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Recent research suggests that if an argument gets resolved,the emotional response tied to it is significantly reduced or almost completely erased.Thus,it may be worth bringing up issues with your friends, family members,or classmates rather than holding them back.

There is a difference between arguing and fighting.Arguing is that you and your opponent present your concerns and discuss the feelings and issues related to those concerns.You can engage in an argument respectfully without stirring up(激起) anger.Fighting,however,usually involves personal attacks,raising of voices, and storming out.Discussing your issues and resolving them instead of stuffing them down can improve your emotional health.In a study,2.000 people were asked to record their feelings and experiences for eight days in a row.When people had an argument that they considered resolved, they had half the reactivity (情绪反应) of those who avoided an argument.Reactivity is an increase in negative emotions or a decrease in positive emotions.In other words,resolving an argument cuts your negative feelings by half.One day later, people who had a resolved argument reported no increase of negative emotions compared with those who avoided an argument. This means that resolving an argument can feel like you have reached a state of resolution-and you are less likely to be annoyed.

Moreover,the older you are,the more likely you will come to a resolution after an argument.This may be because more life experience usually leads to more defined priorities.You are more likely to distinguish between what matters and what does not.

It is easier to avoid a discussion,but risking talking about it may eventually lead to a better outcome.

40. According to this passage,what is arguing?

41. Why is it that "the older you are, the more likely you will come to a resolution after an argument"?

42. Please decide which part is false in the following statement,then underline it and explain why.

Resolving arguments can improve your emotional health,because it increases your reactivity and reduces the chance of you getting angry.

43. In addition to improving emotional health,what do you think are some other benefits of resolving an argument? (In about 40 words)

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Play allows children to use their creativity while developing their imagination and physical, cognitive (认知的), and emotional strength. Play is important to healthy brain development. Play allows children to create and explore a world they can master, conquering their fears while practicing adult roles. Undirected play allows children to learn how to work in groups, to share, to negotiate, and to resolve conflicts.
Ideally, much of play involves adults, but when play is controlled by adults, children acquiesce (顺从) to adult rules and concerns and lose some of the benefits play offers them, particularly in developing creativity, leadership, and group skills. In contrast to passive entertainment, play builds active, healthy bodies. In fact, it has been suggested that encouraging unstructured play may be an exceptional way to increase physical activity levels in children, which is one important strategy in the resolution of the obesity problem.
Children’s development is critically influenced by appropriate, affective relationships with loving and consistent caregivers as they relate to children through play. When parents observe their children in play or join with them in child-driven play, they are given a unique opportunity to see the world from their children’s vantage point as the child navigates a world perfectly created just to fit his or her needs. The interactions that occur through play tell children that parents are fully paying attention to them and help to build enduring relationships. Parents who have the opportunity to look at their children’s world learn to communicate more effectively with their children and are given another setting to offer guidance. Less verbal children may be able to express their views, giving their parents an opportunity to gain a fuller understanding of their perspective. Quite simply, play offers parents a wonderful opportunity to engage fully with their children.
Play is essential to the academic environment. It ensures that the school setting attends to the social and emotional development of children as well as their cognitive development. It has been shown to help children adjust to the school setting and even to strengthen children’s learning willingness. Social-emotional learning is best integrated (融合) with academic learning; it is concerning if some of the forces that enhance children’s ability to learn are improved at the expense of others. Play and unscheduled time that allow for peer interactions are important components of social-emotional learning.
Compared with undirected play, play which is controlled by adults ________.

A.doesn’t benefit the children at all
B.doesn’t help develop leadership and group skills
C.makes children become more active
D.helps increase physical activity levels

The third paragraph mainly tells us that ________.

A.play offers parents a good chance to establish good relationships with children
B.children’s development is greatly influenced by relationships with parents
C.play helps children better express their views
D.play offers parents a unique opportunity to see the world from a different perspective

From the last paragraph, we know that ________.

A.play can’t help children become adapted to the school setting
B.play makes social-emotional learning and academic learning separated
C.play is beneficial to social-emotional learning as well as academic learning
D.it is necessary to strengthen children’s academic development at the expense of others

Which of the following statements is NOT true?

A.Undirected play can help children develop team spirit.
B.Play can improve children’s willingness to learn.
C.Play helps adults gain a better understanding of the children’s thoughts.
D.Adults shouldn’t be involved in children’s play.

High childcare costs are putting British mothers off going out to work. It really is that simple. Eurostat figures show that 66 per cent of mothers in the UK work, less than France (72 per cent), Denmark (86 per cent), the Netherlands (78 per cent) or Germany (69 per cent). This not only damages Britain’s economic prosperity—it limits women’s careers and squeezes family incomes. It would be fine if this is the choice parents want to make, but it isn’t. Half of those surveyed want to go to work and the expense of childcare is one of the key reasons they couldn’t.
Despite claims made by Labour (工党) about childcare, a forthcoming (即将到来的) report by the Institute for Public Policy Research (IPPR) confirms the true legacy of their time in government. They left behind a childcare system with high costs to parents, variable quality and patchy (不均匀的) coverage, despite soaring government spending. British parents now face the highest childcare bills in the world after Switzerland.
In the Eighties and Nineties under Mrs Thatcher and John Major, the picture was very different. Mothers in England were more likely to go out to work than their Dutch or German counterparts. But the position has reversed, despite a huge rise in public spending.
So why does the British Government spend more on childcare than France or Germany, even though the costs given to parents are sky-high? As always, under the previous government, money was frittered away (浪费) without adequate focus on improving quality. Instead of clear and transparent funding, four separate funding streams were created, skewing (偏离) the market and confusing parents and providers alike. The majority of the money was given away in cash benefits; so much of it did not get through to the front line.
The IPPR report points out that continental systems, in countries such as Germany, France, Denmark and the Netherlands, manage to deliver better value for money. What all of these systems have in common is a focus on quality, with greater flexibility and autonomy given to local providers. They also see a much higher proportion of government money getting to the front line.
Which of the following doesn’t belong to the disadvantages caused by the mothers prevented from going to work?

A.Damaging Britain’s economic development.
B.Causing damage to women’s careers.
C.Decreasing the family incomes.
D.Causing childcare costs to go up.

According to the second paragraph, we can infer that the former government of the Labour Party _______.

A.was highly praised by British people
B.made British people face the highest childcare bills
C.left behind a childcare system full of problems
D.managed to decrease the government spending

We can learn from the passage that _______.

A.in the Eighties and Nineties, mothers in the UK were likely to work
B.there is a prejudice against mothers in the UK employment market
C.most of the mothers surveyed in the UK don’t want to work
D.the percentage of mothers who work in the UK is the lowest in the world

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If you want to get a job as a math teacher, send your resume to ________.

A.237 Rockledge St. Syracuse, NY. 13224 B.404 Snow Road, Syracuse, NY. 13224
C.500 Park Drive, DeWitt, NY. 13214 D.19 South 8th St. NY. 13214

If you dislike working on Sundays, being a ______ should be your best choice.

A.cook B.secretary C.salesperson D.veterinarian assistant

If you want to get a job at ________ you must have office skills.

A.Martin’s Apparel B.East Side Management
C.Wales Charter School D.Johnson Marks Animal Hospital

Which job do you think suitable for a beautiful lady, who just graduated from a university and without any work experience?

A.FRONT DESK CLERK B.TEACHER C.SECRETARY D.PAINTER

For their nick-of-time acts, Toby, a 2-year-old dog, and Winnie, a cute cat, were named Dog and Cat of the Year by the American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals.
As Amy Paul choked(哽住) on a piece of apple at her home, her dog jumped up, landing hard on her chest and forcing the piece in her throat out. When the Keesling family of Indiana was about to be killed by carbon monoxide, their cat clawed at the wife Cathy’s hair until she woke up and called for help.
No one could explain their timely heroics.
Both pets were rescued by their owners in infancy—Toby as a 4-week-old thrown into a garbage bin to die, and Winnie as a week-old orphan hiding under a barn, so helpless that Cathy’s husband, Eric, had to feed her milk with an eyedropper.
As the Keeslings recalled it, a gas-driven pump being used broke down, spreading carbon monoxide through the house. By the time Winnie went to rescue, the couple’s 14-year-old son was already unconscious. “Winnie jumped on the bed and was clawing at me, with a kind of angry sound,” Cathy Keesling said. The state police responding to her 911 call said the family was only minutes from death, judging by the amount of poisonous gas in the house.
Amy Paul’s husband was at his job when she took a midday break from making jewelry and bit into an apple. “Normally I peel them, but I read in Good Housekeeping Magazine that the skin has all the nutrients, so I ate the skin, and that’s what caused me to choke,” she recalled. “I couldn’t breathe and I was in panic when Toby jumped on me. He never does that, but he did, and saved my life.”
Both Toby and Winnie accompanied their owners to the awards luncheon.
Why did Amy Paul choke on a piece of apple?

A.She was too young to care for herself.
B.She had a big bite.
C.The apple was too hard.
D.She didn’t peel the skin as usual.

Winnie saved the lives of its owner’s whole family in an accident by ________.

A.jumping onto its owner B.calling for help
C.clawing at Cathy’s hair D.making some strange noises

Which of the following has the similar meaning to the underlined word “infancy” in Paragraph 4?

A.middle age B.youth C.babyhood D.agedness

What would be the suitable title for the passage?

A.So Smart Animals Are
B.Dog and Cat Honored for Saving Their Masters
C.Unforgettable Experiences
D.Great Honors for Cat and Dog

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Columbus-The Headquarters!
Anyhow, your journey would start from Columbus . the capital city of the state ! So spend some quality time roaming around in this beautiful city. Nightclubs . high quality restaurants .and Rock and Roll Hall of Fame-For Music Lovers !
If you are a die-hard music lover. then certainly this place wouldn't disappoint you ! Rock and Roll Hall of Fame was opened somewhere around in 1995 .with an intention of celebrating the spirit of rock and roll music .and also studying it. Rock and Roll Hall of Fame offers exhibitions .music events . and also training programs on the subject. This is a perfect stop for every-thing on rock and roll music !
Cleveland-High Class Experience !
One of the oldest cities. Cleveland ranks among the top 20 metros of the United States .With Lake Erie serving as the most popular tourist attraction .Cleveland is also famous for land marks such as Cavaliers Gund Arena , Playhouse Square and Indians' Jacobs Field. Moreover. vibrant nightlife , clubs , restaurants ;large hotels and shopping festivals add co the touristic significance of this place.
Lake Erie-The Perfect Holiday !
With nearly 900 miles of shoreline .Lake Erie is one place you have to visit. You can enjooy numerous activities like fishing. swimming. boating . etc. It is also perfect for having a family picnic outing. One can even take a ferry to Kelleys Island where things like cycling and miniature golf can be enjoyed. Besides .it is the perfect place for those who are looking for some quiet and relaxing time.
According to the passage a basketball lover is most likely to go to _______.

A.Coney Island B.Columbus C.Cleveland D.Kelleys Island

What can we learn about Rock and Roll Hall of Fame?

A.It was open to the public in 1990. B.It is an attraction for music lovers.
C.It offers some shopping festivals. D.It provides a golf course for visitors

Which of the following is true about Jake Erie?

A.It lies in the city of Cincinnati.
B.It has over 900 miles of shoreline.
C.It is the most popular scenic spot in Cleveland.
D.Tourists can play miniature golf on its banks for free.

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