Living and dealing with kids can be a tough job these days, but living and dealing with parents can be even tougher.
If I have learned anything in my 16 years, it is that communication is very important, both when you disagree and when you get along. With any relationship, you need to let other person know how you are feeling. If you are not able to communicate, you drift apart.When you are mad at your parents, or anyone else, not talking to them doesn’t solve anything.
Communication begins with the concerns (关心) of another. It means that you can’t just come home from school, go up to your room and take no notice to anyone. Even if you just say “Hi”, and see how their day was for five minutes, it is better than nothing.
If you looked up the word “communication” in a dictionary, it would say “the exchange of ideas, the conveyance (表达)of information, correspondence (通信), means of communication: a letter or a message”. To keep a good relationship, you must keep communication strong. Let people know how you feel, even if it’s just by writing a note.
When dealing with parents, you always have to make them feel good about how they are doing as a parent. If you are trying to make them see something as you see it, tell them that you’ll listen to what they have to say, and ask them politely to listen to you. Shouting or walking away only makes the situation worse.
Here is an example: one night, Sophie went to a street party with her friends. She knew she had to be home by midnight after the fireworks, but she didn’t feel she could just ask to go home. That would be rude. After all, they had been nice enough to take her along with them. Needless to say, she was late getting home. Her parents were mad at first, but when Sophie explained why she was late, they weren’t as mad and let it go. Communication is the key here. If Sophie’s parents had not been willing to listen, Sophie would have been in a lot of trouble.
Communication isn’t a one-way matter: it goes both ways. Just remember: if you get into a situation like Sophie’s, telling the other person how you feel-------listening is the key to communication.In the writer’s view, dealing with parents is __________ than with children.
A.more difficult | B.much easier |
C.less interesting | D.more interesting |
The underlined phrase “ drift apart” in Paragraph 2 means __________.
A.keep up with others | B.move along smoothly |
C.distance yourself form others | D.come closer to each other |
The example in Paragraph 6 shows that ___________.
A.Sophie is very polite to her parents |
B.Sophie’s parents are willing to listen to her |
C.Sophie did well in explaining her being late |
D.communication is the solutionto misunderstanding |
All the following statements are correct except “_______”.
A.Communication is a two-way matter |
B.It is better to say “Hi” to others than say nothing |
C.If you don’t agree with others, you’d better let them know |
D.When dealing with parents, you only need to listen to them |
Can you imagine a world without the Internet?It's surprising to think about it
Now,China has more than 162 million Internet users,according to the China Internet Network Information Center. This is the second highest number of user in the world after the United States. Today,66% of Chinese “netizens(网民)”are teenagers. “They spend about thirteen hours every week online,”said Qian Hulin,an Internet expert(专家). Doctor Song in Beijing Xuanwu Hospital said about 14% of Chinese netizens who are teens often lasted over ten hours to play online games.
The main reasons why teenagers surf the Web are to search for information,to communicate with others and to have fun. On the Internet,teenagers can find out almost everything. And surfing the Web can help students with their homework and widen their knowledge.
Li Dong,a teacher at No. 41 Middle School in Shijiazhuang,likes her students to use the Internet. “When we talk in class,students who surf the Net usually know more background information than the others,”she said.
In addition,people can use the Internet to write letters or stories and send emails. Many teens keep in touch with their friends online. It is cheaper than phoning somebody far away and also much quicker.
根据短文内容,选择最佳选项,并将其标号在答题卡上涂黑。(每小题1分,共5分)_______ has the most Internet users in the world according to the article.
A.China | B.America | C.Canada | D.Russia |
There are about _______ Chinese netizens to surf about 13 hours every week.
A.107 million old | B.22.7 million old |
C.107 million young | D.22.7 million young |
Song said some teenagers continued _______ more than ten hours.
A.playing online games |
B.searching for information |
C.chatting with their friends |
D.sending emails to others |
Li Dong in No. 41 Middle School likes her students to use the Internet because she ______.
A.thinks surfing the net can help students spend less time on homework |
B.thinks her students can get more background information than the others |
C.wants her students to talk to her about their hobbies and interests |
D.wants to know what her students do and think about at home |
Which way is the cheapest and quickest to learn something about friends far away?
A.Giving them a call. |
B.Going to see them. |
C.Writing a letter to them. |
D.Sending emails to them. |
New rules and behavior standards for middle school students came out. Middle schools are going to use a new way to decide who the top students are. The following are some of the new rules.
You should not dye(染)your hair, smoke or drink. You should not copy others’ work in an exam. Don’t do it again if you did it!
Good students love animals and care for other people. Be friendly to the people around you. Try to think of others, not only yourself.
Don’t look down on new ideas. Everyone’s ideas are important. You should welcome them, because new ideas make life better for everyone.
Learn to protect yourselves. If you have to go home late, you should let your mother or your father know.
Use the Internet carefully. The Internet can be very useful for your studies. But some things on the Internet aren’t good for teenagers, so try to look through web pages that are good for you.Students are allowed to dye their hair according to new rules.
Be friendly to the people around you.
If you have to go home late, you should not let your parents know.
There are all advantages on the Internet.
The schools are going to use a new way to decide who the top students are.
My Year Abroad
This month in TravelersCorner there are three teenagers’ experiences in year-abroad programmes.
Mariko Okada – Tokyo
My year abroad in the United States was a fantastic experience. I’m not a shy person, and I was very comfortable speaking to everyone. So I got lots of speaking practice. I also learned many English songs and lots of interesting things about American culture. When I got home, my friends all said that I had improved so much! I hope to go back again in the future.
Carla Fonseca – Rio de Janeiro
I spent last year studying English in London. I’m from a small town, and London is a very big city. Sometimes I felt it was too big. There were so many people to talk to, but I always felt bad about my English. I missed my family, and I really missed my two cats. My roommate was always using our telephone, so I hardly had the chance for a nice long talk with my parents. I think it was a good experience for me, but I’m glad to be home!
Alvin Chen – Hong Kong
Studying in New Zealand was a fun experience for me, but it was also lots of hard work! I had English classes six hours a day, five days a week——with lots of homework. I also kept a diary of my experience. I like to write, and I wrote two or three pages in my diary every day. On Saturdays, my homestay family took me to lots of interesting places and showed me so many wonderful things about the culture. I’m really glad I went.Where did Mariko visit?
A.Tokyo | B.London |
C.the United States | D.New Zealand |
What can we learn about Carla?
A.She was a little homesick. |
B.She had no problem talking in English. |
C.She often talked to her parents on phone. |
D.She felt London was the same as her hometown. |
Which of the activities are NOT mentioned by Alvin?
A.Homework | B.Singing practice |
C.Keeping a diary | D.Going to interesting places |
Which is true about Mariko, Carla and Alvin?
A.They were all shy persons. |
B.They all spent a year abroad. |
C.They all come from big cities. |
D.They all speak very good English. |
This article is most probably taken from____________ .
A.an advertisement | B.a textbook |
C.a travel magazine | D.a news website |
College is an exciting time to learn and to make friends that will last a lifetime. Many students do not like to worry about money, and they would rather not think about it. But, it doesn’t matter whether a student’s parents pay for everything, or whether the students work part-time to help pay for his or her education. All students can get into money trouble if they’re not careful.
The cost of a college education can be quite expensive. In English-speaking countries, the average(平均的)cost per student per year is well over US$10,000. Students must also pay for books, paper, pens, and etc. These can cost $500 to $1,000 per year. Students who live in university housing pay thousand more per year for room and board(住宿). Add money for clothes, travel, and other personal expenses, and the cost of one year at a university can be $20, 000 to $30,000 or more.
Students need to spend their money carefully. At most universities, advisors can give students advice on how to budget(预算) their money. They suggest this: at the start of a school term, write down your income; for example, money you will get from your family or a part-time job. Then, list all of your expenses. Put your expenses into two groups: those that change (food, phone, books, travel), and those that will stay the same (tuition, room and board). Add together all of your expenses. Are they more than your income? Do you have enough money, or do you need more?
Learning not to spend more money than you have is not always easy. But for many, it is easier than borrowing money from family or friends.How much will a college student spend in total every year?
A.$10,000 per year | B.$15,000 per year |
C.$30, 000 per year | D.$500 per year |
Students who live in university pay thousands more per year for_______.
A.rooms | B.clothes |
C.travelling | D.books |
Expenses that do not change include ________.
A.tuition | B.clothes | C.phone | D.food |
What can we infer from the passage?
A.College students needn’t worry about money. |
B.It’s important to follow the advisors’ advice. |
C.Students can spend more than their income. |
D.Borrowing money from others is very easy. |
What is the passage mainly about?
A.The cost of a college education |
B.How to pay for a college education |
C.How to borrow money from family |
D.Spending money wisely at college |
Christopher Reeve was born in September, 1952. He was in his first school play when he was eight and he started to act in TV shows and films while he was still in college. He made many successful films and TV shows but he is most famous for his Superman films.
Unfortunately, disaster came in 1995 when he fell from his horse and broke his back. The doctors did not expect him to live. However, he made amazing progress. At first, he couldn’t breathe without a machine, but he learnt to breathe on his own. He would never walk again but he started a new life with great courage.
The second year after his accident, Christopher returned to film making. He also raised a lot of money to promote medical research into back injuries. He made speeches all over the USA about his experiences. This not only drew public attention to research into back injuries but also encouraged a lot of people living with all kinds of problems.
From their home, Christopher and his wife Dana spoke about their life after the accident.
Could you say something about your life after the accident?
"Four days after the accident, I came to understand my situation. The doctors said I was not going to pull through. Those days were terrible. But my wife Dana said, “You are still you and I love you. Be confident in yourself.” And that saved my life. Since that moment I have never thought of giving up."
What do you think of your family?
"Great! Dana is so wonderful.We have always got on really well.My parents often quarreled with each other when I was young.But they've got closer since the accident."
How do you spend your time?
"I spend most of my time on charity work to improve the life for all disabled people.I think they need my help. With the progress of new medical research, I'm confident that people like me would be able to walk again one day. So you can see I'm far too busy to think of giving up!"
Christopher Reeve died on October 10, 2004. But people all over the world will always remember him as a superhero.What does the second paragraph mainly talk about?
A.Christopher’s riding accident |
B.Christopher’s marriage |
C.Christopher’s death |
D.Christopher’s films |
Reeve made a lot of public speeches in order to____________.
A.make more money |
B.draw people’s attention to his films |
C.prove he was a superman |
D.encourage people to be strong in life |
Whom was Reeve most thankful to?
A.His parents | B.The film company |
C.His wife | D.The doctors |
By saying "I'm far too busy to think of giving up!", Reeve means _______.
A.so far he has been busy thinking of giving up |
B.he’s so busy that he has no time to think of giving up |
C.he’s too busy that he begins to think about giving up |
D.he has never thought of giving up walking far |
Which of the following words can best describe Reeve?
A.Brave | B.Crazy | C.Humorous | D.Careful |