Over the holidays, I took my three young children into a fancy chocolate shop to buy gifts. Halfway home, I noticed my 7-year-old son playing with a plastic noisemaker. Long story short: He had stolen the toy. I kept my cool -- even when he said, "but it was only $1.50, Mom!" --and explained why it was unacceptable to take things we didn't buy.
A few hours later, I marched my son back to the store with two dollars from his piggy bank. He walked embarrassedly to the counter and told the clerk that he had taken something without paying for it, that he was sorry to break it and that he would pay for it now.
I know exactly how terrible he was feeling. Returning to the scene of the crime is the same shame-causing punishment I received when I was five and stole something from a store. 1 remember my dad sending me back to return the item. It remains one of my clearest child- hood memories. After that day, I never stole again. My dad taught me such an important lesson 30 years ago and I saw an opportunity to do the same for my son. But now I wonder if it was the fight thing to do.
"Returning to the store is absolutely the right thing to do," Laura Markham, Ph.D., a child psychologist and author of Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids, says. "Many children steal -- they' re not born knowing the rules so it' s our job to teach them."
And stay calm when you set them. "If you overreact or yell, you might create a fascination with the behavior and a willful child will be more likely to fight against you," she says. Having a child physically return the stolen item helps him or her grasp the situation -- and the consequence.
But don't talk about it for too long. "lf you continuously bring up the incident, the child will believe they' re a thief and that they' re bad," she says.
Only time will tell if this experience will have the same powerful effect on my son as it had on me, but at the same time I can rest if I haven' t dealt with the situation badly.
When the author' s son was caught playing with a stolen toy, he________.
| A.responded calmly |
| B.felt very ashamed |
| C.didn't think it was a big deal |
| D.didn't admit stealing the toy |
The author punished her son like that because __________.
| A.her father asked her to do so |
| B.it had been popular for 30 years |
| C.she knew it was the right thing to do |
| D.the same punishment had worked on her |
According to Laura Markham, if parents shout at their kids' stealing behavior, the kids may _______.
| A.feel frightened |
| B.steal again |
| C.think they are bad |
| D.remember what happened clearly |
What does the author think of Laura Markham' s words?
| A.They are doubtful. |
| B.They are unacceptable. |
| C.They help her to stop feeling worried. |
| D.They have taught her a good lesson. |
Riding School:
You can start horse-riding at any age. Choose private or group lessons any weekday between 9 a. m.and 8:30 p.m.(3:30 p.m.on Saturdays). There are 10 kilometers of tracks and paths for leisurely rides across farmland and open country. You will need a riding hat.
Opening Hours: Monday through Friday:9:00 a.m.—8:30 p.m.
Phone:( 412)396—6644 FaxL412) 396-6752
Sailing Club:
Our Young Sailor’s Course leads to the Stage 1 Sailing qualification. You’ll learn how to sail safely and the course also covers sailing theory and first aid. Have fun with other course member, afterwards in the clubroom. There are 10 weekly two-hour lessons (Tuesday 6:00 p.m—8:00p.m)
Opening Hours:Tuesdays:6:00p.m—8:00 p.m.
Phone: (412)396—6644 Fax: (412)396—6644
Diving Center:
Our experienced instructors offer one-month courses in deep-sea diving for beginners. There are two evening lessons a week, in which you learn to breathe underwater and use the equipment safely. You only need a swimming costume and towel. Reduced rates for couples.
Opening Hours: Monday and Friday:6:30p.m-8:30p.m.
Phone: (412)396-6312 Fax: (412)396-6706
Medical Center:
The staff of the Medical Center aim to provide convenient and comprehensive medical care to students and staff of the university. The center is well equipped and the staff here are trained to deal with a broad range of medical problems. Both female and male doctors as well as nursing staff are available for consultation. Also, all kinds of medicines are sold here and are cheaper for students than other drugstores.
Opening Hours: 24 hours from Monday to Sunday
Phone:(412)396—6649 Fax:(412) 396—6648
Watersports Club:
We use a two-kilometer length of river for speedboat racing and water-skiing.A beginners’ course consists of ten 20-minute lessons. You will learn to handle boats safely and confidently, but must be able to swim. The club is in a convenient central position and is open daily from 9 a. m to 4 p.m, with lessons all through the day.
Opening Hours: Monday through Friday: 9:00a.m.—4:00 p.m.
Phone: (412)39606899 Fax: (412) 396-6890If you want to swim and enjoy activities which are fast and a bit dangerous, you should join _____.
| A.Diving Center | B.Watersports Club | C.Riding School | D.Sailing Club |
If you want to experience a new activity in the countryside in the mornings, you may fax ______.
| A.(412) 396-6706 | B.(412) 396-6648 | C.(412) 396-6876 | D.(412) 396-6752 |
If you are planning to explore the ocean depths, you should attend your lessons at___.
| A.Monday through Friday:7:00a.m.——10:00 p.m. |
| B.24 hours from Monday to Sunday |
| C.Monday and Friday:6:30p.m.—8:30p.m. |
| D.Tuesdays:6:00p.m.—8:00p.m. |
You want to do an activity one evening a week and get a certificate in the end, you can go to _________.
| A.Diving Center | B. Watersports Club | C.Riding School | D.Sailing Club |
Which is NOT the convenience that the Medical Center provides?
| A.Well trained staff members. | B.Good equipment. |
| C.Nursery for newly-born babies. | D.Various less expensive medicines. |
Although Paris is often considered the city of romance, close to a million adults who call it home are single. Many single people say that France’s capital is one of the most difficult places to meet people. The complaints of this lonely group have inspired a new phenomenon known as “supermarket dating.” At Galerie Lafayette Gourmet,singles can shop for more than just the items on their grocery list. They can look for someone who has blue eyes, brown hair,and is 1.8 meters tall,or whatever may be on their romantic shopping list.
At this Paris location,single people of all ages can schedule their shopping for Thursday nights between 6:30 and 9:00 p.m. When they walk through the door,they pick up a purple basket to advise that they are looking for love. They try to arrive early because the baskets disappear quickly, and then they have to wait in line for their turn to wander the store aisles(过道).
With purple baskets in hand, shoppers can consider their romantic options while they pick out their groceries. When they are ready to pay, they can go to the checkout line for singles who want to chat.
Most of the people who look for love in the supermarket are skeptical of Internet dating. They know that it is easy to embellish(美化)one’s appearance or to lie about one’s age over the Internet. The supermarket, on the other hand,is considered a safe and casual environment in which to meet a potential match. In addition, what one finds in another’s grocery basket can say a thing or two about that person’s character or intentions. Buying pet food can be a man’s way of showing a potential match that he has a sensitive side. Women who fill their baskets with low-fat food show their healthy style of living. These ways it’s possible to find much more than food at a grocery store.What do many single people in Paris complain about?
| A.The difficulty in meeting people. |
| B.The idea of supermarket dating. |
| C.The items on their grocery list. |
| D.The inconvenience in shopping. |
Which of the following can be inferred but is not clearly stated in the second paragraph?
| A.The dating supermarket is located in Paris. |
| B.The dating supermarket is open only on Thursday evenings. |
| C.People looking for love must get a basket of a particular color |
| D.The dating supermarket has very good business. |
How do love shoppers meet one another?
| A.They schedule their meeting in advance. |
| B.They go through a special checkout. |
| C.They pick out their groceries with great care. |
| D.They dial the phone numbers on their shopping items. |
According to the writer,a possible way to win a woman’s heart is to .
| A.pick up a purple basket | B.buy low-fat food |
| C.embellish your appearance | D.buy pet food |
Why do the people prefer the supermarket dating to Internet dating?
| A.The supermarket dating is more convenient. |
| B.The supermarket dating is more casual. |
| C.The supermarket dating can be trusted more. |
| D.The supermarket dating is less expensive. |
Howard Dill is a giant among giant pumpkin growers. He grew world champion pumpkins for four years running,from 1979 to 1982,and missed winning the fifth year by a mere 5 pounds. Today,his Dill Atlantic Giant seeds are sold worldwide to more than 50 seed companies. The pumpkins grown from his Dill Atlantic Giant seeds commonly weigh in at over 1,000 pounds.“I don’t have any training in genetics ;it was all trial and error,”Dill says. He inherited his love of pumpkins from his father and has enjoyed growing them for years.
Dill still grows giant pumpkins, but not for competition. In the fall, visitors come to enjoy the pumpkin patch on his 90-acre farm in Nova Scotia,Canada. He plants ten acres of pumpkins for Halloween and two acres of giant pumpkins. One of giant pumpkins was recently baked into 442 pumpkin pies and sold at $ 5 each for charity.
It you want to try growing a giant pumpkin, Dill recommends starting with a soil test and then adding fertilizer as needed. Plant the giant pumpkin seed. A giant pumpkin can gain 15 to 20 pounds a day, so careful watering—every day or two—is essential. You should wait about 130 days until the pumpkin matures and then you can harvest it.
Dill’s favorite pumpkin set the Guinness Book record in 1981. It weighted 493.5 pounds. “I’ve grown them larger since, but that one meant a lot,” he remembers. “I never would have predicted ten years ago that there would be a 1,000-pounder,but there are many of them now,”says Dill。The 2006 world record holder is Larry Checkon of Pennsylvania. He grew a 1,469 pounder. Dill says, “These world champions are grown from my seeds, so I feel like a winner right along with them.”What can we learn about the world champion pumpkin of 1983?
| A.It weighed over 1,000 pounds. |
| B.It was missing after the competition. |
| C.It was 5 pounds heavier than that of 1982. |
| D.It was 5 pounds heavier than Dill’s biggest one that year. |
One of Dill’s giant pumpkins earned .
| A.$2210 | B.$442 | C.$1000 | D.$1469 |
In the third paragraph Dill mainly tells about.
| A.how to do a soil test | B.how to plant the giant pumpkin seed |
| C.when to water the pumpkin | D.how to grow a giant pumpkin |
Which of the following is true according to the passage?
| A.Howard Dill is well trained in genetics. |
| B.Howard Dill grows pumpkins just for competiton. |
| C.Dill felt proud of Larry Checkon’s champion pumpkin. |
| D.Dill’s favorite pumpkin is the heaviest of all those he has ever grown. |
Which of the following is the best title for the passage?
| A.Gardening Giant: Howard Dill | B.World Champion Pumpkin |
| C.Dill Atlantic Giant Seeds | D.How to Grow Giant Pumpkins |
The food we eat seems to have a great effect on our health. Although science has made big steps in making food more fit to eat, it has, at the same time, made many foods unfit to eat. Some research has shown that perhaps eighty percent of human illness is related to food and forty percent of cancer is related to food as well. That food is related to illness is not a new discovery. In 1945, some researchers realized that things commonly used to keep colour in meats and other food additives(添加剂)caused cancer.
Yet, these additives remain in our food, and it is difficult to know which things on the wrappings(包装)of foods are helpful or harmful. The additives which we eat are not all so direct. Farmers often give penicillin to their animals, and because of this, penicillin has been found in the milk of cows. Sometimes similar tings are supplied to animals not for their health, but just to make a profit.
The farmers are simply trying to fatten the animals in order to get a higher price on the market. Although some countries have tried to control such things, the practice continues.Which of the following is not true?
| A.Some wrappings of food are harmful. |
| B.Farmers try to make more money on the market by fattening their animals. |
| C.“The practice continues” means “things are still going on like that”. |
| D.We needn’t take care of what we eat. |
According to this passage, we can know .
| A.perhaps most of human illness is caused by what we eat |
| B.perhaps most kinds of cancer are related to what people eat |
| C.cancer was discovered in 1945 |
| D.science has made food unfit to eat |
Things that are used to keep colours in meats are .
| A.harmful | B.useless | C.helpless | D.dangerous |
All the additives .
| A.are bright and colourless |
| B.are not bright and colourful |
| C.have indirect effects on our health |
| D.have direct effects on our health |
How Americans Began to Eat Tomatoes
People have strange ideas about food. For example, the tomato is a kind of very delicious vegetable. It is one of useful plants that can be prepared in many ways. It has rich nutrition and vitamin in it. But in the 18th century, Americans never ate tomatoes. They grew them in their gardens because tomato plants are so pretty. But they thought the vegetable was poisonous (有毒的). They called tomatoes “poison apples.”
President Thomas Jefferson, however, knew that tomatoes were good to eat. He was a learned man. He had been to Paris, where he learned to love the taste of tomatoes. He grew many kinds of tomatoes in his garden. The President taught his cook a way for a cream of tomato soup. This beautiful pink soup was served at the President’s party. The guests thought the soup tasted really good. They never thought their president would serve his honored guests poison apples. Jefferson never spoke to his honored (忠实的) guests about the fact.From the passage we know all the honored guests invited by Jefferson were .
| A.people from other countries | B.from France |
| C.people of his own country | D.men only |
After you read the passage, which of the following do you think is true?
| A.Americans never ate tomatoes after they began to plant them. |
| B.Americans didn’t eat tomatoes before 19th century. |
| C.Even now Americans don’t eat tomatoes. |
| D.In the 18th century Americans ate a lot of tomatoes. |
The passage tells us that Jefferson was a President who learned to love the taste of tomatoes .
| A.while he was in Paris | B.when he was a little boy |
| C.because his parents told him so | D.from books |
According to the text, _______ made the beautiful pink soup served at the President’s party?
| A.the President himself | B.a French cook |
| C.the President’s cook | D.the President’s wife |