
900 |
1500 |
They surveyed ______ teenagers from small villages.
A.1,000 | B.2,000 | C.3,000 | D.4,000 |
There are 1,000 teenagers from the cities who ______.
A.take out the trash | B.do the dishes | C.make the bed | D.fold the clothes |
Fewer than ______ teenagers in big cities sweep the floor and make the bed.
A.500 | B.1,000 | C.1,500 | D.2,000 |
The number of teenagers ______ in big cities is bigger than that in small villages.
A.making the bed | B.taking out the trash |
C.folding the clothes | D.doing the dishes |
Why did they make the survey?
A.Because they don’t want teenagers in China to do chores at home. |
B.Because they thought it’ll help teenagers to take good care of themselves to do chores at home. |
C.Because they wanted to know if teenagers in China do chores at home. |
D.Because they thought it’s not necessary for teenagers to look after themselves. |
If you do not use your arms or your legs for some time, they become weak; when you start using them again, they slowly become strong again. Everybody knows that. Yet many people do not seem to know that memory(记忆力) works in the same way.
When someone says that he has a good memory, he really means that he keeps his memory in practice by using it. When someone else says that his memory is poor, he really means that he does not give it enough chance to become strong.
If a friend says that his arms and legs are weak, we know that it is his own fault, But if he tells us that he has a poor memory, many of us think that his parents are to blame, and few of us know that it is just his own fault.
Have you ever found that some people can’t hear or write but usually they have better memories? This is because they cannot read or write and they have to remember things; they can not write them down in a little book. They have to remember days, names ,songs and stories. So their memory is the whole time being exercised.The main reason for one's poor memory is that his parents have poor memories.
A. right B. wrongIf you don't use your arms or legs for some time, they will become strong.
A. right B. wrongA good memory comes from more practice.
A. right B. wrongSome people can't read or write, but they have better memories, because they have saved trouble.
A. right B. wrongThe best title of this passage is “How to Have a Good Memory”.
A. right B. wrong
Tom lived by himself a long way from town. He hardly went to town, but one day he went into town to buy a few things. After he bought them, he went into a restaurant and sat down at a table. When he looked around, he saw some old people put glasses on before reading their newspapers. So after lunch he decided to go to a shop to buy himself one pair, too. He walked along the road, and soon found a shop.
The man in the shop let him try on a lot of glasses, but Tom always said, "No, I can't read with these."
The man became puzzled (迷惑的) , and he said, "Excuse me, but can you read?"
"No, of course I can't!" Tom said angrily. "If I could read before, do you think I would come here to buy your glasses?" Tom lived ______.
A.with his family | B.near town | C.in the country | D.in town |
Tom didn't go to town______.
A.never | B.often | C.sometimes | D.sometime |
Why did Tom decide to buy a pair of glasses?
A.Because he thought if he bought them, he could read. |
B.Because they were very bright. |
C.Because they were cheap. |
D.Because he could read newspaper. |
Tom went to the shop to ______.
A.have a rest | B.have dinner | C.wear glasses | D.buy a pair of glasses |
What do you think of Tom?
A.He is foolish. | B.He is clever. | C.He is tall. | D.He is beautiful. |
Mr. and Mrs. Turner live outside a small town. They have a big farm and they are always busy working on it. Their son, Peter, studied at a middle school. The young man studied hard and did well in his lessons. It made them happy.
Last month Peter finished middle school and passed the entrance examination (升学考试). Mrs. Turner was very happy and told the farmers about it.
Yesterday morning the women went to the town to buy something for her son . on the bus she told one of her friends how clever and able her son was. She spoke very loudly. All the people in the bus began to listen to her.
“Which university will your son study in?” a woman next to her asked.
“In the most famous university in our country!” Mrs. Turner said happily.
“The most famous university?”
“Oxford University(牛津大学).”
Most of the passenger looked at her carefully. Some of them said to her, “Congratulations!(祝贺)”
A woman said , “I’m sure he will know Fred Smith.”
“Who is Fred Smith?”
“He is my son.”
“Does he study in the university, too?”
“No.” said the woman. “He is one of the professors(教授)”The story happened in ________.
A.America | B.France | C.Germany | D.England |
Mr. and Mrs. Turner were happy because ________.
A.their son did well in his lessons |
B.they have a big farm |
C.they have a good harvest |
D.their son studied at a middle school |
Mrs. Turner wanted everyone to know
A.her son finished middle school |
B.her son was handsome |
C.her son was going to study in a university |
D.her son was very friendly to others. |
Mrs. Turner spoke so loudly in the bus that .
A.her friend could hear her |
B.all the people could hear her |
C.she hoped to make all the people happy |
D.she hoped they would say congratulations to her |
Which of the following is true? __________.
A.The woman wasn't interested in Mrs. Turner's words |
B.Mrs. Turner knew nothing about the famous university |
C.The woman wanted to stop Mrs. Turner from showing off |
D.The woman next to Mrs. Turner wanted to show off her son, too |
The Simpsons is a famous cartoon (卡通片). It tells about the happy life of an American family. What chores does each of them like and dislike?
Tom is the father of the family. He likes sweeping the floor. He often weeds (除杂草) in the garden and washes the car. He never feeds their dog or cooks the meals for his family. |
Mary is the mother of the family and she is very busy. She always cooks the meals, does the laundry and cleans the house. She never washes the car and changes light bulbs (灯泡). |
Lisa is the daughter of the family. She likes making her bed. She cleans the table and does the dishes every day. She can’t cook the meals but she is a good helper for her mother. |
Bill is the son of the family. He only likes feeding the dog and walking it outside. He never cleans his bedroom. |
判断下列句子的正(T)误(F)Simpsons come from Canada.
Tom never feeds the dog or cooks the meals.
Mary cooks the meals in the kitchen.
Lisa doesn’t like making her bed doing.
Bill likes cleaning his bedroom.