I firmly believe in the power of forgiveness and I have got a lot of pleasure from it.
Last year, I was at the traffic lights on my way to work when my car was hit from behind. After , a flustered (惊慌失措的) young man admitted it was his and apologized to me again and again. After that, he why he had not been “in the moment” while driving. He told me that his had just run out and promised to pay for the damage to my car later. I could his real stress, and as he gave me his details and promised to find a way to pay, I tried to him and told him not to worry too much.
When I got to work, my urged me to contact my insurance(保险) company and chase the young man for compensatory(赔款) payment immediately,as I wasn’t with him and knew nothing about his work or family. The same thing happened when I told my sister what had happened and she firmly told me not to let him get away it. She knew that I only had a small amount of money in the bank and was that I would not chase the young man for payment.
With everyone pressuring me to ask for payment, I was unsure about what to do. I finally decided to a small second-hand car. After about four months, it was coming up to Christmas and I started to think about how this young man might be feeling, waiting for me to “sting ” him, so I finally made a and sent him this note:
“ Hi Joe,
A few months ago you the back of my car. I have managed to pick another car, so I have been able to get around. I want to let you know that I am not going to _ any payment from you. If in future you could help else out, that would be great.”
After sending it, I felt that a great weight had finally been lifted from my shoulders. It wasn’t until then that I _ _the act of _ could make one feel happier.
A.playing B.waiting C.hearing D.watching
A.coming over B.pulling over C.going over D.taking over
A.fault B.mistake C.shortcoming D.error
A.determined B.repeated C.admitted D.explained
A.strength B.resource C.oil D.money
A.sense B.touch C.feel D.smell
A.believe B.comfort C.criticize D.guide
A.neighbors B.families C.colleagues D.schoolmates
A.content B.disappointed C.concerned D.familiar
A.with B.from C.of D.off
A.worried B.interested C.thrilled D.embarrassed
A.place B.buy C.repair D.book
A.quiet B.puzzling C.nervous D.frightened
A.contract B.promise C.document D.decision
A.destroyed B.touched C.beat D.hit
A.off B.up C.out D.on
A.find B.seek C.receive D.keep
A.somebody B.nobody C.anybody D.everybody
A.recognized B.realized C.learned D.hoped
A.giving B.warning C.forgiving D.appreciating
I have two really good friends,Nancy and Richard.They both believe in the ____ of positive thinking.However,though their personalities are ____,they are totally different in other areas of their lives.The biggest differences are their ___,career choice,and way of life.
Love and concern ___ Nancy’s childhood.She,along with her younger sister,was ____ by her mother and father.Nancy’s parents were __6__ in her schoolwork,making her excellent at school.On the other hand,Richard’s childhood lacked love.His parents __ him up to his grandparents when they failed to take care of him ____.His grandmother took care of him for most of his growing up years.___,since his sister did not live with him,he never really got to ____ her.
Another difference is their career choice.Nancy has always been a ____ and made a choice to work in a variety of different ____ settings:doctor’s offices,hospitals,nursing homes and a visiting nurse.Her ____ part was working with pediatrics(小儿科).However,Richard ____ to work in the business world.He prefers to work with ____ rather than with people.
A third difference is their ____.Nancy is always on the go.She goes to yard sales,out to eat,and enjoys nature.She is ____;has five children,thirteen grandchildren,several greatgrandchildren.____,Richard likes to stay home and do things alone.He is single and has no children.
I am very ____ for the fact that I have two similar yet very different friends,Nancy and Richard.This has ____ me that anyone can be a positive thinker.And it is also what makes my friendship with both of them very intriguing(有趣的) and challenging.
A.energy B.power C.ability D.effort
A.strong B.special C.impressive D.similar
A.childhood B.education C.appearance D.religion
A.confirmed B.filled C.influenced D.controlled
A.spoiled B.moved C.raised D.deserted
A.absorbed B.interested C.involved D.stuck
A.took B.picked C.called D.gave
A.carefully B.properly C.strictly D.firmly
A.Moreover B.However C.Instead D.Therefore
A.visit B.touch C.phone D.know
A.follower B.receiver C.caretaker D.leader
A.medical B.physical C.political D.chemical
A.difficult B.complete C.favorite D.natural
A.agreed B.refused C.chose D.remembered
A.machines B.exhibitions C.agreements D.coins
A.hobby B.custom C.habit D.lifestyle
A.beautiful B.independent C.famous D.married
A.After all B.In contrast C.In a word D.In the end
A.anxious B.thankful C.sorry D.ready
A.reminded B.persuaded C.taught D.acknowledged
One Monday morning,news got around in the schoolyard about a fire over the weekend.Soon Mr.Johnson,my teacher,came to explain that the Art class would be ____ due to the fire.He also warned us not to approach the Art room because it could be ____.
During the morning break,Kirn and I decided to take a ____.A first hand observation would make us heroes at lunch.At the appointed time,Kirn and I ____ the Art room,ignoring the consequence I would face ____ I got caught.We stood on tiptoes looking hard ___ the door window,trying in vain to see ____ was forbidden.Suddenly a firm __ on our shoulders stopped us.
Turning around,I found a teacher staring angrily at us.In those seconds millions of ___ flashed through my mind.My father would beat me hard.____ than that,my mom might be so mad that she might not stop him.My spirits ____ even lower while realizing how ____ Mr.Johnson would be.
When Kirn and I were led back to our classroom,I could found ____ to hide and wanted to melt into the ____.However,Mr.Johnson had a different ___ to teach.
Slowly,he bent down to look me in the ____,and I was met with a look of concern rather than anger.He spoke softly as he explained why he was ____ in my decision to go where I may have got hurt.He cared more about my ____ than the fact that I’d broken a rule.My heart was ___ with regret,and I discovered that he still loved me even after I disappointed him.The rest of the day,he didn’t even mention it in class publicly,___ did he tell my parents.It was the first time I felt the power of being given an unexpected second chance.
A.confirmed B.examined C.cancelled D.suggested
A.useless B.dangerous C.childish D.naughty
A.test B.risk C.check D.chance
A.reached B.searched C.entered D.cleaned
A.until B.unless C.as D.if
A.over B.within C.through D.across
A.what B.how C.why D.which
A.word B.hold C.cry D.order
A.thoughts B.feelings C.solutions D.excuses
A.Easier B.Less C.More D.Worse
A.changed B.lifted C.sank D.lost
A.strange B.angry C.kind D.sad
A.somewhere B.anywhere C.nowhere D.everywhere
A.fire B.laugh C.table D.floor
A.course B.lesson C.knowledge D.ability
A.eye B.head C.hand D.feet
A.embarrassed B.excited C.disappointed D.moved
A.grade B.honesty C.interest D.safety
A.full B.heavy C.relaxed D.empty
A.so B.nor C.either D.yet
Body language is the quiet,secret and most powerful language of all!It speaks ____ than words.According to specialists,our bodies send out more ____ than we realize.In fact,nonverbal communication (非言语交际) takes up about 50% of what we really ____.And body language is particularly ____ when we attempt to communicate across cultures (文化).Indeed,what is called body language is so ____ a part of us that it’s actually often unnoticed.And misunderstandings occur as a result of it.___,different societies treat the ___ between people differently.Northern Europeans usually do not like having ____ contact (接触) even with friends,and certainly not with ____.People from Latin American countries,____,touch each other quite a lot.Therefore,it’s possible that in ____,it may look like a Latino is ____ a Norwegian all over the room.The Latino,trying to express friendship,will keep moving ____.The Norwegian,very probably seeing this as pushiness,will keep ____—which the Latino will in return regard as ___.
Clearly,a great deal is going on when people ____.And only a part of it is in the words themselves.And when parties are from ____ cultures,there’s a strong possibility of ____.But whatever the situation,the best ____ is to obey the Golden Rule:treat others as you would like to be ____. (2012·新课标全国)
A.straighter B.louder C.harder D.further
A.sounds B.invitations C.feelings D.messages
A.hope B.receive C.discover D.mean
A.immediate B.misleading C.important D.difficult
A.well B.far C.much D.long
A.For example B.Thus C.However D.In short
A.trade B.distance C.connections D.greetings
A.eye B.verbal C.bodily D.telephone
A.strangers B.relatives C.neighbours D.enemies
A.in other words B.on the other hand C.in a similar way D.by all means
A.trouble B.conversation C.silence D.experiment
A.disturbing B.helping C.guiding D.following
A.closer B.faster C.in D.away
A.stepping forward B.going on C.backing away D.coming out
A.weakness B.carelessness C.friendliness D.coldness
A.talk B.travel C.laugh D.think
A.different B.European C.Latino D.rich
A.curiosity B.excitement C.misunderstanding D.nervousness
A.chance B.time C.result D.advice
A.noticed B.treated C.respected D.pleased
It was the end of my first day as waitress in a busy New York restaurant.My cap had gone away,and my feet were ____.The loaded plates I carried ____ to be heavier and heavier.Tired and discouraged,I wasn’t able to do anything ____.As I made out a check for a family with several children who had changed their icecream ____ a dozen times,I was ready to stop.Then the father ____ at me as he handed me my tip.“Well done,”he said,“you’ve ____ us really well.” Suddenly my tiredness ____.I smiled back,and later,when the ____ asked me how I’d like my first day,I said,“Fun!” Those few words of praise had ____ everything.Praise is like ____ to the human spirit;we cannot grow without it.And ___,while most of us are only too ____ to apply to others the cold wind of criticism,we are ___ to give our fellows the warm sunshine of praise.Why—when one word of praise can bring such ____?
It is strange how chary(吝啬的) we are about praising.Perhaps it’s ____ few of us know how to accept it.It’s ____ rewarding to give praise in areas in which ___ generally goes unnoticed or unmentioned.An artist gets admired for a glorious picture,a cook for a ____ meal.But do you ever tell your laundry manager how pleased you are when the shirts are ____ just right?In fact,to give praise ____ the giver nothing but a moment’s thought and a moment’s effort.
A.small B.painful C.tough D.white
A.remained B.looked C.seemed D.turned
A.happy B.special C.strange D.right
A.order B.price C.colour D.shape
A.stared B.smiled C.called D.nodded
A.talked about B.looked after C.depended on D.thought of
A.increased B.continued C.disappeared D.developed
A.children B.manager C.father D.friends
A.made B.changed C.found D.improved
A.heat B.shadow C.snowstorm D.sunlight
A.then B.thus C.now D.yet
A.ready B.doubtful C.satisfied D.disappointed
A.unable B.unwilling C.bored D.anxious
A.attention B.choice C.pleasure D.advance
A.because B.when C.whether D.that
A.finally B.especially C.probably D.fortunately
A.effort B.effect C.deed D.feeling
A.daily B.light C.perfect D.main
A.done B.sold C.chosen D.given
A.takes B.leaves C.offers D.costs
One day I was doing a big cleanup when I ____ a knotted handkerchief with an old dark brown coin inside.I took one look and immediately ___ a forgettable time.
In 1991,I had spent five months in Niger,with sandstorms and great heat.Its ____ and beggars were my biggest and most constant complaint.Street beggars would continually reached out their hands,shouting “Gift!Gift!”
One day,I ___ for neighboring Burkina to work in a health clinic.
Arriving by taxi at our destination in Burkina,we began to ____.Out of the darkness,a motorbike with two men approached slowly.Without ____,one of the men grabbed my daypack as the motorbike swept close by.Within seconds,the two were out of sight,____ up by the night.
The bag had my passport,money,traveler’s cheques,camera,an airline ticket and other things ___ to me.I was in deep trouble.
In the weeks that followed,I ____guarded the rest of my valuables and regarded all ____ with suspicion.All I wanted was to leave this place.
Then,walking through Burkina’s streets,I met with an old woman.“Gift!Gift!” she cried.I’d had enough.I was ____ of the country:its poverty,its thieves,the heat,and the dust.I told her angrily,“A thief stole all my money and now I can’t ____ out of your country.I cannot give you anything.”
The beggar woman listened attentively and ___ my words.Then she reached ____ the folds of her dress.
“Then I will give you a gift,”she announced.Kindly,she placed an old,dark brown coin in my hand.I looked at it in ____.It was a very small amount of money but for this woman,the coin ___ a meal.At that moment,I felt a shame.In spite of the ____,she was able to give me something priceless.
I saw then the ____ beauty of the people of Burkina—and appreciated deeply the quiet ____ of the poor.With the old woman’s gift,I hope never to part with the coin she gave me.With one small coin,she ____ my concept completely.
A.cared about B.came across C.looked for D.focused upon
A.presented B.gave C.recalled D.reminded
A.traffic B.dust C.noise D.climate
A.headed B.made C.stood D.came
A.move B.unload C.hide D.pass
A.warning B.planning C.thinking D.arranging
A.hung B.put C.swallowed D.cleared
A.obvious B.expensive C.familiar D.precious
A.elegantly B.cautiously C.dependently D.frequently
A.locals B.thieves C.beggars D.motorbikes
A.proud B.conscious C.sick D.aware
A.get B.run C.come D.rush
A.attended to B.looked up C.thought about D.wrote down
A.for B.into C.out D.at
A.order B.vain C.case D.shock
A.meant B.made C.served D.suggested
A.dirtiness B.poverty C.kindness D.safety
A.updated B.unfolded C.broken D.unexpected
A.moment B.action C.dignity D.life
A.changed B.damaged C.found D.accepted