In our culture, the sources of what we call a sense of "mastery"—feeling important and worthwhile—and the sources of what we call a sense of "pleasure"—finding life enjoyable—are not always the same.Women often are told "You can't have it all." Sometimes what the speaker really is saying is: "You choose a career, so you can't expect to have closer relationships or a happy family life." or "You have a wonderful husband and children—what's all this about wanting a career?" But women need to understand and develop both aspects of well-being, if they are to feel good about themselves.
Our study shows that, for women, well-being(康乐) has two aspects.One is mastery, which includes self-respect, a sense of control over your life, and low levels of anxiety and depression.Mastery is closely related to the "doing" side of life, to work and activity.Pleasure is the other aspect, and it is made up of happiness, satisfaction and optimism.It is tied more closely to the "feeling" side of life.The two are independent of each other.A woman could be high in mastery and low in pleasure, and vice versa (反之亦然) .For example, a woman who has a good job, but whose mother has just died, might be feeling very good about herself and in control of her work life, but the pleasure side could be damaged for a time.
The concepts of mastery and pleasure can help us identify the sources of well-being for women, and correct past mistakes.In the past, women were encouraged to look only at the feeling side of life as the source of all well-being.But we know that both mastery and pleasure are important.And mastery seems to be achieved largely through work.In our study, all the groups of employed women are valued significantly higher in mastery than women who are not employed.
A woman's well-being is developed when she takes on multiple (多项的) roles.At least ?by middle adulthood, the women who are involved in a combination of roles —marriages, motherhood, and employment —are the highest in well-being, in spite of warnings about stress and strain.It can be inferred from the first paragraph that __ __.
A.for women, a sense of "mastery" is more important than a sense of "pleasure" |
B.for women, a sense of "pleasure" is more important than a sense of "mastery" |
C.women can't have a sense of "mastery" and a sense of "pleasure" at the same time |
D.a sense of "mastery" and a sense of "pleasure" are both necessary to women |
The author's attitude towards women having a career is_ __.
A.negative | B.positive | C.neutral (中立) | D.realistic |
One can conclude from the passage that if a woman takes on several social roles, _ __.
A.her life will be richer and more meaningful |
B.she will be more successful in her career |
C.her chances of getting promoted will be greater |
D.it will be easier for her to overcome stress and strain |
The most appropriate title for the passage would be _ __.
A.The Well-Being of Career Women |
B.Sources of Mastery and Pleasure |
C.Two Aspects of Women's Well-Being |
D.Multiple Roles of Women in Society |
Most British people prefer to live in a house rather than a flat and one of the reasons is that houses usually have gardens. The garden is a place where people can be outside and yet private.
If a house has a front and back garden, the front is likely to be formal(正规的) and decorative(装饰性的), with a lawn (an area of grass) or fancy flower borders. The back garden usually also has a lawn and flower beds, and sometimes a vegetable plot(菜地) fruit trees. There’s often a bird table, on which food is put for birds, and a small simple house in which garden tools are kept.
Many British people spend quite a lot of money on their gardens and even the smallest may contain different kinds of flowers and plants. For them gardening is a hobby and they take pride in their gardens. Some towns and villages have competitions for the best-kept small garden. People with a small garden, or no garden at all, can rent a piece of land, on which most grow vegetables.
There are garden centers near most towns, selling everything a gardener might need, from flower pots to fish ponds as well as many types of plants.
The British interest in gardening affects the appearance of whole towns. Public parks and some roads often have bright displays of flowers in summer and public buildings have windows boxes(窗口花坛) and hanging baskets. Towns and villages enter for the Britain in Bloom competition every year. According to paragraph 2, a back garden _________.
A.is also formal |
B.has flower beds |
C.doesn’t have a lawn |
D.has beautiful flower borders |
What do we know about garden centers?
A.They are in the centre of the town. |
B.Each town has a garden center. |
C.Gardeners can buy tools there. |
D.They have gardens for rent. |
From the last paragraph we know that _________.
A.gardening improves the appearance of British towns |
B.British parks are full of flowers all year round |
C.the British interest in gardening is decreasing |
D.Britain in Bloom is a worldwide competition |
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Choose from 80 unique ideas to create an extraordinary living space. The projects are practical, as well as attractive, and will improve your home and yard and can be made in a weekend. These 80 well-designed projects are presented in a clear, easy-to-follow style that addresses readers in an accessible, user-friendly tone. You can most probably read the passage in a ___________.
A.news story | B.travel guide |
C.newspaper | D.telephone book |
How much money can you save if you want to buy a medical book?
A.$6.46. | B.$l0.20. | C.$l3.96. | D.$l0.04. |
Which of the following can you afford if you have only $10?
A.Off the Beaten Path |
B.Container Gardens by Number |
C.l80l Home Remedies |
D.Best Weekend Projects |
The author writes the passage in order to ___________.
A.persuade readers to buy the books |
B.encourage readers to read more about medicine |
C.introduce the books to readers |
D.develop people’s reading habit |
Some people make you feel comfortable when they are around. You spend an hour with them and feel as if you have known them half your life. These people have something in common. And once we know what it is, we can try to do it ourselves.
How is it done? Here are several skills that good talkers have. If you follow the skills, they’ll help you put people at their ease, and make friends with them quickly.
First of all, good talkers ask questions. Almost anyone, no matter how shy he is, will answer a question. One well-known businesswoman says, “At business lunches, I always ask people what they did that morning. It’s a common question, but it will get things going.” From there you can move on to other matters--sometimes to really personal questions. And how he answers will let you know how far you can go.
In addition, once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers. This point seems clear, but it isn’t. Your questions should have a point and help to tell what sort of person you are talking to. And to find out, you really have to listen carefully and attentively.
Real listening at least means some things. First it means not to change the subject of conversation. If someone sticks to one topic, you can take it as a fact that he’s really interested in it. Real listening also means not just listening to words, but to tones of voice. If the voice sounds dull, then, it’s time for you to change the subject.
Last but not least, good talkers know well how to deal with the occasion of parting. If you’re saying good-bye, you may give him a firm handshake and say, “I’ve really enjoyed meeting you.” If you want to see that person again, don’t keep it a secret. Let people know what you feel, and they may walk away feeling as if they’ve known you half their life. Which of the following is NOT the reason why good talkers ask questions?
A.To get the conversation going smoothly. |
B.To continue the conversation with other matters. |
C.To make more new friends. |
D.To know how far the conversation can go. |
How many skills does the author give us to be good talkers?
A.Three. | B.Four. | C.Five. | D.Six. |
In general, good talkers are persons who __________.
A.can keep the conversation interesting |
B.never talk too much or too little |
C.always keep the conversation a secret |
D.can change the topic of the conversation properly |
If you are willing to meet someone again, __________.
A.you’d better let him know it |
B.you’d better shake his hand firmly |
C.you’d better keep it a secret |
D.you’d better understand him further |
Two good friends, Sam and Jason, met with a car accident on their way home one night. The next morning, Sam woke up blind. His legs were broken. The doctor, Mr Lee was standing by his bed, looking at him with a thoughtful expression. When he saw Sam awake, he asked, “How are you feeling, Sam?” Sam smiled and said, “Not bad, Doctor. Thank you for doing the operation.” Mr Lee was moved by Sam. When he was leaving, Sam said, “Please don’t tell Jason about it.” “... OK.” Mr Lee replied.
Months later when Jason’s wounds (伤) healed, Sam was still very weak. Neither could he see or walk. What he could do was just stay in his wheelchair all day long. At first, Jason stayed with him for a few days. But days later, Jason felt very discouraged and embarrassed to spend time staying with a disabled man like Sam. So he went to see Sam less and less. He made new friends. From then on, he didn’t go to visit Sam any more. Sam didn’t have any family or friends other than Jason. He felt very sad.
Things went from bad to worse. Sam died a year later. When Jason came, Mr Lee gave a letter to him. It was from Sam. In the letter Sam said, “Dear Jason, I am disabled. But I want you to be a healthy man. So I gave my eyes to you so that you can enjoy life as a healthy man. Now you have new friends. I’m glad to see that you are as healthy and happy as usual. I’m glad you live a happy life. You are always my best friend ... ... Sam”. When he finished reading the letter , Mr Lee said, “I have promised that I will keep this a secret until Sam is gone. Now you know it.” Jason stood there. Tears ran down his face. Why did Sam thanked the doctor?
A.Because the doctor was very friendly to him. |
B.Because the doctor took good care of him. |
C.Because the doctor saved his eyes. |
D.Because the doctor kept the secret for him. |
Which of the following happened according to the order of time?
a. Jason felt very discouraged to stay with Sam.
b. Jason lost his eyes in an accident.
c. Sam donated his eyes to Jason.
d. Jason didn’t go to visit Sam any more.
e. Sam died and Jason knew the truth.
A.dacbe | B.dcbea | C.bcade | D.bcdae |
The underlined word “healed” in the second paragraph is closest in the meaning to “__________”.
A.recovered | B.hurt | C.failed | D.disappeared |
It can be inferred from the passage that Sam was__________.
A.kind-hearted and helpful |
B.discouraged and outgoing |
C.optimistic and humorous |
D.enthusiastic and curious |
Need to relax after a few stressful months? Perhaps you need to go to a spa.
First of all, what exactly is a spa? Traditionally, spas were places with a natural spring producing warm waters that could be used in hydrotherapy (水疗法) treatments. They were places where you “took the waters” --- meaning you drank some of the water or bathed in it.
But nowadays, a “spa” can mean a variety of things. In general, the term is often used to refer to commercial establishment that provides many services for health, fitness, weight loss, beauty and relaxation. This may include exercise classes, mud baths, body treatment, facials (美容), etc.
In Japan, traditional hot springs have attracted visitors for centuries. And thermal baths (温泉浴) have been found in the ruins of the Cretan Palace of Knossos (2000-1400 B.C.). It was the Romans who made spas popular in Europe. They established a number of towns around thermal waters. These include the English town of Aquae Sulis (which is called Bath today), and the Belgian town of Aquae Spadanae (which is known as Spa these days).
In the 18th century, spas became the fashionable places to go on holiday. Bath and Harrogate in the UK were popular with British rich people. And in Europe Carsbad (now called Larlovy Vary), Marienbad and Franzensbsf were Europe’s most important holiday centers.
A typical day in Carsbad in the 19th century went as follows. Visitors got up at 6:00 a.m. to take the waters and listen to music by a band. Next, came a light breakfast, a bath in the waters, and then lunch. In the afternoon, visitors went sightseeing, walked or attended concerts. After dinner, there were theatrical performances. Guests returned to their hotels at about 9 p.m. to rest until six the following morning. Visitors would stay for as long as a month. Some of the more famous patients at these spas included the composers Beethoven and Chopin, and the Russian writer Turgnev.
Marienbad was the best spa town. It was popular with the inventor Thomas Edison, the writer Johann Goethe, and many famous people and European emperors.
Today, although taking the waters isn’t as common as it used to be, spa treatments are more popular than ever. What can we learn about a spa?
A.It makes profits mainly on facials. |
B.It is a center for rich people to relax. |
C.It provides more services than before. |
D.It is where one can get medical treatment. |
From Paragraph 4, we can infer that ___________.
A.spas have a history of about 200 years |
B.Japan has more spas than any other countries |
C.the Romans played a positive part in the popularity of spas |
D.ordinary people could enjoy thermal baths in 18th-century UK |
At the spas in Carlsbad, ____________.
A.many visitors had facials |
B.guests often stayed for at least a month |
C.Thomas Edison was a regular guest |
D.guests had a bath between breakfast and lunch |
What can we learn from the passage?
A.The former name of Larlovy Vary was Carlsbad. |
B.Spa treatments are not so popular as before. |
C.Chopin visited Marienbad frequently. |
D.Marienbad is located in the UK. |