Having friends, and finding new friendships is an important developmental task for preteens and teens. While they have learned to play well with others during their childhood, developing independent friendships is a different thing. Preteens and teens will be allowed to use their own resources to decide whether to be someone’s friend or not, instead of being taught by their parents. Parents must give their teenagers some freedom in choosing who they want to hang out with.
You can help your teens to choose their friends, although it’s your teenagers who make the final decision. You can use teachable moments to talk about what makes a good friend. Here are some points to remember when you talk about friendships with your teenagers:
1) You are allowed to have many friends;
2) Honesty is important in a friendship;
3) Friends sometimes hurt each other, but they can say sorry and forgive(原谅);
4) Friends can influence each other, sometimes they will help you but sometimes they will hurt you, too.
5) Who you choose to be your friend is important, so choose wisely;
6) It takes many learned skills to make and keep a friendship, and it also takes many skills to end a friendship;
7) It is okay and even helpful to make friends with the opposite gender(异性);
8) It takes time to make a good friend, but it is worth the effort;
9) Spending time together will help you get to know your friends well and you will feel comfortable sharing feelings;
10) A good friendship will make you feel good about yourself.What should their parents do when teenagers make friends?
A.Do nothing but give them all the freedom. |
B.Talk with them and give some help. |
C.Decide and choose friends for them. |
D.Stop them from making friends with opposite gender. |
Which point is about how to end a friendship?
A.Point 3. | B.Point 4. | C.Point 5. | D.Point 6. |
Which of the following is NOT needed in making friends?
A.Honesty. | B.Effort. | C.Lies. | D.Skills. |
Who is the passage mainly written for?
A.Teachers. | B.Parents. | C.Preteens. | D.Teens. |
Which of the following statement is true?
A.Friends never hurt each other. |
B.There is no need to forgive friends. |
C.Teenagers are allowed to have many friends. |
D.Girls should never make friends with boys. |
When you travel in Hong Kong,you must be careful of the traffic rules,because the traffic keeps to the left and it’s different from that of the interior(内地)of China.Before crossing the street,you must look to the right and then to the left. If the traffic lights are red,the traffic must stop, people can cross the zebra line.If the traffic lights turn green,the traffic can go,people must not cross the road.
In the morning and in the evening,when people go to or come from work,the streets are very busy.The traffic is the most dangerous.
When you go somewhere by bus in Hong Kong,you have to be careful,too. Do remember the traffic keeps to the left.Have a look first,or you may go the wrong way.
In Hong Kong, there are a lot of big buses with two floors. You’d better sit on the second floor.From there you can enjoy the city. How wonderful it is!
In Hong Kong the traffic moves __________.
A.on the right | B.on the left |
C.in the middle | D.in the park |
When you cross the street, you must look to ____ first.
A.the front | B.the right |
C.the left | D.B and C |
If the traffic lights are red, _______.
A.the people must stop |
B.the traffic must stop |
C.the people and the traffic must stop |
D.the traffic and the people must wait |
It is ______ to cross the streets in the morning and in the evening.
A.dangerous | B.interesting |
C.easy | D.safe |
You can see the city very well on the _____ floor of the bus.
A.first | B.second |
C.third | D.fourth |
The best way of learning a language is using it. The best way of learning English is talking in English as much as possible. Sometimes you’ll get your words mixed up and people will not understand you. Sometimes people will say things too quickly and you can’t understand them. But if you keep your sense of humor (幽默), you can always have a good laugh at the mistakes you make. Don’t be unhappy if people seem to be laughing at your mistakes. It’s better for people to laugh at your mistakes than to be angry with you, because they don’t understand what you are saying. The most important thing for learning English is: “Don’t be afraid of making mistakes because everyone makes mistakes.”What is the best way for you to learn a language according to the writer?
A. writing. B. using it. C. listening.What should you do in learning English?
A. Write as quickly as you can.
b. Speak English as much as you can.
C. Laugh more often.When people laugh at your mistakes, what should you do?
A. Not care.
B. Be happy.
C. Feel worried.What should you do when you make a mistake?'
A. Keep quiet.
b. Get angry.
C. Keep your sense of humorWhat can we learn from the passage?
A. Anyone will make mistakes.
B. People never make mistakes.
C. Few people make mistakes.
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There is nobody in the world that is exactly like you: you are unique(唯一的).
That makes the world interesting. There are people who are taller than you. Maybe your hair is the same color as your friend’s, but perhaps yours is longer than hers.
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I am sure you have friends who are smarter than you.
But there are also people around you who are not good at these things.
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Do you both like to finish your homework in the same day you get it ? Are you both neat(爱整洁的)? I think in some ways you are the same, but in some other ways you are different.
So shout to the world, “I am who I am – I am unique!” It takes all sorts to make a world.
A. Are you the same as your best friend? B. And you also have friends who are as good at sports as you. C. Everybody is different from others. D. Another difference is that your hair may be straight and hers may be curly. E. However, you can also become good friends. F. No one likes to have friends who are smarter than him. G. Different people make our world colorful. |
Paul loves his wife and children very much, and they love him, too. However, it isn’t easy to live with Paul. He gets angry easily, and he doesn’t have many friends. Paul’s wife, Linda, is very different. She’s always smiling and kidding. She likes to tell jokes and make people laugh. She’s never quiet for long and hardly gets angry. She has a lot of friends. Paul and Linda often fight(争辩)about their children. Linda thinks Paul is too strict with them. he shouts at them a lot. He forgets that they’re only children. Paul thinks Linda is too easy(随和的)with the children, and she always lets them do whatever they want to do, but that’s not right, Linda, however, corrects(纠正)the children when it’s necessary, and they listen to her. She doesn’t shout at them, but they obey(服从)her. She’s very kind and patient.
Paul’s wife and children find it difficult to live with Paul because he .
A.always invites many friends home |
B.talks too much |
C.is outgoing and athletic |
D.gets angry easily |
Linda has friends than Paul.
A.more | B.much | C.fewer | D.many |
The children .
A.don’t love their father |
B.are strict with their father |
C.do whatever their father asks them to do |
D.like their mother’s ways of treating(对待)them |
From the passage, we know .
A.Linda and Paul don’t love each other |
B.Paul doesn’t think it is right to let the children do whatever they want to do |
C.Linda always shouts at her children |
D.Linda and Paul often fight mostly because he has no friends |
My sister and I are very different. When people meet us both, they are always surprised to learn that we are sisters. This is because we don’t look like each other we have different personalities, and our lifestyles are different.
Do you resemble your brother or sister? My sister and I don’t resemble each other at all. I am tall, but she is very short. I have short dark brown hair and green eyes. She has long blonde hair and blue eyes. I am strong, but she is not. I have big hands and feet, her hands and feet are very small. When we were kids, she was thin, but I was heavy. Now we are both heavy.
We also have opposite personalities. She is always stressed out. I am calmer and more outgoing. She is very worried about what other people think and say about her, but I really don’t care. When she has a problem, she just worries about it. But when I have a problem, I try to fix(解决)it. She easily gets angry, especially(尤其是)with our mother. But I am more patient(耐心的).
Our lifestyles are very different. I love old things and hardly ever go shopping. But she goes shopping twice or more a week. I have cats. She has a dog. I read. She watches TV.When people meet the writer and her sister, they are always surprised to learn
The writer and her sister are different in ways.
The writer’s sister hashair.
The writer’s sister is very worried about about her.
Do the write and her sister have the same personalities?
Find the topic sentence of the passage and copy it down. (找出文章的主题句并抄写下来)
Translate the underlined sentence into Chinese. (将划线的句子翻译成中文)
The underlined word “heavy” in the passage means in English.