The best tool you can use in communicating with parents is to keep talking to them, no matter what. Strong relationship (关系) depend heavily on keeping the lines of communication open. Try to talk about everyday things with your parents. That doesn’t mean telling them everything. In fact, turn the focus onto them for a change: Ask about their day — just as they do with you.
David, 16, is a senior school student. One evening, after he mentioned at dinner that he was thinking of trying out for the school play, his mom kept asking about it for weeks. And later, it also felt like she was getting too involved (参与) in something he wanted to do himself. Instead of telling his mom how he felt, David decided it would be easier not to tell her anything he was doing in the future.
A good way to get a parent to ask fewer questions is to offer some information on your own. This puts the communication in your hands. The more you keep a parent told about everyday things, the less they need to ask. Communicating everyday things has another advantage: It can show your parents that you’re responsible enough to make good decisions.
It won’t always be easy. You may get frustrated (受挫) at times. But try not to give up. It may take a bit for a parent who is used to making all the decisions to adjust (适合) to the independent-thinking person their child is becoming. Parents also don’t want to see their sons and daughters suffer (受苦) if the choices they make on their own aren’t the “right” ones. To many parents, it seems easier to step in and take control simply because they believe their years of experience put them in a better position to make decisions. If you feel that’s the case (情况) with your parents, talk to them about it.The underlined part “turn the focus onto them” probably means ____.
A.talk the things about them |
B.have a good time with them |
C.show your thanks to them |
D.do something good for them |
In the third paragraph, you are advised to ____.
A.let your parents know everything about your daily life |
B.tell your parents more information before you are asked |
C.keep your parents asking you more questions of your things |
D.be responsible to help your parents make good decisions |
What causes parents to take control of children?
A.They find their children wrong. |
B.They do well in almost everything. |
C.They think they can make better decisions. |
D.They are used to making choices for children. |
The main idea of the passage is how to ____.
A.make decisions on your own |
B.learn from your parents |
C.think carefully for yourself |
D.communicate with parents |
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Some people succeed, while others may not. This is because some people have certain qualities, which others do not.
The first thing you must remember is that in order to succeed, you must be optimistic(乐观). If you do not expect to win, you will not try as hard as people who do expect to win. You also need to have a clear aim and a reason for doing something because motivation(动机) is a key to getting success. If you do not have an aim, then you won’t work hard and put your performance under the microscope(显微镜) to make sure that every detail is right.
Another quality that helps people succeed is creativity---thinking about things in a different way and wondering how others would do the same thing. Think about some successful people you know. They might be successful with a little creativity, but the most successful people are the most creative ones.
Reading is another to success, as it will help you learn about how other people have got success. If you want to learn how to set up a successful business, you should read books about people like Bill Gates and Jerry Yang, who have got amazing success in their areas of business.
Practicing is equally important if you want to be successful because practice makes perfect. Practise every day at whatever career you are in, and by doing so, you will see yourself, your business and your self-confidence begin to grow. If you feel confident about what you do, this confidence will make other people believe in you as well. Your workmates will be happy to work with you, and your boss will give you more responsibility(责任). Finally if you are a successful person, you will be able to look people in the eye and smile confidently.
Success is yours for the taking! Cheers!
Title ____56____
Certain qualities |
Supporting details |
Optimism |
●Try hard ____57______people who do expect to win. ●Have a clear aim and a ____58_____ for doing something because a key to getting success is motivation. |
Creativity |
●___59___about things in a different way. ●Study how other people would do the ___60_____ thing. |
____61_____ |
●Help you know about how ____62______ have got success. ●Read books about ____63____ people such as Bill Gates and Jerry Yang to encourage yourselves. |
Practicing |
●Know the ____64______ of practice because “Practice makes perfect.” ●Believe in yourself and do ____65______you want to do confidently. |
Think of life as a game in which you are playing with five balls in the air. You name them work, family, health, friends and spirit and you keep all of them in the air. You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce (弹跳) back.
But the other four balls, family, health, friends and spirit, are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be broken. They will never be the same. You must understand that and try to have balance in your life. How?
Don’t look down on your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different and each of us is special.
Don’t let other people set goals for you. Only you know what is best for yourself.
Don’t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
Don’t be afraid of difficulties. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible. The quickest way to receive love is to give it; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, but also where you are going.
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is a treasure you can always carry easily.
Don’t use time or words carelessly. You can’t get them back. Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, and today is a gift; that’s why we call it “the present” Life is not a competition, but a trip, step by step.The passage tells us not to _________ because everyone is special.
A.be afraid of difficulties |
B.be afraid to learn |
C.run through life so fast |
D.compare yourself with others to look down on your worth |
The sentence “Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.” means that _____.
A.Nothing is possible |
B.If we don’t give up, there is always hope |
C.You should learn to give up |
D.Although you try, nothing will change. |
The best way to keep love is to ___________.
A.say it’s impossible | B.give it |
C.give it wings | D.hold it tightly |
According to the passage, which is the best title? ___________
A.Nothing is impossible. |
B.Glass balls are easy to be broken. |
C.Things you can’t do |
D.Treat your life in a right way. |
Taking away a city’s rubbish is a big job. Every day trucks come into a city to collect it. Most rubbish is made up of things we can’t eat or use. If we kept these things we would soon have a mountain of rubbish.
In some cities the rubbish is collected and taken outside of the city to a dump(垃圾站). Often the city dump is placed where the ground is low or there is a big hole. The kitchen rubbish is broken into small pieces and sent into the sewage system. The sewagesystem takes away the used water from toilets, bathtubs(澡盆) and other places.
To keep mice and flies away, some earth is used to cover the newly dumped rubbish. Later, grass may be planted on the rubbish-filled land. Finally, a house or a school may be built there, and then you’d never know that this had once been an old rubbish dump.
In other cities the rubbish is burnt in special places. The fire burns everything but the metal. Sometimes the metal can be used again in factories where things are made of metal. The food parts of rubbish are put in special piles where they slowly change into something called humus(腐殖土), which looks like black earth. It is rich with kinds of things that feed plants and help make them grow.You can most probably read the passage in _______.
A.a history book | B.a TV guide |
C.a science book | D.a telephone book |
The underlined word “sewage” in the passage means_______.
A.排污 | B.染色 | C.洗涤 | D.吸尘 |
According to the passage, the food parts of rubbish can be used again_______.
A.to feed animals |
B.to feed plants |
C.to build a house |
D.to make machines |
How should we take care of a used metal box according to the passage?
A.By burning it off. |
B.By putting it in water. |
C.By throwing it away. |
D.By reusing and recycling it. |
Once a small boy lived on a farm which seemed so far away from everywhere.
He needed to get up before sunrise every morning to help his father on the farm. During sunrise he would .a break and climb up on the fence(篱笆)along the side of the farm. He could see a house with golden windows. “If they could afford golden windows, then there must be other nice things inside the house.” He imagined how great it would be to live there. Then he promised himself, “Some day 1 will go there and see this wonderful place.”
One morning, his father would go to the town and told him to stay at home for a rest. Knowing that this was his chance, he took a sandwich and headed across the field towards the house with the golden windows.
As the afternoon went on, he began to know how wrong he was. The house was much farther than he had expected. As he went near the house, he saw no golden windows but instead a place in bad need of a painting. A small girl very close to his age came out of the poor house and stood by the broken fence. He asked her if she had seen the house with the golden windows. The girl said, “Sure, I know.” and invited him to sit on the porch (门廊).As he sat there, he looked back from where he just came. There he saw the sunset turned the windows of his house to gold! Now he understood that everyone had his own house with golden windows.During his break every morning, the small boy would _________.
A.fix the fence |
B.eat sandwiches |
C.climb up on the fence |
D.walk around the farm |
One morning, when knowing he would stay alone, the boy thought it was a chance for him to_________.
A.go to the town |
B.play on the field |
C.go to see the house |
D.make the golden windows |
What did the boy find when he got there?
A.Nobody lived in the poor house. |
B.No golden windows were in the house. |
C.The house was so old as he expected. |
D.The house was nearer than he thought. |
The story tells us that people sometimes may have the thought________ .
A.Like father, like son |
B.Love me, love my dog |
C.Every dog has its day |
D.The grass is greener somewhere else |
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Shawnee Mountain is a wonderful place for___________.
A.staying | B.skiing | C.climbing | D.visiting |
Two parents and a child of 45cm tall will pay ___________for the lifts on weekend,
A.$100 | B.$86 | C.$50 | D.$43 |
If a soldier goes to the mountain, ___________should be shown for a lift ticket.
A.the proof of age | B.the college ID |
C.the phone number | D.the active duty ID |