Humor
If you see humor as an optional form of entertainment,you're missing some of its biggest benefits:Humor makes average﹣looking people look cute and uninteresting people seem entertaining.Studies show that a good sense of humor even makes you seem smarter.
Best of all,humor raises your energy,and that can have an effect on everything you do at school,at work,or in your personal life.The increase of energy will even make you more willing to exercise,and that will raise your overall energy even more.
Humor also transports your mind away from your daily troubles.Humor lets you better understand life and sometimes helps you laugh at even the worst of your problems.
In my experience,most people think they have a sense of humor,and to some degree that's true.But not all senses of humor are created equal.So I thought it would be useful to include some humor tips for everyday life.
You don't have to be the joke teller in the group in order to show your sense of humor.You can be the one who directs the conversation to fun topics that are ripe for others to add humor.Every party needs a straight person.You'll appear fun and funny by association.
When it comes to in﹣person humor,effort counts a lot.When people see you trying to be funny,it frees them to try it themselves.So even if your own efforts at humor fall short,you might be freeing the long kept humor in others.People need permission to be funny in social settings because there's always a risk that comes with humor.For in﹣person humor,quality isn't as important as you might think.Your attitude and effort count a lot.
Some people﹣and I was one of them﹣believe that humorous complaints about the little problems of life make humor,and sometimes that is the case.The problem comes when you start doing too much complaint﹣based humor.One funny observation about problem in your life can be funny,but five is just complaining,no matter how smart you think you are.Funny complaints can wear people out.
Self﹣deprecating(自嘲式) humor is usually the safest type,but here again you don't want to overshoot the target.One self﹣deprecating comment is a generous and even confident form of humor.You have to be at least a bit self﹣assured to laugh at yourself in front of others.But if you do it too often,you can transform in the eyes of others from a confident joker to a Chihuahua dog.
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Benefits of humor |
●Humor is form of (1) .Humor can improve one's (2) and personality. ●Humor can make one (3) in his work,study,and life. ●Humor has a positive(4) effect when we are in difficulties. |
(5) to follow |
●(6) others for a conversation of fun is as good as telling a joke yourself when showing your sense of humor. ●Quality counts (7) than attitude and effort﹣even a stupid joke can (8) others of risk and embarrassment. |
Traps to (9) |
●One humorous complaint makes funny person.But too many complaints will (10) your audience. ●Self﹣deprecating comments show one's assurance.But too much deprecation will make a Chihuahua dog. |
Last week my niece stayed with us ____ her brother was going to have a surgery and her parents needed to concentrate on looking after him.
My daughter, my niece, and I went out for some shopping and while I was in line _____ (wait) to pay, the girls asked if they could wait ___
__ me at the supermarket door.
Some minutes later they returned to ask if they could give the sweets they______ (buy) to a man in the street, so their sweets were given away. ____
____ two minutes they returned to ask me if there was anything else they could give to the man. They took some biscuits away and came back with a huge smile on their faces. ___
____ we got out of the shop I saw the man. He said “Thank you” to me and the girls.
On the way to the car my daughter wanted to buy a drink for the man, _____ I had no change, so I went to the cash machine, took some cash and gave ___
____ to the girls to give the man, so that he could buy a sandwich and a drink if he needed. The girls were very ___
___ (excite).
To me the bonus was _____ (probable) my niece’s first random act of kindness, and that was awesome.
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Tom: Sandy. It seems that only half of the students passed the final exam.
Sandy: Really? The examhave been very difficult this time.
Tom: Well, I’m really(surprise) too. There are many students who definitely didn’t fail. According to Jack, there are eight boys in his class who failed,
(include) himself and Scott.
Sandy: Oh! Scott is of the top students in the college. What about his sister, Kate? Did she pass?
Tom: Oh, yes. It seems she (get) good marks.
Sandy: That’s (absolute) unbelievable! Scott was
much better student than his sister, and has been working so hard for the last few months.
Tom: It seems (fair), doesn’t it? But, from
I’ve heard, perhaps he worked too hard. He was ill during the week of the exam.
Sandy: Oh, I see. These things happen, sometimes. I suppose the teacher will take his illness into account and give him a pass.
Tom: Well, there is a rumor going around the head of the Department is leaving.
Sandy: Because of the bad result, you mean?
Tom: Well, I suppose so. I’m not sure. Maybe Mr. Smith is going to be the new Department Head.
M: Michelle D: Drake
D: Michelle, why are you dancing? I thought we had to study for our math test!
M: Oh, hi, Drake! I was doing some exercise just now. I thought you must have been(stick) in the heavy traffic for it was the rush hour. Let me turn the music
.
D: You exercise by (dance)? I thought things like running and bicycling
(consider) exercise.
M: Well, those are other good ways to work out, but I like to dance. It is fun to move around to music, and you can (sure) work up a sweat. Do you like to dance?
D: Yes, I do, I am not a very good dancer. For exercise, I prefer playing soccer. Guess what? I
(play) in a match this time next Saturday.
M: Cool! I know you like to go to the park on the weekend and play soccer. Maybe you should try dancing, and I will try playing soccer.
D: Do you know how to play soccer? is really very easy to learn once you try.
M: I cant play soccer very well, even though I used to play a lot when I was a kid. you teach me some of your soccer moves, I’ll teach you some dance moves! How does that sound?
D: It’s deal. If it weren’t for the math test tomorrow, we could go to the gym right now.
M: Right. No more fun and games. Let me get my notebook.
Fast food is becoming more and _____ popular in China, especially among children and teenagers. There are several explanations for its popularity. First, it is very convenient and
a lot of time. You just go into a fast food restaurant to order your food, and your food is ready immediately.
, you can either eat it there or
it away. Third, the environment of fast food restaurants is both clean and
(comfort). Fourth, excellent service
(provide) and the quality of food is high.
, fast food isn’t healthy enough. It is usually not a balanced diet and low in nutritional value. Fast food is only a good choice when you are in a(n)
and have it once in a
. So I would say that It’s good for people, especially children, to eat fast food as
as possible.
I decided a few months ago I was going to treat myself to a 4-day getaway from Los Angeles and visit Chicago. I booked an airplane ticket on a website. I also found a travel website _____________ a discounted 3-night stay was purchased from a recently opened hotel.
About three weeks before the trip, I had other _____________ (plan) and had to cancel the trip. Only then did I
_____________ (realize) the room, while transferable to another person, couldnt
___________ (change) to a later date and wasnt refundable. I tried selling it but with no success. Five days before the “big weekend” I gave up
____________ (try) and decided I would contact some friends who lived in Chicago and would offer someone a free family vacation. After
_____________ (contact) a handful of people, all of
____________ already had their own plans, I was
_____________ (determine) not to waste the room.
It ____________ (sudden) occurred to me that I was looking at the room in the wrong way. Instead of viewing them for vacation purposes, I eventually found a shelter whose focus was aiding victims of domestic violence(家庭暴力). The shelter was working with a desperate woman and her young daughter, who were fortunately able to make use
____________the room. I was later told by the shelter,” They had a blast.”