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Most people I meet want to develop more harmonious and satisfying relationships. But we may not realize that this can only be achieved by partnering with two new and strange allies(盟友):uncertainty and confusion. Most of us aren’t trained to like confusion or to admit we feel hesitant and uncertain. In our schools and organizations, we place value on sounding certain and confident.
As life continues to speed up, I believe our changing world requires less certainty and far more curiosity. I’m not suggesting we let go of our beliefs, but that we become curious about what someone else believes. As we become open to the disturbing differences, sometimes we discover that another’s way of interpreting the world is actually essential to our survival.
For me, the first step in becoming curious is to admit that I’m not succeeding in figuring things out by myself. If my solutions don’t work as well as I’d like, I take these as signs that it’s time to begin asking others what they think. I try to become a conscious listener, actively listening for differences.
There are many ways to listen for differences. Lately, I’ve been listening for what surprises me. This isn’t easy — I’m accustomed to sitting there, nodding my head as someone voices his opinions. But when I notice what surprises me, I’m able to see my own views more clearly, including my assumptions.
If you’re willing to be disturbed and confused, I recommend you begin a conversation with someone who thinks differently from you. Listen for what’s different and what surprises you. Try to stop the voice of judgement or opinion and just listen. At the end, notice whether you’ve learned something new.
We have the opportunity many times a day to be the one who listens to others and the one who is curious rather than certain. When we listen with fewer judgements, we always develop better relationships with each other. It’s not differences that divide us. It’s our judgements that do. Curiosity and good listening bring us back together.
As I consider partnering with confusion and uncertainty, I’m learning that we don’t have to agree with each other in order to think well together. There is no need for us to be joined at the head. We are already joined by our hearts.
According to the passage, when communicating with others, most of us try to behave___.

A.hesitantly and confusedly
B.honestly and harmoniously
C.responsibly and actively
D.confidently and convincingly

According to the author, in order to cope with our changing world, we should ______.

A.reconsider traditional beliefs before accepting them.
B.learn to interpret other people’s behavior.
C.become more curious about other people’s opinions.
D.try to develop more harmonious relationships with others.

What does the passage advise you to do when you hear different ideas?

A.We should let go of our beliefs.
B.We should admit that we are not succeeding in figuring out things.
C.We should be accustomed to sitting there and listening.
D.We should listen and find out the valuable points

What do the underlined sentences in the passage imply?

A.We should listen more and judge less.
B.We should make decisions based on sound judgement.
C.Differences among people separate them.
D.It is important to seek common ground and reserve differences.

Which of the following best describes the author’s attitude to uncertainty and confusion?

A.Favorable. B.Resistant. C.Curious. D.Doubtful.
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A.to say that you like the host's room very much
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C.for a guest to have drinks and snacks before the evening
D.for the host and the hostess (女主人) to sit and eat with their guests

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A.Snacks, vegetables, meat, coffee.
B.Coffee, drinks, soup, fish, vegetables, dessert.
C.Soup, meat with vegetables, dessert and coffee.
D.Drinks, soup, something small, fish and vegetables.

What is the proper way to express your enjoyment of the evening?

A.Before leaving for home, you should say, “Thank you for inviting me.”
B.When you shake hands with your host, you should say, “I did enjoy the evening.”
C.You can write a “Thank you” letter to your host after that.
D.You should finish everything on your plate and take more if you want it.

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“ How many did you sell, my boy?” my mother asked.
“ None.”
“ Where did you go?”
“ The corner of Belleville and Union Avenues.”
“ What did you do?”
“ Stood on the corner waiting for somebody to buy a Saturday Evening Post.”
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“ Didn’t sell a single one.”
“ My God, Russell!”
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A.He wanted to be famous in the future.
B.The job was quite easy for him.
C.His mother had high hopes for him.
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A.excited B.interested C.ashamed D.disappointed

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A.She forced him to continue. B.She punished him.
C.She gave him some money. D.She changed her plan.

What does the underlined phrase “this battle”(last paragraph) refer to?

A.The war between the boy’s parents.
B.The arguing between the boy and his mother.
C.The quarrel between the boy and his customers.
D.The fight between the boy and his father.

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A.The early life of a journalist.
B.The early success of a journalist.
C.The happy childhood of the writer.
D.The important role of the writer in his family.

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