Betty and Harold have been married for years. But one thing still puzzles(困扰) old Harold.
How is it that he can leave Betty and her friend Joan sitting on the sofa, talking, go out to a ballgame, come back three and a half hours later, and they're still sitting on the sofa? Talking?
What in the world, Harold wonders, do they have to talk about?
Betty shrugs. Talk? We're friends.
Researching this matter called friendship, psychologist Lillian Rubin spent two years interviewing more than two hundred women and men. No matter what their age, their job, their sex, the results were completely clear: women have more friendships than men, and the difference in the content and the quality of those friendships is "marked and unmistakable."
More than two-thirds of the single men Rubin interviewed could not name a best friend. Those who could were likely to name a woman. Yet three-quarters of the single women had no problem naming a best friend, and almost always it was a woman. More married men than women named their wife/husband as a best friend, most trusted person, or the one they would turn to in time of emotional distress (感情危机). "Most women," says Rubin, "identified(认定) at least one, usually more, trusted friends to whom they could turn in a troubled moment, and they spoke openly about the importance of these relationships in their lives."
"In general," writes Rubin in her new book, "women's friendships with each other rest on shared emotions and support, but men's relationships are marked by shared activities." For the most part, Rubin says, interactions (交往) between men are emotionally controlled -a good fit with the social requirements of "manly behavior."
"Even when a man is said to be a best friend," Rubin writes, "the two share little about their innermost feelings. Whereas a woman's closest female friend might be the first to tell her to leave a failing marriage, it wasn't unusual to hear a man say he didn't know his friend's marriage was in serious trouble until he appeared one night asking if he could sleep on the sofa."
71. What old Harold cannot understand or explain is the fact that ______.
A. he is treated as an outsider rather than a husband B. women have so much to share
C. women show little interest in ballgames D. he finds his wife difficult to talk to
72. Rubin's study shows that for emotional support a married woman is more likely to turn to ______.
A. a male friend B. a female friend C. her parents D. her husband
73. According to the text, which type of behavior is NOT expected of a man by society?
A. Ending his marriage without good reason.
B. Spending too much time with his friends.
C. Complaining about his marriage trouble.
D. Going out to ballgames too often.
74. Which of the following statements is best supported by the last paragraph?
A. Men keep their innermost feelings to themselves.
B. Women are more serious than men about marriage.
C. Men often take sudden action to end their marriage.
D. Women depend on others in making decisions.
75. The research done by psychologist Rubin centers around _____.
A. happy and successful marriages B. friendships of men and women
C. emotional problems in marriage D. interactions between men and women
They leap from helicopters or speeding boats, bringing aid to swimmers who get into trouble off Italy’s popular beaches.
For these dog lifeguards, the doggie paddle (狗刨式游法)does just fine.
These “lifedogs” tow a buoy(救生衣) that victims can grab, or a raft they can sit on to be towed back to
shore, and unlike their human counterparts(与对方地位相当的人), they can easily jump from helicopters and speeding boats to reach swimmers in trouble.
With millions flocking(人群) to Italy’s crowded beaches each summer, the Italian Coast Guard says it rescues about 3,000 people every year — and their dog helpers are credited with saving several lives.
It takes three years for the canines to reach expert rescue status, and currently 300 dogs are fully trained for duty, said Roberto Gasbarri, who co-ordinates the Italian School of Canine Lifeguards program at a centre outside of Rome in the seaside town of Civitavecchia.
“Dogs are useful in containing the physical fatigue(疲劳) of the lifeguard, to increase the speed at which casualties(遇难者) are retrieved(找到并衔回), to increase the security of both the casualty and of the lifeguard,” Gasbarri said.
The Civitavecchia centre is one of a dozen around the country for the school founded more than 20 years ago in the northern province of Bergamo by Ferruccio Pilenga, whose first trainee was his own Newfoundland.
The school will train any breed(品种), as long as they weigh at least 30 kilograms, but Labradors, Newfoundlands and golden retrievers are most commonly used because of their natural instinct for swimming. Each dog works in tandem with(同 ……合作) a human lifeguard, who also acts as the animal’s trainer.Which of the following can act as the best title fo the passage?
| A.Dogs to the Rescue | B.Dogs Are Good at Doggie Paddle |
| C.The Wonderful Performance of Dogs | D.Dogs: Our Loyal Friends |
What advantage do these life-dogs have over human lifeguards in a rescue?
| A.Dog can swim very fast | B.Dogs can finish rescue work with ease. |
| C.Dogs can finish the great work free of charge. | D.Dogs can easily be trained |
Which of the following is TRUE about the Civitavecchia center according to the text?
| A.Any breed can be trained there. |
| B.The ones who have the gift for swimming are welcomed. |
| C.After a better training, the dogs can work alone. |
| D.It is the only place for training dog lifeguards in the school. |
What does the writer want to tell us in the 4th paragraph?
| A.Without the dog lifeguards, 3,000 people would lose their lives every year. |
| B.The buautiful beaches attract millions of people every year. |
| C.Dog lifeguards play an important part in a rescue. |
| D.Italy is a famous place of interest. |
One morning more than thirty years ago, I entered the Track Kitchen, a restaurant where everyone from the humbles(卑微的) to the most powerful came for breakfast. I noticed an empty chair next to an elderly, unshaven man, who looked somewhat disheveled. He was wearing a worn-out hat and was alone. I asked if I might join him. He agreed quietly and I sat down to have my breakfast.
We cautiously began a conversation and sopke about a wide range of things. We never introduced ourselves. I was concerned that he might have no money and not be able to afford something to eat. So as I rose to go back to the counter and buy a second cup of coffee, I asked.
“ May I get you something?”
“A coffee would be nice.” Then I bought him a cup of coffee. We talked more, and he accepted another cup of coffee. Finally, I rose to leave, wished him well, and headed for the exit, at the door I met one of my friends. He asked.
“How did you get to know Mr. Galbreath?”
“Who?”
“The man you were sitting with. He is chairman of the Board of Churchill Downs.”
I could hardly believe it. I way buying, offering a free breakfast, and feeling pity for one of the world’s richest and most powerful men!
My few minutes with Mr. Glbreath changed my life. Now I try to treat everyone with respect
, no matter who I think they are, and to meet another human being with kindness and sincerity. What does the underlined word”disheveled’ mean?
| A.Unfriendly | B.Untidy. | C.Gentle. | D.Kind. |
The author bought coffee for the old man because ______.
A. he thought the old man was poor B. he wanted to start a conversation
C. he intended to show his politeness C. he would like to thank the old man How did the authr probably feel after he talked with his friend?
A. Proud. B. Pitiful. C, Surprised. D. Regretful
.What is the message mainly expressed in the story?
| A.We should learn to be generous. |
| B.It is honorable to help those in need. |
| C.People in high positions are not like what we expect. |
| D.We should avoid judging people by their appearances. |
It is a hot summer day,and you feel thirsty.A friend gives you a glass of cold lemonade.How do you feel when you see the glass? Will you describe your feeling as happiness or as pleasure? I believe you will say it is a feeling of pleasure.There is a connection between these two kinds of feelings,and sometimes one causes the other,but they are not the same.Pleasure is a more dependent on the five senses while happiness is independent of them.
When you are happy,little unpleasant events usuallv do not disturb you.When you are unhappy,you feel as if everything is against you.Y
ou may compensate for it by eating chocolate and sweets because this gives you pleasure,yet you stay unhappy.A person may smoke cigarettes because it gives him pleasure,yet this does not make him happier,especiallv if he knows the fact that it is not good for his heahh.
The physical world is always in a changing state.At each moment a new thing is being created,changed,transformed and then destroyed.This is the n
ormal state of things and no one can change it.If we stay still in a certain state,we are sure to experience unhappiness sooner or later.0n the other hand, if
we adjust to the environment,nothing can influence our moods.Then outer events have nothing to do with our inner joy of mind.
The room of the mind is filled with worry or fear.If you are free of thinking about them,the room has been emptied,and then you will see what is happening and experience it.
When your mind stays quiet,you will see that happiness comes from the inside.What does t
he underlined phrase”compensate for“in Paragraph 2 most probably mean?
| A.to make a suitable payment for |
| B.to let out your anger for |
C.to provide with a balancing effect for![]() |
| D.to solve the problems for |
According to the passage,in which of the following situations can you feel happy?
| A.A friend gives you a glass of cold lemonade when you feel thirsty. |
| B.You eat chocolate and sweets when you feel as if everything is against you. |
| C.Smoke cigarettes even though you know the fact that it is not good for your health. |
| D.You are free from worry or fear when your mind stays quiet. |
We call learn from the passage
| A.happiness is more dependent on the five senses |
| B.pleasure sometimes arouses happiness |
| C.you feel happy when nothing around you changes in a certain state |
| D.you feel unhappy because you have to adjust to the environment |
Which can be the best title for the passage? ]
| A.Pleasure Leads to Happiness |
| B.Happiness Changes Us |
| C.Happiness Is Within Us |
| D.Stay a Quiet Mind |
Unlike Britain, the US does not have a national health care service. Most people buy medical insurance to help pay for medical care. The government only helps pay for some medical care for the old and the people who are on low incomes. The problems of those who cannot afford insurance have become an important political subject.
In Britain, when people are ill, they usually go to a family doctor first. However, people in America sometimes go straight to an expert. Children are usually taken to a doctor who is an expert in the treatment of children. In Britain, if a patient needs to see a specialist doctor, their family doctor will usually recommend a specialist, which will sa
ve more time and money both for the patients and the public fund(基金).
In Britain, doctors do not go to people’s homes when they are ill. People always make appointments to see the doctor in the doctor’s office. In a serious situation, people call for an ambulance. In America, hospitals must treat all seriously ill patients, even if they do not have medical insurance.
The gov-ernment will then help pay for some of
the cost of the medical care.The majority of Americans pay for medical care.
| A.through the national health care service | B.by buying medical insurance |
| C.with the help of the government | |
| D.by increasing their income |
The author implies in Paragraph 2 that.
| A.Americans don’t trust family doctors |
| B.family doctors are helpless to the patients |
| C.he is more in favor of the British medical care service |
| D.sick children should go to family doctors first |
In the States, seriously ill patients will.
| A.be treated if they have an insurance |
| B.go to see the doctor by making an appointment |
| C.receive treatment even without insurance |
| D.normally go to see an expert for treatment |
Which of the following would be the best title for this passage?
| A.Health Care in the United States and Britain |
| B.Types of Doctors in the United States |
| C.Treatment of Sick Children in the United States |
| D.Medical Insurance in the United States and Britain |
How to make friends with people from a different culture? T
he rules are as follows:
Appreciate the Person.
Most Americans like to be recognized as individuals as someone special with unique personalities. Therefore, never say, “You’re from America so I want to be your friend.” Also don’t imply that the reason why you approached them is that you wanted someone to practice your English with. That t
urns people off.
Instead try saying,” You seem like a real nice and interesting person and I would like to get to know you better.” This way, they are much more inclined to be friendly because you see them as a three dim
ensional person and appreciate them for who they are in the inside. And by doing so, you not only learn about Americans and practice your English, but also gain a r
eal friend in the process.
Quit Calling Us Foreigners.
Please avoid calling a foreigner a foreigner especially in his face. The word makes people feel like an outsider, and even unwelcome, suggesting separation and insurmountable differences, widening an already existing gap in the situation. When Americans travel, they rarely say, “ I’m foreign to your place.” They tend to say, “ I’m new in town. I’m new here.” The reason is because new and unfamiliar things can become old and familiar. But can foreign things become native? Aha? You catch my drift.
Just Do It.
Some students like to be told about American culture but are less interested in spending the time and the effort to actually experience it. As Americans always say, “ Get your hands dirty.” You should have first hand and hands on experience, or you’ll never really know anything.
Find that Common Language.
Now I must stress the importance of finding a common language. By that I don’t mean Engli
sh, Chinese, German, French, etc. I mean finding something you have in common with another person on a spiritual and philosophical level: likes, dislikes, worldviews, ways of thinking , and attitudes toward life. And to start, you must first enhance your knowledge of the particular culture from which your potential new friend comes form.The underlined sentence “ Get your hands dirty” means.
| A.get involved | B.start with dirty work |
| C.talk about American culture | D.don’t wash your hands too often |
Americans prefer to make friends with those who.
| A.avoid talking about their homeland |
| B.recognize their personalities |
| C.obey rules of communicating with friends |
| D.needn’t practice English while playing together |
According to the passage, which of the following is friendly?
| A.I am longing to make friends with an American. |
| B.This is my friend Tom, who is a foreigner. |
| C.There must be a gap between us in many things. |
| D.You’ve got a great personality. |
