Popularization has in some cases changed the original meaning of emotional (情感的) intelligence. Many people now misunderstand emotional intelligence as almost everything desirable in a person's makeup that cannot be measured by an IQ test, such as character, motivation, confidence, mental stability, optimism and "people skills." Research has shown that emotional skills may contribute to some of these qualities, but most of them move far beyond skill-based emotional intelligence.
We prefer to describe emotional intelligence as a specific set of skills that can be used for either good or bad purposes. The ability to accurately understand how others are feeling may be used by a doctor to find how best to help her patients, while a cheater might use it to control potential victims. Being emotionally intelligent does not necessarily make one a moral person.
Although popular beliefs regarding emotional intelligence run far ahead of what research can reasonably support, the overall effects of the publicity have been more beneficial than harmful. The most positive aspect of this popularization is a new and much needed emphasis (重视) on emotion by employers, educators and others interested in promoting social well-being. The popularization of emotional intelligence has helped both the public and researchers re-evaluate the functionality of emotions and how they serve people adaptively in everyday life.
Although the continuing popular appeal of emotional intelligence is desirable, we hope that such attention will excite a greater interest in the scientific and scholarly study of emotion. It is our hope that in coming decades, advances in science will offer new perspectives (视角) from which to study how people manage their lives. Emotional intelligence, with its focus on both head and heart, may serve to point us in the right direction.
32 What is a common misunderstanding of emotional intelligence?
A. |
It can be measured by an IQ test. |
B. |
It helps to exercise a person's mind. |
C. |
It includes a set of emotional skills. |
D. |
It refers to a person's positive qualities. |
33. Why does the author mention "doctor" and "cheater" in paragraph 2?
A. |
To explain a rule. |
B. |
To clarify a concept. |
C. |
To present a fact. |
D. |
To make a prediction. |
34. What is the author's attitude to the popularization of emotional intelligence?
A. |
Favorable. |
B. |
Intolerant. |
C. |
Doubtful. |
D. |
Unclear. |
35. What does the last paragraph mainly talk about concerning emotional intelligence?
A. |
Its appeal to the public. |
B. |
Expectations for future studies. |
C. |
Its practical application. |
D. |
Scientists with new perspectives. |
It was Mother’s Day. A man stopped his car at a flower shop to order some flowers. He wanted the shopkeeper to send the flowers to his mother, who lived two hundred miles away.
As he got out of his car, he found a young girl sitting on the road crying. He asked her what was wrong and she replied, “I want to buy a red rose for my mother, but I only have seventy-five cents. A rose costs two dollars.” The man smiled and said, “Come into the shop with me, and I will buy you a rose.”
He bought the little girl her rose and ordered his own mother’s flowers. As they were leaving, he offered to dive the girl home. She said, “Yes, please! You can take me to my mother.” She brought him to a cemetery (墓地), where she placed the rose on the grave.
The man was moved. He returned to the flower shop, picked up the flowers he had ordered, and drove two hundred miles to his mother’s house.The man went to shop to ______________ .
A.have a rest | B.help the little girl |
C.buy some food | D.order some flowers |
The man’s mother lived _______ away from him.
A.2 kilometers | B.75 miles |
C.200 miles | D.200 kilometers |
The girl was crying on the road because________________ .
A.she was hungry |
B.she got injured |
C.she couldn’t afford (买得起) a rose |
D.she couldn’t find her way home |
After the man bought the girl a rose, they went to_______ together.
A.a cemetery |
B.his shop |
C.the girl’s home |
D.his mother’s house |
We can learn from the passage that __________.
A.the girl loved flowers very much |
B.the girl loved her mother very much |
C.the shopkeeper sent the flowers to the man’s mother |
D.the man drove to his mother’s house to look after her |
Most cellphone companies design models especially for kids. But parents are usually the ones buying the phones. According to a July 2012 study, 56% of parents of children aged 8 to 12 have given their children a cellphone. The number goes up with age. The study just proves what many people already guessed: many kids, if not most, have their own cellphones.
According to a recent survey, 12 is the magic number. It is the most common age for kids to get their first cellphone. But 13% of children aged 6 to 10 already have one.
People who are for kids’ using cellphones, including many parents, notice that cellphones help kids keep in touch with their friends and families. They believe that cellphones are an important tool in a dangerous situation. Kids can reach their parents at all times. And some people say having a cellphone helps teach kids to be responsible. Some cellphones designed for kids can be set to only work when parents approve (同意). What’s the harm in that?
But other people are worried about the health and safety effects of kids’ cellphones. They believe that kids with cellphones will spend less time playing outside with friends, and that sending text messages or making phone calls while doing homework makes it difficult for kids to concentrate. They say that kids are spending too much time texting instead of talking to each other. “Our brains developed to communicate face to face,” says Gary Small, a teacher at the UCLA School of Medicine, in California. “A lot of this is lost with texting.”
Another worry is cyber bullying (网络欺凌), which is on the rise as more kids use e-mail and text messages to communicate. And some experts are worried about possible health risks. They worry that energy waves produced by cellphones could be harmful to young people. To be safe, parents should not let them talk long on the phone.By mentioning the results of a recent study, the author wants to show that _____.
A.not all cellphones meet kids’ needs |
B.not all parents buy their kids cellphones |
C.kids who are old enough should have cellphones |
D.many kids have their own cellphones |
Paragraph 3 mainly talks about _____.
A.how to make kids become responsible |
B.supporters’ opinions on kids’ using cellphones |
C.the popularity of cellphones among kids |
D.how kids can reach their friends and families |
Cellphones can be bad for kids because _____.
A.kids spend too much time playing games |
B.kids reduce personal communication |
C.kids don’t want to do their homework at home |
D.cellphones have a bad influence on kids’ brains |
What’s Gary Small’s attitude towards texting?
A. He is uncertain about it.
B. He is against it.
C He knows little about it
D. He is fond of it.We can learn from the text that _____.
A.there’re cellphones specially designed for kids on the market |
B.kids aged 6 to 10 have more cellphones than kids at other ages |
C.kids who have cellphones have fewer friends than those who don’t |
D.cellphones help kids improve their relationships with friends and families |
Your schooldays should be some of the best and happiest days of your life. How can you gain the most from them, and ensure you do not waste this wonderful opportunity to learn?
Be positive about school. Don’t say things are difficult or boring. Be interested in school-life and your school subjects. Join lots of activities. Be quick to put your hand up. Go round the school with a big smile.
Expect to work. School is not a holiday camp. If you are not working, you are not learning, and you are wasting your time at school. Teachers cannot make everything enjoyable.
Keep fit. If you do not eat a good breakfast, you will be thinking about food in class. If you go to bed late and do not have enough sleep, you will be sleepy in class. Play some sports to keep your body strong.
Do today’s work today. Do not say you will do things tomorrow. If you get behind the class, it is very difficult to get back in front. You cannot finish a race if you rest all the time.
Don’t be too disappointed if things sometimes go badly. Everyone fails some tests, loses some matches and has bad days. Friends are not always perfect, and they sometimes say and do unpleasant things. Don’t let small problems seem very big and important.
Talk about problems. Sometimes they are only the result of misunderstanding. Don’t be too embarrasssed to ask for help. You are young. No one thinks you can do everything.
Plan your time. Don’t waste life lying in bed on Saturday morning. Go and play a sport, learn the piano, work on a project, read a book, practise English, or help someone with problems. There are always a lot of things to do.
Set targets. If your last grade was a D, work for a C. try to make progress bit by bit. Think of small targets: “I will speak in class four times this week”, “I will finish my project on Wednesday” or “I will get two more marks this week”.
Follow our advice, and have a happy school-life!If Johnny wants to read comic(漫画) books, not textbooks, he needs to read ________.
A.Expect to work. |
B.Do today’s work today. |
C.Plan your time. |
D.Don’t be too disappointed if things sometimes go badly. |
According to the passage, which of the following statements is Not true?
A.If you are not interested in things at school, you are likely to feel bored. |
B.It’s not a shame to have problems and need help sometimes. |
C.You won’t make good progress unless you set big targets |
D.Having enough food and sleep will help us study better. |
Why do you think the writer thinks it is good to put up your hand in class?
A.Because you will impress your teacher most this way. |
B.Because other students will admire you. |
C.Because it means that you will enjoy school and learn more. |
D.Because your parents will feel happy if you do so. |
After a while, Tommy’s parents, who had recently separated, would arrive for a meeting on his failing schoolwork and bad behavior. Neither parent knew that I had called the other.
Tommy, an only child, had always been a happy, cooperative and top student. How could I make his father and mother believe that his recent failing grades meant a broken-hearted child’s reaction to his parents’ separation and divorce (离婚)?
Tommy’s mother entered and took one of the chairs. Soon the father arrived. Good! At least they were enough to be here in time. They ignored each other.
As I gave a detailed introduction of Tommy’s behavior and schoolwork, I waited for the right words to bring these two together to help them see what they were doing to their son. But somehow the words wouldn’t come. Perhaps if they saw one of his dirty, carelessly done papers?
I found a sheet in the back of his desk. Writing covered both sides: not the exercises, but a single sentence scribbled (胡写乱画) over and over.
Silently I gave it to Tommy’s mother. She read it and then handed it to her husband. Then his face softened.
At last he folded (折叠) the paper carefully, placed it in his pocket, and reached for his wife’s hand. She wiped the tears from her eyes and smiled up at him. He helped with her coat and they left together.
In his own way God had given me the words to reunite that family. He had guided me to the sheet of yellow copy paper covered with the pain outpouring of a small boy’s troubled heart.
The words are “Dear Mom… Dear Daddy… I love…”How did Tommy’s parents feel after seeing the words?
A.Glad. | B.Worried. |
C.Moved. | D.Happy. |
The author called Tommy’s parents in order to _______.
A.blame Tommy for his failing grades |
B.ask them the reason for their divorce |
C.help them realize their influence on Tommy |
D.solve the couple’s problem of separation |
Why did Tommy fail his recent grades?
A.Because he was greatly influenced by his parents. |
B.Because he was punished by his teacher. |
C.Because he wrote to his parents very often. |
D.Because he did one of his dirty, careless papers. |
This passage is most probably written by _______.
A.a reporter | B.a teacher |
C.a lawyer | D.a doctor |
Lily was a young French Canadian girl who grew up in the farming community. At the age of 16, her father thought that she had enough schooling and forced her to drop out of school to contribute to the family income. In 1922, with limited education and skills, the future didn't look bright for Lily. Her father demanded that Lily find a job as soon as possible, but she didn't have the confidence to ask for a job.
One day, Lily gathered her courage and knocked on her very first door. She was met by Margaret Costello, the office manager. In her broken English, Lily told her she was interested in the secretarial position. Margaret decided to give her a chance.
Margaret sat her down at a typewriter and said, “Lily, let's see how good you really are.” She directed Lily to type a single letter, and then left. Lily looked at the clock and saw that it was 11:40 a.m. Everyone would be leaving for lunch at noon. She thought she should at least attempt the letter.
On her first try, she got through one line but made four mistakes. She pulled the paper out and threw it away. The clock now read 11:45. “At noon,” she said to herself, “I'll move out with the crowd, and they will never see me again.”
On her second attempt, things didn't get any better. Again the started over and finally completed the letter, full of mistakes, though. She looked at the clock: 11:55 —five minutes to freedom.
Just then, Margaret walked in. She came directly over to Lily, and put one hand on the desk and the other on the girl's shoulder. She read the letter and paused. Then she said, “Lily, you're doing good work!”
Lily was surprised. She looked at the letter, then up at Margaret. With those simple words of encouragement, her desire to escape disappeared and her confidence began to grow. She thought, “Well, if she thinks it's good, then it must be good. I think I'll stay!”
Lily did stay at Carhartt Overall Company…for 51 years, through two world wars and 11 presidents—all because someone had the insight to give a shy and uncertain young girl the gift of self-confidence when she knocked on the door.Why did Lily leave school at an early age?
A.To learn English well. |
B.To get self-confidence. |
C.To become a typist. |
D.To earn money for her family |
When Lily applied for(申请) the job, she ________.
A.didn't know much about typing |
B.could speak good English |
C.knew Margaret very well |
D.never wrote any letter |
Who does the underlined word “someone” in the last paragraph refer to?
A.Margaret | B.Lily's father. |
C.Lily herself | D.A president. . |
What can we learn from Lily's story?
A.Honesty is the best policy. |
B.Money is not everything. |
C.Encouragement makes a difference |
D.Time waits for no man. |