In our culture, the sources of what we call a sense of “mastery”— feeling important and worthwhile — and the sources of what we call a sense of “pleasure”— finding life enjoyable — are not always the same.Women often are told “You can’t have it all.” Sometimes what the speaker really is saying is: “You choose a career, so you can’t expect to have closer relationships or a happy family life.” or “You have a wonderful husband and children — what’s all this about wanting a career?” But women need to understand and develop both aspects of well-being, if they are to feel good about themselves.
Our study shows that, for women, well-being has two aspects.One is mastery, which includes self-respect, a sense of control over your life, and low levels of anxiety and depression.Mastery is closely related to the “doing” side of life, to work and activity.Pleasure is the other aspect, and it is made up of happiness, satisfaction and optimism.It is tied more closely to the “feeling” side of life.The two are independent of each other.A woman could be high in mastery and low in pleasure, and vice versa(反之亦然).For example, a woman who has a good job, but whose mother has just died, might be feeling very good about herself and in control of her work life, but the pleasure side could be damaged for a time.
The concepts of mastery and pleasure can help us identify the sources of well-being for women, and correct past mistakes.In the past, women were encouraged to look only at the feeling side of life as the source of all well-being.But we know that both mastery and pleasure are important.And mastery seems to be achieved largely through work.In our study, all the groups of employed women were valued significantly higher in mastery than women who were not employed.
A woman’s well-being is developed when she takes on multiple roles.At least by middle adulthood, the women who were involved in a combination of roles — marriages, motherhood, and employment — were the highest in well-being, in spite of warnings about stress and strain.It can be inferred from the first paragraph that ________.
A.for women, a sense of “mastery” is more important than a sense of “pleasure” |
B.for women, a sense of “pleasure” is more important than a sense of “mastery” |
C.women can’t have a sense of “mastery” and a sense of “pleasure” at the same time |
D.a sense of “mastery” and a sense of “pleasure” are both necessary to women |
The author’s attitude towards women having a career is________.
A.negative | B.positive |
C.indifferent | D.realistic |
One can conclude from the passage that if a woman takes on several social roles, ________.
A.it will be easier for her to overcome stress and strain |
B.she will be more successful in her career |
C.her chances of getting promoted will be greater |
D.her life will be richer and more meaningful |
Which of the following can be considered as a source of “pleasure” for women?
A.Family life | B.Multiple roles in society |
C.Regular employment | D.Freedom from anxiety |
EDGEWOOD ---- Every morning at Dixie Heights High School, customers pour into a special experiment: the district’s first coffee run mostly by students with special learning needs.
Well before classes start, students and teachers order Lattes, Sappuccinos and Hot Chocolates.Then, durning the first period teachers call in orders on their room phones, and students make deliveries.
By closing time at 9.20 a.m., the shop usually sells 90 drinks.
“Whoever made the chi tea, Ms. Schatzman says it was good,” Christy McKinley, a second year student, announced recently, after hanging up with the teacher.
The shop is called the Dixie PIT, which stands for Power in Transition. Although some of the students are not disabled, many are, and the PIT helps them prepare for life after high school.
They learn not only how to run a coffee shop but also how to deal with their affairs. They keep a timecard and receive paychecks, which they keep in check registers.
Special-education teachers Kim Chevalier and Sue Casey introduced the Dixie PIT from a similar program at Kennesaw Mountain High School in Georgia.
Not that it was easy. Chevaliver’s first problem to overcome was product-related. Should school be selling coffee? What about sugar content?
Kenton County Food Service Director Ginger Gray helped. She made sure all the drinks, which use non-fat milk, fell within nutrition (营养) guidelines.
The whole school has joined in to help.
Teachers agreed to give up their lounge (休息室) in the mornings. Art students painted the name of the shop on the wall. Business students designed the paychecks. The basketball team helped pay for cups.What is the text mainly about?
A.A special educational program. |
B.A best selling coffee. |
C.Government support for schools. |
D.A new type of teacher-student relationship. |
The Dixie PIT program was introduced in order to ________.
A.raisemoney for school affairs |
B.do some research on nutrition |
C.supply teachers with drinks |
D.develop students’ practical skills |
How did Christy McKinley know Ms. Schatzman’s opinion of the chi tea?
A.She met her in the shop. |
B.She heard her telling others. |
C.She talked to her on the phone. |
D.She went to her office to deliver the tea. |
We know from the text that Ginger Gray _________.
A.manages the Dixie PIT programin Kenton Country |
B.owns the school’s coffee shop |
C.teaches at Dixie Heights High School |
D.sees that the drinks meet health standards |
Imagine, one day, getting out of bed in Beijing and being at your office in Shanghai in only a couple of hours, and then, after a full day of work, going back home to Beijing and having dinner there.
Sounds unusual, doesn’t it? But it’s not that unrealistic, with the development of China’s high-speed railway system. And that’s not all. China has an even greater high-speed railway plan-----to connect the country with Southeast Asia, and eventually Eastern Europe.
China is negotiating to extend its own high-speed railway network to up to 17 countries in 10 to 15 years, eventually reaching London and Singapore.
China has proposed three such projects. The first would possibly connect Kunming with Singapore via Vietnam and Malaysia. Another could start in Urumqi and go through Kazakhstan and Uzbekistan, and possibly to Germany. The third would start in the northeast and go north through Russia and then into Western Europe.
If China’s plan for the high-speed railway goes forward, people could zip over from London to Beijing in under two days.
The new system would still follow China’s high-speed railway standard. And the trains would be able to go 346 kilometers an hour, almost as fast as some airplanes.
China’s bullet train (高速客车), the one connecting Wuhan to Guangzhou, already has the world’s fastest average speed. It covers 1,069 kilometers in about three hours.
Of course, there are some technical challenges to overcome. There are so many issues that need to be settled, such as safety, rail gauge (轨距), maintenance of railway tracks. So, it’s important to pay attention to every detail.
But the key issue is really money. China is already spending hundreds of billions of yuan on domestic railway expansion.
China prefers that the other countries pay in natural resources rather than with capital investment. Resources from those countries could stream into China to sustain development.
It’ll be a win-win project. For other countries, the railway network will definitely create more opportunities for business, tourism and so on, not to mention the better communication among those countries.
For China, such a project would not only connect it with the rest of Asia and bring some much-needed resources, but would also help develop China’s far west. We foresee that in the coming decades, millions of people will migrate to the western regions, where the land is empty and resources unused. With high-speed trains, people will set up factories and business centers in the west once and for all. And they’ll trade with Central Asian and Eastern European countries. China’s new high-speed railway plan will be a win-win project because ____________.
A.China will get much-needed resources and develop its western regions |
B.China and the countries involved will benefit from the project in various ways |
C.China will develop its railway system and communication with other countries |
D.the foreign countries involved will develop their railway transportation, business and tourism |
According to the passage, the greatest challenge to the new high-speed railway plan is___________.
A.technical issues | B.safety of the system |
C.financial problems | D.maintenance of railway tracks |
Which of the following words best describes the author’s attitude towards China’s high-speed railway plan?
A.Critical. | B.Reserved. |
C.Doubtful | D.Positive. |
Which of the following might be the best title for the passage?
A.New Railway Standards |
B.Big Railway Dreams |
C.High-speed Bullet Trains |
D.International Railway Network |
Gallery Policies for Visitors to National Gallery of Art, Washington |
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Visitors must present all carried items for inspection upon entry. After inspection, all bags, backpacks, umbrellas, parcels, and other things as determined by security officers must be left at the checkrooms, free of charge, close to each entrance. All oversized bags, backpacks and luggage must be left at the checkrooms near the 4th Street entrance of either the East or West Building. These items will have to be x-rayed before being accepted. Items of value, such as laptop computers, cameras, and fur coats, may not be left in the checkrooms but may be carried into the galleries. We regret that we do not have enough space for visitor items larger than 17×26 inches into the Gallery or its checkrooms. Additional security procedures and checks may be taken according to the decision of the Gallery. |
For the safety of the artworks and other visitors, nothing may be carried on a visitor’s back. Soft front baby carriers are allowed, but children may not be carried on shoulders or in a child carrier worn on the back. Pushchairs are available free of charge near each checkroom. Smoking is prohibited. Food and drink are not permitted outside the food service areas. Unopened bottled water may be carried only in a visitor’s bag. Cell phones may not be used in the galleries. Animals, other than service animals, are not permitted in the Gallery. Skateboarding is prohibited. Picture-taking (including video) for personal use is permitted except in special exhibitions and where specifically prohibited. Tripods (三角架) are not allowed. Please do not touch the works of art. |
When people come to visit the Gallery, they should ____________.
A.leave all their carried items at the checkrooms |
B.have all their carried items x-rayed at the entrance |
C.take all their carried items with them without inspection |
D.have all their carried items inspected at the entrance |
What does the Gallery feel sorry for?
A.Visitors have to keep their valuable items in the checkrooms. |
B.The size of visitor items allowed into the Gallery is limited. |
C.It cannot keep oversized visitor items due to limited space. |
D.Visitor items over 17×26 inches must go through additional checks. |
Parents with small children visiting the Gallery _____________.
A.can carry their children in soft front child carriers |
B.can carry their children on their shoulders |
C.can carry their children in child carriers worn on the back |
D.ought to pay if they want to use pushchairs for their children |
Visiting photographers should make sure that ____________.
A.pictures and videos are allowed for personal use anywhere in the Gallery |
B.tripods are allowed except in some special exhibitions |
C.picture-taking and videoing are totally forbidden in the Gallery |
D.pictures and videos can be taken in some places for personal use |
When I was six, Dad brought home a dog one day, who was called “Brownie”. My brothers and I all loved Brownie and did different things with her. One of us would walk her, another would feed her, then there were baths, playing catch and many other games. Brownie, in return, loved each and every one of us. One thing that most touched my heart was that she would go to whoever was sick and just be with them. We always felt better when she was around.
One day, as I was getting her food, she chewed up (咬破) one of Dad’s shoes, which had to be thrown away in the end. I knew Dad would be mad and I had to let her know what she did was wrong. When I looked at her and said, “Bad girl,” she looked down at the ground and then went and hid. I saw a tear in her eyes.
Brownie turned out to be more than just our family pet. She went everywhere with us. People would stop and ask if they could pet her. Of course she’d let anyone pet her. She was just the most lovable dog. There were many times when we’d be out walking and a small child would come over and pull on her hair. She never barked (吠) or tried to get away. Funny thing is she would smile. This frightened people because they thought she was showing her teeth. Far from the truth, she loved everyone.
Now many years have passed since Brownie died of old age. I still miss the days when she was with us.What would Brownie do when someone was ill in the family?
A.Keep them company. | B.Look at them sadly. |
C.Play games with them. | D.Touch them gently. |
We can infer from Paragraph 2 that Brownie__________.
A.would eat anything when hungry |
B.felt sorry for her mistake |
C.loved playing hide-and-seek |
D.disliked the author’s dad |
Why does the author say that Brownie was more than just a family pet?
A.She was treated as a member of the family. |
B.She played games with anyone she liked. |
C.She was loved by everybody she met. |
D.She went everywhere with the family. |
I think that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention and especially if its given from the heart. When people are talking, there’s no need to do anything but receive them. Just take them in. Listen to what they’re saying. Care about it. Most times caring about it is even more important than understanding it.
When we interrupt what someone is saying to let them know that we understand, we move the focus of attention to ourselves. When we listen, they know we care.
I have even learned to respond to someone crying by just listening. In the old days I used to reach for the tissues(纸巾), until I realized that passing a person a tissue may be just another way to shut them down, to take them out of their experience of sadness and pain. Now I just listen. When they have cried all they need to cry, they find me there with them.
This simple thing has not been that easy to learn. It certainly went against everything I had been taught since I was very young at school. I thought people listened only because they were too timid to speak or did not know the answer. A loving silence often has far more power to connect and to heal than the most well-intentioned(善意的)words.When we communicate with others we had better ________________.
A.listen more | B.understand more |
C.speak more | D.look here and there |
If we interrupt what someone is saying,________________.
A.they may think we are too rude to them |
B.they must be very angry with us |
C.they may know we dont care about them |
D.they must stop and listen to us |
Passing a person who is crying a tissue perhaps means_______________
A.stopping them from crying any more |
B.Stopping them from saying anything |
C.advising them to have a rest |
D.helping them to accept the sadness |
It is very difficult for us to learn to listen because _______________
A.we may know the answer |
B.we have an interesting topic |
C.parents teach us to speak |
D.it goes against what we have been taught |
What is probably the best title for this article?
A.Listening and talking |
B.Listen, just listen |
C.Listening is not easy to learn |
D.How to comfort others |